Topic: RE: According to a friend at work....I cheated. :( I'm sorry she said that to you. I guess others weren't raised the way my mom raised me that if you don't have anything nice to say don't say anything at all.
I've read what lora replied and your responses and I must say I understand both points. However the surgery didnt get me to goal by itself, it took work, mentally and emotionally. I don't dump, so I still had to make choices of a protein shake for breakfast vs. a donut. It's like using a drill to tighten a screw instead of a screwdriver, it still takes work, it's jusr more efficient. And as time goes on success is from work, or nobody would ever have regain.
Ignore the haters and embrace the supporters and just keep working the program. However it bothers me that a health professional has the viewpoint of your coworker so don't write her off use this opportunity to educate her before her position places her in the place of taking care of a wls patient who could be hurt by the ignorance of her on a life saving/altering surgery.
5' 3" - HW: 244 SW:234 GW:120 CW:110 Made goal 3/16/13!