Hello,
My husband had gastric bypass in Feb.  He has lost 130lbs. since his surgery, and it has been a total change in our marriage!  Good, bad and very emotional! Wanting some support on dealing with it all! I haven't found any support groups for spouses where I live, and its just been rough not being able to have support and understanding from someone who is going thru it! 

 You might try contacting the surgeon's office that did your husband's surgery and ask if they are aware of any support group for spouses or if spouses are welcome to their support group meetings. Good luck!