I so agree with you about how the Main Board has been- I got flamed as a newbie and it got my back up.

I've been working at getting it cleaned up over the last couple of weeks. The moderators are beginning to take firm action, long overdue. I hope it continues.

Anyhow, you might find it a safer, kinder place to be now- come check it out!

OMG, you look AWESOME! That is a lot of very hard work! You should be so proud of yourself!

Welcome home & welcome to the Loser's Bench! We're all rooting for you!

Got it. But I'm having an interesting time playing. I'm not in it for results, I'm in it for the practice.

Certainly I'm driving them nuts. Good lesson I learned- keep the upset over there.

I'm referring to the large number of people there.

I am under no illusions of nor desire to change anyone, particularly the old vets.

Just want to speak my piece and see what happens. I like strategy games, especially constructive ones.

Bless you for your sharing and support, Ladytazz. I have often heard you as one of the wiser, kinder voices wherever you post. My heart goes out to you in your struggle, and you are so courageous in how you deal with it.

I love it here for my support, and the RNY and Main Boards for contributing what I can. I am a tough old bird, and I can take on a lot, especially with people who have my back.

I look forward to getting to know you better!

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((((((((hugs & hugs &hugs)))))))))))

Meg's brilliant suggestion works! Hallelujah!

Hi, Chris, I can't hit "reply" to you because I am on my iPad.

I just want to reassure everyone here that I will be on this forum only for support. That this forum is a supportive, drama-free place is why I love it. I don't look for agreement and I do care deeply about constructive, workable, caring support.

Oh, I love your guts, woman!

If you do do counseling, have him do the research and set up the appointment. I would suggest checking out a couple of different people in order to find someone who you feel comfortable with.

Keep swinging!

I have adult ADD, and occasionally take Adderall when I need to do heavy paperwork.

My surgeon said there was no contraindication.

As I have said on the Main Board, I have been running a personal experiment on abuse and why people have such a hard time standing up to it, let alone maintaining a stand.

Man o man, I have gotten some excellent information, but the experience has been pretty painful! I'm doing fine, but could use some hugs and kisses, or firm support if you think that is called for...