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Topic: RE: Down 4 or more pants sizes
What an awesome NSV, Khess! I'm so excited for you!

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Take that, evil stall!
I can't say for sure that my stall is broken yet, because in my mind it's not broken until I get past the weight I was at when it started, but I am down a pound and a half in two days, which puts me exactly at my lowest post op weight to date.  Today may just be my last day of this particular visit to Stallville, as someone called it on a different thread... lol!

For those of you who are stalling right now, keep pushing, and don't give up.  Everyone says it will get better, and  know you get tired of hearing it, but it really will. 

And it's gonna be a great day, too!  Relaxing this morning will lead to a little thrift store/discount shopping with Sonjakp this afternoon.  Can't wait!

Happy Saturday, everyone! :)

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Pregnancy after VSG
The main reason they recommend waiting so long postop to get pregnant is to make sure you can get in enough nutrition for you and the baby to both be healthy. While some do get pregnant before that time, and most of them are able to go full term without problems, that's one of those better safe than sorry type things. My husband's surgeon said to wait a year before trying... he said that in front of a group that included a couple of women who were about to have surgery, so 18 months really probably gives a little more cushion, just to be safe.

Actually, wanting to get pregnant was one reason I went a head with my surgery. I wanted to give myself every opportunity to keep my baby healthy before I started trying, and that meant losing weight and having better blood sugar control.

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: SORRY if this is TMI... but just unsure
Are you certain the benefiber caused that? Could it be a coincidence?

I had constipation issues for about that long, and it took a combination of benefiber and miralax (not taken at the same time, but on the same day) several days to get things comfortable again. Everyone is different, but I'm not sure I would peg that kind of reaction on the 3 grams of fiber in that serving.

Just a thought...

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Mushies for me!!!
Enjoy! I get to start solids on Sunday... can't wait!

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: 1 mo post op been feeling fine not so good today
I'm only about as far out as you are, but I would give it a few days before jumping to conclusions about a stricture. I find that some days I am hungrier than others, and my dr said that is normal. Maybe you just had a "full" day today.

See how you're feeling tomorrow, and if things aren't better soon, nothing wrong with calling the dr to be sure.

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: congrats or sabotage?
Sounds to me like she doesn't quite "get you" right now. She probably thinks she was being nice by saying you didn't look like you needed to lose 100 pounds in the first place. And as far as the chocolate cake goes, isn't that what a good chunk of people who have not had wls do to celebrate- eat?

I agree with AnnMarie. I would find something fun to do and ask her to join in.

Congrats on the huge loss, btw!

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Sleeved March 28.... questions
Well, everyone else calls it the "three week stall" because it usually happens around week 3.  Mine started a week early and hasn't let up yet :/  Makes it very hard to want to stay on track right now!  But I keep pushing because I know it'll have to start up again eventually... right???

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Sleeved March 28.... questions
I was sleeved on 3/29 and am stalling as well. Have been for 15 days now. Two friends of mine who got sleeved around the same time (one the same day and one the next day) have broken their stalls, so I'm hoping mine is just around the corner lol.

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Questions about immediate post-op period
At a week out, most of our plans do not allow for anything beyond full liquid, and that's with the more liberal plans. I was not allowed soft or pureed foods until I was at day 21. It sucked big time, but there's no way I could have handled pureed soups my first week postop. If your plan says you can have those things this soon, then okay... but be careful.

Keep experimenting with different protein drinks until you find one you like. I know how hard it is to be a picky eater early out, as I'm extremely picky too, but the fluid and the protein are a must. Keep trying.

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Attention New-ops- About that first "Stall"
Jo,

THANK YOU for making sure this post was visible this morning!

I did not see this the first few times you bumped it... been busy with work and grad school assignments here lately... and I am really getting discouraged because I'm on day ten of my first stall right now. I wasn't going to post a thread about it, because so many others already have and I figured I would get the same responses they did, so no need to post it again, but it has really been upsetting, try as I am to not let it affect me.

It's funny, because before surgery, I never had those worries of "what if this doesn't work for me?" but now... now I'm finding myself wondering if I really just spent ten grand (between surgery and airfare) to only lose 17 pounds.

I see myself revisiting this post to re-read it frequently in the next few days. Thanks again!

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Awkward NSV... and a reminder of what's to come
Lol!  Isn't that funny... what they notice at different ages?  Go figure!

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Total scale victory!!!!
That's great! Congrats!

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Awkward NSV... and a reminder of what's to come
Thanks!  :)

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: United Hethcare
Reimbursement means being paid back for something. Usually that means that you have to pay out of pocket and then they cut you a check for their share. I'm not sure why a procedure would only be eligibile for remibursement, though, unless maybe that dr is out of network

Sounds to me like you need to call back and hope to talk to someone who can clarify a little better.

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: United Hethcare
Yep... every plan is different. I also have UHC and my insurance excludes all types of wls. The only way to get any real information about your insurance is through the insurance company or your surgeon's insurance coordinator.

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Awkward NSV... and a reminder of what's to come
Haha!  The hair comments started about a week ago... but in all fairness, I was experimenting with how I wore my hair each day, so they were right about that part.

My students are mostly 9th and 10th graders, with a few upperclassmen who are repeating one of those two other grade level literature courses.  Oddly enough, the male students I was referring to are each in a different grade level;  the 9th grader made a comment to the rest of the class about me being "pretty and stuff now," the 10th grader was laying it on thick (he did this last year too... had him two years in a row, and both times that I started losing weight he behaved like this), and then the 11th grader called me "gorgeous" lol. 

I'm fine with it right now, but I don't want there to be so much focus on me and my new appearance that the focus of the classes gets skewed, nor do I want to be in the spotlight all the time. 

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Awkward NSV... and a reminder of what's to come
Thanks, D! :)

The good news is that, once I finish my last research paper of the term (which I am taking a break from working on now), I should have a lot more time to focus on this type of thing.  School gets out in about a month, so that gives me a few weeks to think through exactly what I would be looking for in a counselor and time to try and set up my first appointment near the end of the year.  Really the timing is perfect.

I'm glad you follow exactly what I'm talking about here.  I don't want anyone to misunderstand me on this one... but there is definitely an element of awkwardness, especially when I am in my 20's and the students are in high school, and the three students who complimented me today are all male.  Teachers already get such a bad rap for the behavior of a few bad apples in the bunch... so I definitely need to figure out how to work through this.  Time to put together my strategies to keep this from becoming a problem.

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Awkward NSV... and a reminder of what's to come
Thanks Penny!  Emotional struggles have always been my biggest obstacle.  Time to fight back.  :)

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Awkward NSV... and a reminder of what's to come
Thanks Judy :)  That vote of confidence means a lot. 

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: surgery again tomorrow
So sorry you're having to go through this, but I have to admit that the song reference made me giggle. And now I have it stuck in my head too... thanks!

Good luck!

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Awkward NSV... and a reminder of what's to come
About this same time last year, I was thriving on my plan with Weigh****chers.  The pounds had been melting away all winter long, and all of a sudden I had a new wardrobe of cute clothes that, inadvertently, showed off my newly slimmer figure.  Because I started feeling so much better, I also suddenly had the desire to wear makeup more often, which is something I don't do when I'm not feeling so great. 

That was about the same time that I started noticing that my students, as well as coworkers, were commenting more and more about my loss and how great I looked.  Nothing negative coming from them at all... but it weirded me out, because I was suddenly getting a ton of attention, even just in the form of compliments about an outfit or a hair style, etc.  Not something I'm used to. 

Then some of my male students started commenting about those things, and I got really uncomfortable for some reason.  In my heart of hearts, I know this was part of the reason I fell off the wagon soon after that.  I freaked out and started self sabotaging without realizing I was doing it.

Fast forward to today...

Not only did I have two coworkers comment that I would need a new wardrobe very soon, as they could tell how loose my outfit was, but I also had three, yes THREE, male students call me "pretty," "gorgeous," and "princess."  I know some of that, actually most of it, was just them being sweet, but it brought back all of those feelings that I never really dealt with before.

This made me realize two things:

1) Even though I have been stalling for about ten days now, I'm clearly making some kind of progress, because people are noticing (even if I'm not)
2) It may be time to get to a counselor very soon.  It's a good thing that the school year is almost up, and then I'll have all summer to work on this while my body changes even more.  Self sabotage is bad enough with Weigh****chers... I definitely don't want to have that problem now!

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: omg... help please! *ladies only*
Thanks! :)

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Plane trip booked!
Which surgeon are you using?

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)


 

Topic: RE: Painful
My pharmacist told me to take benefiber three times a day and that I could use the miralax at night, as long as I didn't take the two together I could take them on the same day. I also tried sugar free hard candies (just don't do too many of these at a time). The combination got me going more comfortably within a few days.

Also, get in as much fluid as you can. Seems like upping my fluids to 80 oz/day has helped significantly too.

    
Highest weight: 277 Starting Weight: 250  Surgery Weight: 241  Current Weight: 130

Goal Reached in 10.5 months :)