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T. Paul Singh, M.D.
Dr. Singh was amazing. Giving me more time than I could have imagined. He explained that doing the surgery on me would be no problem, however, he did express a great deal of concern about my history of dvt's & being coombs+. He scheduled a date for me, but will consult with my dr and the hematologist prior to my next meeting with him 12/4. He wants to plan a post operative plan for me with regard to my problems and potential complications.

I found him attentive and caring. He was very honest and sincere. I appreciate his preparing me for possibly not be able to have this surgery if no viable post operative plan can be safely arrived at.
Obviously he is concerned as much if not more about aftercare than the actual surgery. He truly earned my utmost respect.

His office person (Debbie) was friendly and warm. She gave me a list of a couple of things I need to provide and a number and invitation to call her if I needed anything else.

1/4/05 - Dr Singh said all is a go and is going to talk with hemotology and make a decision about filter. He will follow up (both had vacations during the holidays)with me if I need to have it done.

2/11/05 - Dr. Singh was so caring and wonderful throughout all of my complications. I am confident that all of the complications were just my body. Had I had a lesser surgeon I am not sure I would be here to tell about it.

Dr. Singh is caring, gives you all the time to answer questions. Explained everything to me and my family. Amazing to me was that when he wasn't in the hospital he was on the phone so often. He really kept on top of everything. I can not imagine the hours he must put in.

I love him, thank him and highly recommend him.
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  • Cards - Love playing poker. Hope to someday be in the World Poker Tour
  • Gambling - See above :>
  • Bowling - I bowl in a league. average around 145. highest game a 191
  • Camping - Have a 38ft RV on a permenant site near Saratoga NY.Spend a lot of my summer
  • American Sign Language - I have studied and worked in the deaf community. My skills are very rusty

Latest Surgery Support Comments

  • Comment by SueKr on 3/12/06 7:16 pm
    Mary J - I am in Kathleen's support group with you and need to know asap the website and local distributor for Stallone puddings. You know the one Mary talks about at the meeting. I have to go away Tues 3/14 so hope you can find the resource for me. If you can call it would be a great help. Thank you so much for all you have done to give me hope. Sue Krempa Schenectady
  • Comment by Alice W. on 1/25/05 4:16 am
    Hello Mary J~~~~WELCOME to the lighter side of life. Sit back, adjust your seatbelt and breathe deeply. This will be the journey of a lifetime. What a special gift you have given yourself. A brand new healthier and happier lifestyle awaits you!! Wishing you all the very best and may all your dreams come true!! --
  • Comment by nydiana on 1/24/05 8:34 pm
    My husband, Jonathan and I went to see Mary J today. She is still in the hospital one week after her bypass surgery. She had some problems with blood clots in her stomach. This resulted in a couple of staples popping. Dr Singh had to do more surgery to fix the problem. She is still in ICU but as soon as they have a bed for her on the sixth floor she will move out of ICU. Her spirits are good. She would love to have some company. Mary tells me she expects to be out by Thursday. She hopes to stop down to the St Peter’s support group Tuesday night. She especially appreciated the well wishes from the group and all those who sent then via the Internet. Diana L
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3 years ago today
on January 17, 2008 4:37 pm

It is so hard to believe that 3 years have past since I had my surgery. I am still maintaining and doing well. Life seems so normal now. I do things I never dreamed of, wear clothes I only admired on others and just am generally LIVING my life. So much fuller than I would have believed possible.

My 2 sons are here in Florida visiting and we are all going on a cruise Sat for 9 days. I now know I can go and am confident that I will not gain weight. I am determined to eat healthy. My last cruise in 2004 was just before I made the decision to have bariatric surgery.

I remember eating like a pig and looking and feeling equally as bad. I have a picture here in a bathing suit on that cruise. I plan to try and recreate the shot with Bob and my new body. The old one is the one I use in my before shot. Wowser it makes me ill.

So happy anniversary to me today and my Thanks to Dr. T. Paul Singh and the fantastic staff at St. Peters Hospital (6th floor and especially the ICU) in Albany NY for getting through the complications alive. They were certainly the mosy scarey 19 days of my life.

 

 

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