You fit in right here, with all the rest of us struggling. It is really hard when regular life and its problems invade on our well orchestrated post WLS life. We were in such amazing control as we went through the initial journey and lost all the weight. I know it is frustrating when it doesn't come easier anymore. Although the specifics may differ, the general feelings of frustration are common to us all. I am one who tries to find a positive in everything that is thrown in my path. Yes, you have 30 unwanted #s. But a little price to pay for the bundle you received in return. Hang in there ( and here ), you can do it!