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    webwilly
    RNY (04/03/12)
    Member Since: 07/26/11
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    I have talked with a bunch of people (friends & family) who have had RNY, and they keep telling me that since I'm young (33), the extra skin will "shrink" back compared to if I were older.

    Does that make sense?  I'm just wondering if I should expect the same results as someone older?

    I'm starting to get closer to the point where they'll give me my date.  I've completed my sleep study, xray, ultrasound, ekg, pft, blood work, pt, psychologist, dietician & (anti-)sleep study.  I have the behavior modification class left, and then hopefully wrap things up to get a surgery date.  

    So, before I get there, I figured I'd ask, just to see what I should expect.

    TIA!
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    mellasmomma0709
    IL
    Member Since: 12/30/10
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    I have always heard the same thing,Older skin has alot more damage in general so that does make sense.I think it all depends on how you carry your weight and all that.I know mine is worse in my tummy and my arms... but the more I workout and stuff the better it is looking.And I feellike since I started using lotion alot more it is making a differance as well. All and all I feel alittle lose skin is worth it.Good luck to you:)
    Loving this new life, just trying to figure it all out and take it all in day by day!!!
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    Twizzled D.
    Member Since: 10/10/11
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     Is there a specific brand of lotion you use, or some sort of ingredient to look for in lotion, that helps? Thanks!
    -Kristi

     HW: 315 (1/2007) Start Weight: 306 (9/24/2011)  Surgery 12/21/11 CW: 231.8              
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    straberryz
    Ottawa, Canada
    Member Since: 07/21/08
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    sounds crazy, and I havnt looked into it yet, but Ive heard from a friend that wrinkle cream will help tighten the skin....something with Retinoic acid ...aka retin a


    I think you can also get a high dose of retin a from a dr...im going to research it a little more but I think its  what ill be putting on my tummy, inner highs and arms soon (I have about 9-12months before date) till I loose the weight.


    It worked for my friend...or she just has awesome skin, and it would have turned out that way with or without the cream..hard to say.
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    Twizzled D.
    Member Since: 10/10/11
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     Thanks! I'll have to look into that. I had been on Retin A in my teens (For acne) and it turns out that pure plain ol' Retin A is too harsh for my skin - or at least it was then. Might stick with a wrinkle cream instead of going for the pure stuff. Thanks for the info :)
    -Kristi

     HW: 315 (1/2007) Start Weight: 306 (9/24/2011)  Surgery 12/21/11 CW: 231.8              
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    Jennichu
    sacramento, CA
    Member Since: 10/20/07
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     I will be honest with you.  The surgery is great and it will be so much better for your health.  I now know that they have us see psychologists for a reason.  The process happens so quickly that it can be challenging mentally, especially when it comes to extra skin.  I was 376 when I had my surgery at 25 years old.  My biggest problem to date is trying to cope with the extra skin.  Nobody else really seems to notice, but I do.  Maybe this is only my personal experience, but don't expect it to "shrink" back.  It will definitely move along with your body size, but there will more than likely be extra skin.  Don't let it discourage you from your surgery though...that is the best thing ever.  I would do it again 100 times if I had to.  Good luck!
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    webwilly
    RNY (04/03/12)
    Member Since: 07/26/11
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     Thank you so much for replying (sorry it took so long for me).

    I just finished my pre-op classes, now it's time to meet with the doctor, and then hopefully get my date.  The lotion is a great idea that I will definitely use.  

    The extra skin is something that I seem to be most concerned with, and want to do whatever I can to help tighten it up.  I'm not a vain person, but man, would I love to just go out & mow my lawn without my shirt on, or play some basketball & be on the skins team finally.

    Thanks again for the info.  Greatly appreciated!
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    heatherdw
    NC
    Member Since: 08/04/11
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    When you first start losing the weight the skin will sag quite a bit but it does tighten up over time.  Will it be nice and smoothe?  Probably not.  I can say that since my surgery my stomach skin isn't tight but it isn't as terrible as I thought it would be. 
    Heather, SAHM to 2 (ages 3 and 7), Student
           
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    webwilly
    RNY (04/03/12)
    Member Since: 07/26/11
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    I'm not too worried about it not being smooth.  I'm just wondering if I'll have this flap of skin for the rest of my life.  If so, it's something I'll deal with as a "side effect" of the surgery...there's always under armor shirts :)

    Just curious & wondering what to expect.

    Thank you!!!
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    KaramelBeautee
    RNY (02/01/12)
    Member Since: 03/02/11
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     Came across this post and was reading all the replies and responses that was left for you, and in my honest opinion it depends how u as an individual carry you weight before hand.. I honestly don't think anyone above 350 will really and honestly bounce back to that body we once adore. I say this because if u have been a more healthier person than the so called norm..our skin has been stretched beyond it limits for quite some time. I was 500lbs in Mar 2010. then Mar 2011 382 and date of surgery I was weighting at 387 (feb 1, 2012) and honestly i am not looking for my skin to be as is was before hand. But, i did inquire with Dr and he explain to me that in (Georgia) medicaid will pay to have the excess skin removed with a yr or 2. hope this help u out.

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    crystal C.
    lynn, MA
    Member Since: 04/30/08
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    I just saw this post, because this board isnt to active figured I would respond.  I have lost 130 pounds so far and I do not think my skin will ever "bounce" back.  Also no matter how much I am in the gym I do not think it is going to help.  My stomach isnt the worst but there is some.  My arms (upper) are the wrost and right under my armpits.  My whooohaaa area is really bad and my upper thighs.  But I would never change it, I am much happier a 130 pounds lighter!
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    Malibufox
    Bowling Green, KY
    Duodenal Switch (10/13/09)
    Member Since: 08/01/08
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    All I have to say is that I've lost 131 pounds, give or take a few. There is no way in hell that my skin is EVER going to bounce back. It hangs all over the place! Tummy,arms, thighs, butt, breasts...Pretty much the skin that WAS filled with fat has now deflated and turned into what my loving man calls my "Edgar Suit". lol It's really bad for me. I don't see how the skin would ever realistically be able to recoup from such a huge change in size and fill...but maybe some people are lucky. However, I wouldn't change a thing! I had the DS surgery in order to stave off the horrible side effects and TOTAL regain my Aunt and several friends had from the RNY surgery and I am truly thankful! I have never had any dumping, I've lost all of my weight going from 254 to 120...and I feel FANTASTIC!!! I highly recommend looking in to the DS before deciding on the RNY. Maybe browse around the revisions board and see how many people end up right back where they were BEFORE the RNY...I'm not trying to change your mind or persuade your decision, but every time I see someone still in the process before surgery I try to tell my story and how happy and thankful I am for having the DS instead of the RNY. Good Luck!!!





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    NancyL3
    Derry, NH
    Member Since: 08/03/08
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    I am 2 and 1/2 months out and its true to some point. I still find in some spots I have the extra skin, under my arms is one, but I am still working on that. I have been told that no matter what you will always have extra skin, because you loss it so fast with the surgery and you have years of extra skin that not all of it will shrink. Drink and Drink water, the more what the better, I hate to say I still have issues with water but I drink more then 60 oz of crystal light a day, since there is no sugar or calories its like drinking water. I also lotion with just regular lotions daily. 

    There are some great firming lotions, they help and some lotions that deal with cellulite that work. I used those before and it helped. But you have to think about how long you have been over weight and realized that your skin has been stretched for that long so its not going to go back the way you would like but it will a little. I have been wearing a tank top that is suppose to help with inch loss, I wear it every day for all but 2 hours of the day, I don't know if its making a difference because my stomach seems to be the only place I haven't lost any weight yet.

    I hope some of this helped. Good luck!!
                
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