Hi: Suitebliss
You have come this far, DON'T GIVE UP NOW, it will not help you or us. When we start on this journey, we are not alone, you / I have a whole lot of folks reading and following your every step, just to see how they will do when they go on their own journey. Do whatever it takes to stay focused on you goals. No one on OH will ever say that getting to the losers bench is easy nor a walk in the park, it takes lots of hard work.
Don't worry I pray for all my OH brothers & sisters everyday, that's my duty as a Christian man.
Godspeed.
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