1. What are your plans for your honey on Valentines?
Honestly, I kind of forgot about Valentine's day. I see my boyfriend on Thursday's and I kind of figured I would give him something then but I am supposed to be having surgery on Wednesday so I wasn't really thinking about it. Anyway, he came over yesterday with the sweetest card he has ever given me in over 16 years. I got tears reading it because i knew it was from his heart. He has been going through really rough times with his family business and a lot of internal problems as is usually the case when a family has a business together but this has gotten very ugly, to the point where his mother actually went to court to have her own grandson fired from the business. Her own grandson! Who just had his first child. She spent thousands to get him fired. I just don't get it. That is ugly. Anyway, it gets worse believe it or not. And they have been in business for over 40 years. So my boyfriend is trying to get the funds to buy out the business.
My boyfriend has always been very generous with me. Always takes me out to nice places and buys very thoughtful, nice gifts but lately he hasn't really been able to do as much. He also treats my daughter as his own since he has known her since she was a baby and her own father passed away. He is the only father she has ever known. He even talked about adopting her at one point. He brought her a card that said "To my daughter on Valentine's day" and a box of candy. He didn't get me candy because he knows I can't eat it.
Back to the card. In the card it talked about how he would give me the world if he could but since I can't I will give you all that is mine to give - my hopes, my dreams, and my love... always my love.
That meant more to me then anything he has ever given me because I knew it was sincerely from his heart. I still get tears in my eyes when I read it. I really do have the best boyfriend in the world. He has stood by me in my darkest times, when I was 240 lbs, when I was so sick I literally couldn't function, when my sex drive was non existent and we would go months without sex. I know, TMI, but true.
To answer your question, kind of, let me say that my sex drive has returned and we celebrated in the best way we have in years. Enough said. Or too much.
2. What is your favorite chocolate goodie now, WLS friendly?
Still love chocolate, especially dark chocolate. I treat myself to sugar free occasionally but I have to watch the sugar alcohols. I wish I could find dark chocolate with Splenda. I do make treats with Hershey's unsweetened special dark chocolate powder, like protein shakes and drinks.
3. Card? Candy? Flowers?
See above. I will get him a card but I think he was very happy with my gift








I don't usually overdo the emoticons but, well, like I said, it was special.
ETA Where is that fireworks emoticon?