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hstry1998’s Posts

Topic: RE: A good clinic or hospital in the Dallas area?
I am traveling for work and am not feeling the greatest.  I am in the Dallas area and am looking for a good clinic or hospital that will know about RNY issues.  Anyone have any suggestions?
    
Topic: RE: Good bye 400s!!!
Had a follow up visit with my PCP today and weighed in at 396! Plus, even being down 1 blood pressure medication since my surgery, my BP was normal. 2 weeks out and this was a great day. Still a little sore, and trying to get in my exercise, but liquids are going well. Though the pureed chicken I tried last night sat in my puch like a brick.
    
Topic: RE: Gas from drinking the laxative
Going through the same thing tonight.  I had gas for awhile, then the fun stuff hit me. 
    
Topic: RE: Finally!
Well after all of the waiting and planning, the surgery day is finally tomorrow!  Very excited, but also alittle nervous at the same time.  Looking forward to my new life!
    
Topic: RE: Help after surgery?
So I was supposed to have surgery on a Wed, released on a Friday and have the weekend with my wife helping.  Now they have rescheduled my surgery to a Monday, with a Wed release.  My question is, how much help will I need on the Thursday and Friday after surgery after I am home.  Does my wife need to take these days off?
    
Topic: RE: Surgery Scheduled
Got the approval from insurance today, and surgery is scheduled for 2/8/12.  Excited and nervous all at the same time.  Just wanted to share.
Topic: RE: Support from others
So my wife was super support of my getting the surgery and has been very encouraging along the way.  She has always fought with anxiety, but ever since we meet with the surgeon last week, she has been really anxious and I am afraid to talk to her about anything surgery related as it gets her really worked up to the point that I don't want to share anything.
I had my last meeting with the dietician today and am only 2lbs away from my pre surgery goal weight and am just waiting for insurance approval.  But I worry that with her stressing out and me not be able to talk to her, that I will lose the support I need to make it out of surgery and the support I need to make the weight loss successful.  I don't want to put off surgery as I am ready now, but can not do this with out her.  Any suggestions?
    
Topic: RE: Fear of Failure (especially for newbies)
Thanks for the post Kelly.  As a newbie that is waiting for insurance approval and wondering if I am making the right decision, it really helped to solidify my decision to have this surgery.  It is not a magic wand approach, but a tool to help with my lifestyle changes.  Thanks for your encouraging words.
Topic: RE: Now it is time to wait
Well, I had my first meeting with my surgeon today, and while I was worried with the holidays and all of my family parties, I was actually down 4 pounds in less than 2 weeks.  With that, they send my paperwork into my insurance for approval.  I guess I now get to play the waiting game.  After approval, they set my surgery day.  My surgeon thinks it could be middle to end of Jan.  Oh my.
    
Topic: RE: ~~~Concerned~~~
My family also has get togethers that revolve around food.  I have not yet had my surgery, but have had coversations with both my parents and my in laws about atleast having healthier options available at the get togethers at home, and with Thanksgiving and Christmas it has been a very positive experience.  I have also stopped bringing my junk food to share (cookies, chips, etc) and brought veggie trays to both events.  This atleast allows be to control some of the food content.
As far as eating out goes, my wife and I have enjoyed trying new dishes that we normally would not have tried like fish or lighter fares, and have taken to splitting some entrees when we go out.  We have also tried some new places to eat.  Another thing that I have done is to ask the server to only bring out a part of the dish and box up the rest so that I never see it until the end when we are leaving.
Hang in there.  We are all doing this for a reason and looking to have a better, healthier life.
    
Topic: RE: Getting Nervous
Thanks for the sarcasm Kelly :)   I know it is normal, I just needed to get it out there.

I am worried about being put under, I am worried about how I am going to handle the pain, if any (I am kind of a softy when it comes to pain), and while I know they are rare, I am worried about complications.  I have enjoyed ready all of the success stories, and am excited about my future, and am preparing for the changes, but can't get the very few negatives out of my head.  I worry about how my wife will handle the stress.
Topic: RE: Getting Nervous

So I have done alot of research on the surgery and have been to 3 appointments with the nut, and have lost over half of the weight they require before the surgery can be done.  I now have an appointment with my surgeon tomorrow.  I am really nervous as it is becoming "real" now.  I want to have the surgery, am excited to have it, am prepared to have it, but can't get the nerves out of my head.  Is this normal?
    
Topic: RE: Can't stop eating
So I am new to this online forum, and am currently in the process of my preop weight loss.  After 1 month, I lost just over 6 lbs, and my PA wants me to lose 20 overall.  I have started increasing my activity level to help with the weight loss, but find myself being more hungry and I seem to be eating all the time.  I am trying to eat healthier and use portion control, but it only seems to leave me more hungry and craving food.  Any suggestions?