the back burner for NOW . We found out 6-9-08 Bob has Prostate Cancer . It's ok we ned to focus on him for now . Am i pissed YES do i feel selfish YES. We have an appt on the 25th to discuss options for him . Please Pray for us cause we have had our fair share of bad luck this year on 2-9-08 he lost his job . I did have a fantastic birthday though we went to VA Beach . I really am blessed .