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krhanson0222
on 10/26/14 7:00 am - MI

Note before I "paste" - I am so happy to have found this group!  This is right where I need to be! Now here is my story:

I was sleeved Oct 2008.  HW: 340 LW:192 CW: 238.  I sat at my lowest weight for probably less than 6 months, and it was because I had a tummy tuck and they cut 9lbs of skin off.  My goal weight has always been 190, but I just let that go when I stayed around 200.  Then I got to 210, and that made me unhappy, but I didn't change any habits.  Three weeks ago, I weighed myself and I was at 242. That was the kick in the pants that I needed, but first, I need to discuss how I got here.

I was never really taught what maintenance meant.  I have had a pretty rough go, complication-wise, and so far 2014 is the first year that I haven't had surgery of some kind. (All mostly minor, except for the TT)  I didn't know how to transition back into real life, and I got too excited about being able to eat just about everything.  It took me at least 4 years to realize that sleeve patients "dump" and how to read my body and understand when I was going too far.  I have really decreased my discomfort/nausea/dumping since, but it was a hard road to learn that.  I did see an amazing woman who was a nutritionist/addiction counselor/therapist, and she helped me when I was at the 2-3 year out period.  She taught me about the Beck Diet Solution, which was really helpful to me for a while, and got me to my lowest weight pre-TT. 

After the TT, I ended my 8 year relationship, because I felt held back.  Also, I was suddenly getting attention from people, and I needed to explore that.  I was 23 at the time, and this was the only relationship I had, starting at 15.  I needed to sow those wild oats, I guess.  I started drinking and clubbing.  I did not develop an addiction transfer, thank god (I've never really liked to drink - too much of a control freak).  I started dating someone else.  I was on top of the world. I was hovering around my lowest weight.  Slowly, however, I let everything I had learned go, and the only thing that was stopping me from gaining all of my weight back was the restriction (which is pretty easy to eat around, if you want to).  No tracking calories, no exercising, no caring about my body.  I was happy, in love, and loving life. 

I honestly don't even know how I got to 242.  My journey has been one of extremes.  VSG in 2008 gave me the dramatic loss, then I worked really hard for the TT in 2011 because I wanted as much skin off as possible.  I worked out every single day, and busted my butt.  Hiatal hernia surgery in 2013 caused a little weight loss, because I was on liquids again,  but I went back to regular eating habits right after.  It has been constant ups and downs, with the lesson that only surgery = weight loss.  I know this is not right/healthy, and I need to find my way back. 

Three weeks ago, I joined the Jillian Michaels DietBet.  I bought a scale for the first time in years.  Scales are not good for me, and they cause a ton of obsession/depression/anxiety.  Multiple health professionals have told me to not weigh myself more than once per month, if at all.  Well, stepping on that scale and seeing 242 was like a stake through the heart.  242.  2. 4. 2.  Forty.  My weight involves the number "forty".  So unacceptable.

So now, I am back on the journey.  I am using routine, and planning to take the anxiety out of eating.  I am journaling using MyFitnessPal and I am back to exercising 5-7 times per week.  So far, I have lost 4lbs in 3 weeks.  I have to get used to not pulling big numbers of loss, because that is never going to happen again.  I need to learn how to do this on my own.  I have been eating 1400ish calories for the past 2 weeks, and it's been pretty easy, I've gotten the routine down.  Now it's time to shave off another 200 calories. I am going to do protein bar or greek yogurt for breakfast, shake for lunch, cheese with apple or carrots for snack, sensible protein/veggie dinner, and a shake for late snack.

I know that this is something I can stick to.  There was a serious hump that I had to get over around the 10 day mark, but I made it.  I will conquer this addiction.  I am getting married in January, and I really want to have the best body I can, and be the healthiest I can.  I am probably going to lose the DietBet (I would need to lose 6 more lbs in 10 days), and I am not going to do another.  While very supportive, that community is way too obsessed with the number on the scale, and not WLS-friendly, so I am going to be back here for support. 

I promise, I won't always post long rants like this, but I've been gone for a while, and I have a lot to get off of my chest. I need to act and eat more like a newbie anyways, so hopefully I have found where I belong.  If you made it through this, thanks for reading.  If no one reads this, the simple act of writing it all out has been so, so helpful.

Kristen

 

diane S.
on 10/26/14 7:07 am

great post.  scroll back through some of the older posts for the tips on maintenance.  congrats on your wedding.  go back to the program in your weight loss days. and learn to face the scale.   i weigh daily now to avoid any creep up.  but while trying to loose, too much weighing is not so good.   my own rules are: no carbs from bread, rice potatoes or pasta, choose protein regularly, and no sweets.   the longer you do it the easier it gets.  gl    diane


      
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stephanieplum
on 10/26/14 7:27 am
VSG on 06/27/12

Welcome! Come back often!   I'm dealing with some regain myself...I'd like to get 10-15# off again.  I've going back to basics...high protein, low carb; white carby junk.  

Good Luck!

    

Spencerella
on 10/26/14 3:34 pm - Calgary, Alberta, Canada
VSG on 10/15/12

Glad to have you here!

 

LINDA                 

Ht: 5'2" |  HW 225, BMI 41.2  |  CW 115, BMI 21.0

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