You cannot belong to anyone else, until you belong to yourself. - Pearl Bailey

MayPenGirl
on 8/31/15 6:02 am - Atlanta, GA
VSG on 04/03/13

Finding and beginning a new relationship can be difficult. It is particularly difficult when we are carrying baggage from past relationships. We are told that it is not good to carry past relationships into the current ones. You know that. But how do you free yourself from that which is a part of you? You don’t! Yet you can unpack the baggage. You can take a look at the pain, guilt, fear. You can look it dead in the face and see what it is, for what it is – the past. It’s over. Without shame, without blame, you must look at what happened and know it does not have to happen again. It is only when you refuse to look, refuse to release, that you will have experiences added to your baggage collection. There is another point you often forget when moving into a new relationship: No matter how painful the past has been, you made it through.  

 Today, I Am unpacking. – Iyanla Vanzant

        

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