Well, we did it, we moved to Florida! Amazing! I have never lived anywhere but upstate NY! This is such a shock to my system. Warm sunny days, being at the pool on Halloween LOL and not even cold anymore!

1/27/06

Home from plastics. They were done on the 25th and 2 days later I am home and feeling well.

Amazing! Only took one pain pill because I was so tired. Didn't really bother with the pump. I am a bit uncomfortable but can't say I am in pain.

Most uncomfortable are the drain tubes in the pubic area. I had Procedure: Belt Lipectomy; Bilateral Mastopexy; Bilateral Brachioplasty in conjunction with insurance approved Panniculectomy.

My tummy, butt and outer thighs are so flat, underarms not waving and the incisions are so straight and thin. Have not seems the breats yet. He will remove those bandages on Tuesday.

Surgery went shorter than expected. 8 hours instead of 10.

I am tired and will write more when I can. Weight is up to 139.

Mary







1/28/06

Had a great day. Feel terrific and amazed at how well I am doing post plastic surgery. Washed my hair (boy did that feel great). Still a LITTLE uncomfortable but overall just tired and occassionally having trouble getting comfortable after doing a little to much.

I am feeling the swelling going down. My hands and feet look normal again. Am able to comfortably get my Wedding ring back on.

Fluid must be going as I lost 7 lbs since yesterday and am now 132.I am already lower than pre plastic surgery weight. However my Tummy is 9 inches larger with the swelling. I have never ever lost weight that quickly so it must be the water leaving me from all the IV's I had in the hospital.



1/31/06

Saw Dr. King today. He removed the left hip drain which is great because now I can sleep on my left side which is so much better than just my aching back.

I lost 2 of the gained inches on my waist so the swelling is definately going down. My weight was 131. WOOHOO Lowest yet.

Well we unveiled the boobs. Ahhhhh they are so cute. Perky as all hell and they look great. I am really anxious to see how they look when fully healed. Dr. King is so pleased with the way I am healing and how my body is taking form. My arms are absolutely incredible I am thrilled. The tummy/butt is still swollen but flat, again looking awesome. So far I am extremely pleased. When Bob gets home from work I am going to take a LONG warm shower. Can't wait.

I go back again on Friday and hopefully maybe more drains will be removed. I am glad I choose a surgeon who uses stitches rather than staples. The incisions are thin and not to bad looking. I will try to take some pics tonight AFTER I shower LOL.

Hugs to all







2/4/06

Drains were removed yesterday and the healing is great!

Interesting stats since day of plastic surgery
Day of Surgery Home from Hosp Today
Weight 133 139 127
Waist Measurement 28 39 35

Things are improving so nicely. Anxious for all the post operative swelling to be gone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!







2/8/06

Weigt is down to 124. waist measurement is 32.5, 4, 5 more inches to get back to pre plastic surgery measurement. So the swelling is coming down nicely,

I am so pleased and can not believe it has only been 2 weeks since my plastic surgery. I feel great and am going back to work on Monday.

Stitches coming out on Friday.








2/10/06

Went to see Dr. King today. All my stitches came out :>

Said I was healing well. I am so very pleased. The main swelling that is left is in the lower abdominal and pubic area. He said that will come down and takes the longest. I see him again 3/4/06.

He said I could start back at the gym in about another week, and even try bowling. I may wait another 2 weeks for that I will try and see how I feel.

Back to work on Monday morning not sure if I will make it a full day, but I will try.






2/13/06

Weight down to 121. I need to stop losing.I am starting to look a bit drawn in.

Went back to work today and made it from 8:30-1:40. I am exhausted and uncomfortable. It was the longest I have been up and around since the plastics. I know my boss was not thrilled. I hope to last longer tomorrow.







2/26/06

Well it has been a month since my plastics. Still a little swollen in the lower tummy. Feeling great. I am able to wear all of my pre plastic clothing again and that feels good. Got my weight back up to 125 and that feels like where I want to stay. WHen I got lower I thought I looked a bit sick.

Had my 50th Birthday on Thursday. I am feeling fit at fifty :>





3/11/06

1 1/2 months post plastic surgery still a bit swollen but wow I am so much happier







4/09/06

Weight is still stable around 125. Plastics have healed very nicely. I am totally back to doing everything as I did pre plastic surgery. My wasit has gone back down and the swelling seems to be mostly gone. I occasionally still swell a little in the evening.

I am very happy were I am at this point.

I went shopping yesterday for capris for the summer. I am short and they never seem to fit right. Size 4 petites seem to fit best. I did learn something new....I went to the childrens department and tried on kids capris and they fit perfectly! They are short enough and 1/2 the price as the womens department!

So I bought 4 pair in the kids department LOL... I would never have believed this a year ago,

Life is good..no actually it is GREAT!








5/15/06

Maintaining at 125 lbs. All is well. Not really much new to report. Here are some pictures from Mothers Day (5/14/06) of me & my wonderful Husband Bob.










7/25/06

Still maintaining my weight at 124. Flew to Florida last Thursday and bought a house in Hudson on Saturday. It was a whirlwind trip.

Now we are getting ready to put our house on the market and move in the fall.

There is a bariatric unit in the hospital near our new home and they have support group meetings there. One thing I had checked out before taking the plunge.

It is a very scarey and exciting time. Hectic to say the least.



8/24/06

I saw Dr. Singh today since I will not be in NY in Jan for my check up with the upcoming move to Florida. He was very pleased with my results and ability to maintain thus far.

I had his secretary take a photo. It is quite blurry but I am posting it anyway. My shirt says "New and Improved" he laughed :>








9/14/06

20 months post op. Still maintaining at 125.

I am leaving Oct 2nd for my new home in Hudson, Florida. Have not sold my home in NY yet. I am excited, scared and a bit nervous. I have never lived away from NY before. If my home in NY sold it would be much easier. Bob and I will drive down in my car with whatever I can fit in it. I will stay in Florida. He will flfy home on the 17th and take care of things here. I hope it sells soon as I will be so lonesome without him.

Also financially it is going to be a strain with 2 mortgages and 2 households to maintain. I sure hope we get an offer soon.










9/20/06

I am doing great 8 months post op plastics. 125 lbs












9/26/06

I saw Dr. King yesterday. He is pleased with my healing. I need to massage my arms more. They still have a raised scar and I need to get it smoothed out. He feels it will still come down more with massage. I really like Dr. King and am so very happy I had him do my plastics.

I also went to my support group last night. I will truly miss the folks there. Many have been there as long if not longer than I have been there. I have made some great friendships there.

My friend and same day surgery buddy Michelle took me to dinner after and it was great to spend some time with her before I move. I fully intend to stay in touch. I will be back in NY next summer.

So now I need to continue to get ready for my move to Florida on Monday!

WEIGHT

229 3/04

218 1/17/05 Surgery day -11lbs pre surgery

197 2/17/05 1 MONTH -21 post surgery, 32 total

190 3/17/05 2 month -28 post surgery, 39 total

184 3/27/05 10 weeks -34 post surgery, 45 total

182 4/7/05 11 1/2 weeks -36 post surgery, 47 total

177 4/17/05 3 months -41 post surgery, 52 total

175 4/27/05 14 weeks, 2 days -43 post surgery, 54 total

172 5/17/05 4 Months -46 post surgery, 57 total

169 5/24/05 18 weeks, 1 day -49 post surgery, 60 total

167 5/31/05 19 weeks, 1 day -51 post surgery, 62 total

164 6/6/05 20 weeks -54 post surgery, 65 total

161 6/9/05 20 weeks, 3 days -57 post surgery, 68 total

159 6/29/05 23 weeks, 2 days -59 post surgery, 70 total

157 7/11/05 25 weeks -61 post surgery, 72 total

155 7/15/05 6 Months -63 post surgery, 74 total

153 7/26/05 6 mo, 9 days -65 post surgery, 76 total

149 8/17/05 7 Mos -69 post surgery, 80 total

147 8/23/05 7mos 1 week -71 post surgery, 82 total

143 9/13/05 7 mos 3 weeks -75 post surgery, 86 total

141 9/30/05 8mos 2 weeks -77 post surgery, 88 total

140 10/16/05 9 months -78 post surgery, 89 total

139 10/17/05 10 mos -79 post surgery, 90 total

136 11/25/05 10 mos, 8 days -82 post surgery, 93 total
NORMAL BMI****

134 12/17/05 11 mos. -84 post surgery, 95 total

1/25/06 PLASTIC SURGERY TODAY****

132 1/28/06 1 Yr, 1 wk -86 post WLS, 97 lbs total

129 2/2/06 1 yr, 2 wks -89 post WLS, 100 lbs total ****

127 2/4/06 1Yr, 2 wks+ -91 post WLS, 102 Total

124 2/8/06 1 yr, 3 wks -94 post WLS, 105 Total

121 2/13/06 1 yr, 4 weeks -97 post WLS, 108 total

124 7/24/06 1 yr, 6 mos -94 post WLS, 105 total




WHEN LIFE GETS YOU DOWN

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar...and the coffee...


A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.


So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.


The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."


The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.


"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, " I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things-your Faith, family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions-things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else-the small stuff.


"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18.

There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal."


Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no
matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."

In MY Life by The Beatles. Click here to Play the music. This is my favorite song ever.

*********PHOTOS AT THE BOTTOM OF MY PROFILE*********


3/1/04 - Today is offically day 1 in my journey. I logged into this web site again, this time I registered. I have been thinking about WLS for 1 1/2 -2 years. I believe I am ready to begin.

I am a 48 year old mother of 2 adult sons. I am married for 2 1/2 years to a wonderful man. He is supportive of my decision but afraid of the risks. He met me fat and loves me for the inside person I am. He accepts me with all of my flaws. He said if I do decide to continue he will be my cheerleader. (I knew that :> ) One of the many reasons I love him so much. He said he would love to see me more healthy and agrees I would also look so much better thinner, but he still said he would rather have me here and fat than gone. What a guy!

On 1/30 I went to the ER experiencing chest pressure. I had a 90% blockage in my heart and had a stent put in. Everything went well. I started seeing a nutritionist when I left the hospital.

When I returned home and thought about everything that I had just been through I realized what a wake up call I had just had.

I just turned 48 in February and I am not ready to start a long road of health issues due to obesity.

As of today I will start whatever wheels in motion to get on the road to better health. My weight at the hospital was 229.




3/2 Talked to my nutritionist and she is all for me having WLS and is more than willing to help me through the system. Also called my insurance co and they will cover this surgery :>

Called the surgeon I am interested in going to. His office said I need a referral from their nutritionist to schedule an appointment with him.

I called my nutritionist back and she knows the one they use (friends) and she is going to call her on my behalf to see what we can workout together.




3/3 Amy (my nutritionist) is waiting to hear from the surgeon's preferred nutritionist.




3/4 I went to my PCP today for a checkup. He will not be able to recommend me for surgery at this time. He said since I am on Plavix for the stent they just put in my heart there is no way he would clear me for this surgery at this time. Plavix is a blood thinner. He said see what my cardiologist says tomorrow about how long I will need to be on plavix and let him know what he says. He said he would like for me to be off it for several months before agreeing to the surgery. He said it would also be better if I have been with the nutritionist for a longer period of time.

So I am already having my first tear filled disappointment today. But that is ok. Having disappoinments will only make the other side taste sweeter when I get there.

Tomorrow I will let you know what the cardiologist says.



3/5/04 - Went to the cardiologist today. He concurs with my PCP that he will support this but not now. :<

He said I have to stay on the Plavix for 9 months non stop for the best interest of the stent he put in my heart last month. He said assuming I have no new health problems in that time he will recommend me for the surgery. He still wants me to continue with the nutritionist and try to loose some weight in that time.

catch 22 - If I loose more than 15 lbs I will no longer be eligible for coverage of this from my insurance company!

He gave me all the reasons for this in detail and I truly understand he has my best interest at heart, so I will have to be patient. GROAN




3/24/04 - Went to see a new doctor today to get started in his cardiac weight loss program (Dr. Lamansky). We talked for about an hour. He said he believes WLS is the way for me to go. Since I have been heavy all of my life, my chances at losing & keeping off weight via a diet were slim to none. He agreed I have tried all of them over the years. WOOHOOO he really listened and seemed to understand more about weight loss than anyone and I mean anyone I have ever met before.

He is a nutritionist and is going to call my regular Cardiologist to discuss my situation.

I am anxious to see if now I can get this ball rolling. He doesn't understand why I need to be on Plavix for 9 months (from the time the stent was inserted). I am trying not to get to excited as I know disappointments hurt but I am at least holding this thread alive :>

Will post again after I hear from him, after he talks to my regular Cardiologist.

p.s. he never did any of the follow up he promised (dr. Lamansky). What a disappointment. I thought he was going to be awesome. Oh well!




3/25/04

Tonight I went to the local support group. What a very amazing night. I met and chatted with so many wonderful folks. Got so much information. I felt welcomed and comfortable. I will definately be going there again.



3/30/04

Tonight I went to a seminar by Dr. Singh. It was very informative. It left me with a million more questions. The seminar was so crowded. I got a hugh packet of paperwork and information. He really does not prefer the open and gave reasons why. I thought I was set for open now I am not so sure. Many more things I need to investigate. So I think that is a good thing. He was very personable. I still would like more information so I need to do homework.




7/20/04

Today I had an appointment with Albany Clinical Nutrition. I was there for 3 hours. Met with the support doctors and nutritionist. The process has begun. I am planning at this stage to have Lap RNY with Dr. Singh at St. Peters Hospital in Albany.
Tonight I will be attending a support group there.

I have called to schedule an appointment with the psycologist and have called to have my cardiologist send copies of my blood work over to them. (Cardiologist will clear me in November, as long as no more problems occur).

I was very impresses with the staff at St. Peters Nutrition except they are a little disorganized.

Will update as more happens. Today's weight 224. I also went to the St. Peters Hospital support group tonight. Amazing group of people and very friendly. I will definately go again. I was made to feel very comfortable there.




7/26/04
Today I went for my Psycological Evaluation with Dr. Susan Klim. It went very well and she is send in a positive report. She has worked with WLS patients before and was incredibly comfortable to talk to.
One more baby step towards the other side completed.



7/26/04

Went to see Kathleen the Dietician today lost 1 more lonely pound :>



7/28/04
Went to the St. Peters Support group last night.
Today I went to my PCP and got the rest of my referrals. Made appointments for the rest of my required tests. They will take me through 9/30/04. So between now & then I need to get some more weight off and get all the approvals.

Found a good website for nutrition counts that I used before I went grocery shopping. dietfacts.com. It has brand names with all the nutrition counts.

My son told me they have had a few wls patients in his care since they started to do the bypass at St. Peters. He is a nurse in ICU. He helped me choose my other doctors for all my tests. That makes me feel better about the chioces. He said he may go to a support meeting with me in August.




8/9/04

I saw Dr. Michalek today. All is looking good. Still need to lose more weight prior to surgery. She reviewed my physc eval and the notes from cardiologist. Told me since everything is scheduled to contact Dr. Singh to make appointment.

Called Dr. Singh's office have appointment for 11/18 for consult.



8/24/04

Today I went to Dr. Burkart and had all of my hemotology studies done. He said assuming all of my blood work comes back fine he will recommend me for the surgery. I have to call in 2 weeks for test results. He said even though I hve a history of DVT and coombs positive he believes I am at the same risk as anyone going for this surgery. He said since I have had subsequent surgeries with no problems He does not see any problems as long as all possible precautions are taken. (leg baloons and Lovanox)

One more thing done :>



9/6/04

Went to group again. I have never met such an awesome group of people. The support is fantastic and I really like everyone. Kathleen who is my Dietician is a real sweetheart. She allows us to have some fun and it makes the meetings so enjoyable. I actually look forward to them.

9/7/04

Saw Kathleen today. I lost 3 more lbs. WOOHOOO. I have been trying so hard and was thrilled to see some results. I am a very slow burner so I was happy to see the scale go down.

The hemotologist just called. I am still coombs + (which means there is no blood to completely match mine) I already knew this from past surgeries. He said he saw nothing in my current blood work to stop me from the surgery as long as Dr. Singh was fine with this information. My history of DVT's does make me more at risk and he will suggest Lovanox (blood thinner) pre/post surgery. I am sure Dr. Singh will take all possible precautions for these problems. So one more pre-op round done. Next step is pulmonology and upper endoscopy.



I went to see the Gastric doctor today. He did his exam and has me scheduled for the endoscopy on Monday. He also has me getting an MRI of the bile duct to make sure there are no stones present as I had my gallblader out years ago.

Today I also go and have my Pulmonology test. Then I am done and await my visit with Dr. Singh. I can not believe that it has taken so long to get this all done.

I continue with my weekly support group meeting at St. Peters Hospital. I find them so theraputic and informative. I really think they should make it mandatory to attend many more than 2 meetings as a requirement. I honestly think these meeting make a hugh difference to many of the folks I have met there. I plan to use this great source throughout my journey as I am sure along the way I will need it.

9/30/04

Went to Pulmonology today. Dr. Gold gave me a heads up and will be sending a letter of clearence. ONE MORE DONE :>

10/4/04

Went and had upper endoscopy done today. Dr. Orris gave his approval for my WLS. Now I am done with all of my tests YIIIPPPEEEEE! Now I just need to get the printed copy of all of my approvals and meet Dr. Singh 11/18. Wow I can hardly believe it is getting close now. If he grants me a date I could be on the other side for Christmas or New Years. WOW I am flying high today. All of my drs have given me their verbal OK. Now I need the paper work. (well except my Cardiologist, sort of). He will clear me on 11/15 but still thinks I should not have WLS> He thinks that unless you are so obese that you can not function you should not do it. But he said he will clear me.

Update again after I have all my approvals in hand.

tick tock tick tock tick tock





10/22/04

I had my appointment with Dr. Michalek today from the Nutrition Center. I lost 5 more lbs. 8-9 more to complete my 10% by Nov 18th when I meet with my surgeon Dr. Singh.

Everything is a go at this point. My cardiologist said he can not give clearence until within 1 week of surgery. Since I do not have a date he said the best he can do is write a letter as it pertains to my current cardiac condition when I see him on 11/15. I am doing great and expect no problems with that report. He really does not believe in this surgery unless your weight totally prohibits you from living life. He said that I can participate in most sports and have no need for such a dangerous surgery. I told him I just want him to state my cadiac situation. So we shall see what happens. I swear if he gives me any problems because of his personal opinions I will be calling a new cardiologist.





11/15/04

I saw the cardiologist today. SSND. He said I am doing great and he will write a letter stating that, but he will also mention he feels it is not prudent for me to have this surgery based on my past experience with DVT.

He then went into all the usual that I don't need this surgery and I should not think of it in terms of helping to prevent any other co-morbidities. IF I Had developed diabetis or something else he said maybe then he would reconsider. He said 1 in 100 die and I am at risk already. I suggested he come to our group and learn more about WLS (he didn;t seem to like that reply). My head is spinning!

Well Thursday I see the surgeon and hopefully this will not make him refuse me. I will post again after my appointment Thursday.



11/18/04

Well today was full of Highs & Lows!
I have a tentative date of 1/17. Why tentative...read on!! :<

I met with Dr. Singh. He was so incredibly awesome. He explained the usual and then went over his concerns for me personally. Since I have a history of DVT and I am coombs positive, I am at a much greater risk of developing them again as well as an embolism. He went into great detail and was very careful to discuss all options. He has set my date but he intends to have a conference with my hemotologist and Dr. Michalek (Dr. Michalek works with Albany Nutritional and has been working with me on preparing for surgery). He said he is sure he could do the surgery with ease but is concerned that from post op to 8 months I am in danger of the clots/embolism and he plans to consult with the others to see what extra precautions post surg and post op care would be in my best interest.

He wants me to get a doppler of my legs (scheduled for 11/23)and do the 2 day stress test that my cadiologist requires within 1 week pre op. (I will go more into that in a minute grrrrr)He also is having me get some other minor tests done. That is all fine with me.

Now I called my cardiologist and said I have a date but that could change after the consultation. He said to call him back when they have a firm plan for my after care. He will not schedule until they "have their plans together" and are positive I am going to have the surgery. So as usual he is being less than cooperative. I am seriously considering a new cardiologist. Not sure at this late date what bearing that would have now and if another would even take me so close to a surgery etc etc. Now I must say he is an excellent cardiologist, but has been less than co-operative on anything about WLS. He can also be rather curt. I truly believe he will do anything to see me not have this.

I did not cry as I thought I would if there were any glitches. Dr. Singh was so wonderful that I now know if I am unable to have this surgery safely I will just have to deal with that.

His office manager Debbie, was so very nice and I had absolutely no unpleasantness from her as many have experienced.

I am terribly sad and near tears but I am going to be ok somehow. I guess I just was hoping for a "no problem we can go ahead". So his concerns about my possibility of DVTS/Embolism made me more fearful that he may still cancel this for me if they can not come up with a comfortable plan for extra protection.

I will update as I get more information.


Please keep me in your thoughts & prayers as right now I need a little strength and support.





11/23/04

I am feeling more optimistic today. Guess I had to let things sink in. I saw my nutritionist today. She gave me all of my post op information (food and liquids) when to start what. I will get the leg doppler today and go to my support meeting. Had a bunch of blood work and unrine tests done. Will get the results and deliver them to Debbie at Dr. Singhs tomorrow and she can submit to CDPHP.

I am going to my weekly support group tonight. I love my group meeting and I know the support of my friends there will always give me a lift. Chris (from group) sent me a nice email and that lifted my spirits a lot.

A woman Jen, I have become email friends with (she was a buyer from one of my ebay auctions, I sell new, mostly plus size formals and semi-formals) mentioned she was losing weight and I asked her how (always curious). She told me she was doing great with a diet program. We started regular emailings and she is amazing. I told her about my plans and she was so encouraging and has sent me the most amazing emails and her warmth and cheerfulness have been a big lift as well. I don't even know her and she has become a ray of sunshine when I get emails from her. Since I have not told many about my plans it feels good to have someone cheering me on. She remembers when I said I was going to the surgeons and emailed to ask how things were going etc. She must be the sweetest woman in the world.

I plan on being very careful of my food choices during the upcoming food-frenzy holidays as I don't want to gain any of the weight I have lost so far back.

Have a great Thanksgiving all.





11/24/03

Got copies of the odds & ends needed by Debbie in Dr. Singh's office and delivered them to her today. She was so incredibly nice and helpful. Warm, cheerful and accomodating. I asked if she knew of a cardiologist that worked well for WLS patients. She brought me in and let me speak with Dr. Singh. He gave me the name of another Cardiologist. So I have made an appoinment with him, got a referral and faxed the new Card. authorization to get my Medical Records from previous dr. (I woked my but off today lol).

So folks I did it...I have a new cardiologist. :>
I feel better knowing it is someone Dr. Singh has worked with before and has several WLS patients in his care. I asked Dr. Singh if the new guy was fat friendly and he smiled and said he was quite personaable so I will take that as a yes.
Dr. Singh was his usual soft spoken, unrushed and very helpful. (I did not even have an appoinment so I was impressed he was so willing to give me his time. He answered a few questions for me and I was on my way, didn't want to hold him up as he was dictating when I arrived and he was not expecting me, so the time he spent was very very appreciated and I did not want to prolong it for him.I am feeling such a wash of relief and destressing. Thank you Dr. Singh & Debbie for making my Thanksgiving brighter I hope you have a wonderful peaceful and restful day!

12/6/04

Saw Dr. Michalek and I am down to 213 (minus 16 total). Told her I switched cardiologists. She had a discussion with my former and he was difficult at best. He just doesn't "get it". I now know for sure making that change is for the better.





12/9/04

Well 39 days to go. Seems like I hae been waiting an eternity. I am in a bit of a teary mood today. Holidays, surgery anticipation, fears, excitement. You name it I am feeling it all today.

Lots of ramblings following so feel free to skip this emotional vent here.

I did tell my wonderful, loving parent about the surgery. I was amazed at how well they accepted the information. I thought I was going to regret it. Thought I would get a lot of negativity. A pleasant surprise.

My husband. What can I say. There is not a more supportive man on earth. He is wonderful. The absolute love of my life. My bright spot, my ray of sunshine on a gloomy winter day. Meeting him was definately the day my life turned a corner. There just are not enough words or time to express how much I love this man.

My sons. Well they are also the loves of my life. My older son is so busy and works so many hours it pains me we don't get to spend more time together. I miss him so much since he moved out on his own. I am proud of him and wish he would take a little more time away from work and smell the roses a bit. He is an RN in the ICU where I am having my surgery and works overnights. 12 hour shifts and often works his days off too. He sleeps when the rest of the world is awake. He is a very caring man and I admire what he does.

My younger son lives home, is in college and wants to be a teacher. He is a good man. I am also quite proud of him. (I know I sound like a typical mom). Never has really given me a day of trouble. He is very sensative and warm. I know he will be a great man in years to come. He really is a sweetie pie.

My in-laws. They are awesome. I have not told them either as they would not understand why I just don't diet. They are great people and I love them dearly too. I understand at their ages why they would not understand. I know they would be supportive but I don't want to worry them at this time. They have a lot going on and health issues of their own.

Well now that I have rambled on and on I will close. Just needed to get some emotions out and move on with my day. I guess I am having some pre-surg jitters.

Happy Holidays one and all.






12/21/04

My husband Bob is in the hospital. He has a severe case of diverticulitis. Prabably needing surgery soon. Got my insurance approval today. Life is hectic as I am spending all of my time at the hospital with Bob. He is on the floor where I will be so I am getting to know the nurses well :>

Hope this all pans out well. I am putting Bob as my priority now, even if I have to postphone my surgery. One day at a time. too tired to update any more.

12/29/04

Bob came home from the hospital. Was a heartbreaker to have to have him there for Christmas.

On Monday morning 12/20 Bob was in searing pain in his stomach. I took him to the ER and they admitted him. He was diagnosed with Divaticulitus. The doctor said it was the worst case he had ever seen. It perferated his lower intestine and he had a massive infection. After 2 days of high dose antibotics it was not getting better. Infectious Disease came in and changed all his meds. The next day things were looking a lot better. They said the perferation was healing itself and that they would try to get him well enough to give him time to heal and perform the surgery under non emergency circunstances. If done while inflamed a colostomy bag would be needed. If they can stabalize him and do it after some healing he would only require 1 surgery instead of 2 and would not requite the colostomy bag.

Well things were going better until he developed a staff infection in his arm where the first IV was. That got bigger and redder. Again infectious disease changed all meds, then the gout kicked in.

Well Bob spent Christmas in the hospital, same floor I will be on for my surgery so I got to know the staff very well. Tried to decorate his room a bit and make it a bit more cheerful. My sister in law Kathy got the tree and I got the decorations.

On Christmas Eve, Bob called and asked me to do him a favor before I came to the hospital. He told me to take his wallett and stop at the jewelers and pick up one of my gifts he ordered and did not get the chance to pick up before he got sick. It is a beautiful gold christmas wreath charm for my bracelet :>

I got the flu Christmas night (glad I got the shot lol) and could not go to the hospital as I needed a contant path to the toilet. The next day 12/27 my son picked up Bob. The ID doctor first had to get insurance approval for some special antibotic (zyvox)20 tablets, 2 daily.....cost $1369.00 for 10 days. He needed that particular drug and they approved the 10 day rx. So we finally had our Christmas on 12/28.

My dear sweet husband gave me a day at the spa for 1/16, said the day before my surgery he wanted me to be relaxed and pampered with the works! What a guy! I am truly the luckiest woman on earthh to have such a considerate husband.







1/4/05

Happy New Year!!!!!!!!!!!!

Saw Dr. Singh today and we are a go for the 17th :> I was a ball of raw emotions today as I was sure something would happen to make him cancel this. Guess it is very hard for me to believe that this is all real. It has been in the process for so long and now it is so close it scares me lol.

I told Dr T about Bob abd he said he would do his surgery if he wanted. I let Bob know and I will leave that decision up to him.

I think he thought I was nuts cause I kept starting to cry. I am really just so excited.

Went to group and cried a little more. My friends there must think I am a terrible blithering idiot.

I need to stop Plavix & asperin therapy 10 days prior to surgery (Friday).

The countdown has begun

13 days to my new beginning!



1/7/05

Had the appointment with the new cardiologist today. He adjusted a couple of meds, said he will give me IV meds in hospital and then we will see him in Feb to see about all the stuff I am on. He gave me a script for surgery clearence and did not see the need for the 2 stress tests. So all is a go.

He has several bariatric patients of Dr. Singh's and is familiar enough to know the requirements pre-surg and seemed quite nice. I think having a cardio. who has some knowledge of this is important after what I was dealing with before. I am confident that I made a good change in dr's.

Well here we are 10 days away from a very life altering change. I am so excited. I can not wait to do things this spring and summer. The thought of being more physical and less pain in doing so is a high in and of itself. I plan on really using the pool at camp this year. I wannt life to be lived and enjoyed.

I feel like Dorothy. My surgeon is opening the door to OZ, I can now see life in color I just need to step through the door to start living it.




1/12/05

WOW just a few more days. Chatted with Michelle last night on the phone. We are both having our surgery on the 17th. She is so calm :>

I am so much calmer than I was last week but still a bit of a basket case. Not fear, just total excitement. The dream I have had since I was a kid is almost reality. Today I thought of all the little hurts over the years. The comments, the things I could not do or would not dare do because of my weight. Never got to go to a prom, school dance date etc. I missed all of my teen / young adult times that I can never go back and have.

My life is at the happiest I have ever known so it seems to be the perfect time to fix the one major flaw. Complete my picture of me. Ohh I wish I had a way with words so that I could explain the feelings I am having.

Talked to my dear Deanna (ebay friend) today. She always "gets me". I love her for that. We will see each other again in June at the Ebay Convention in San Jose. I really hope to be in such better shape this year. Last year in New Orleans the heat and my weight were making enjoying myself so hard. Each year at the gala I have had the honor of having the first dance with Brian (an ebay staff person) and this year I don't want to be self concious about everyone seeing us dance and me being so big. So many things going through my head today. I should not give a damn what others think and usually I don't care but for the first time in my life I feel the want to look better.

ramble ramble ramble.








1/17/05

Well it is 5am. I have to be at the hospital in 45 minutes. I am sooo ready! I slept better than I ever expected and feel a well of tears in my head. I want to be calm and not make Bob nervous.

Jim (my son) said I was on the OR schedule from 7:30-9:48. How is that for specific. lol . Michelle is scheduled for 10:30. I will say a prayer for her as well as Dr. Singh.

I will write again from the "other side"

p.s. I want to thank everyone for all of the notes and emails. They really do mean a lot. The fact that so many of you took the time and sent a good wish warms me so.

HUGS & LOVE
Mary








THE SURGURY LOG:

2/10/05

Well, not even sure where to begin. I do not remember many of the dates events etc. My husband kept a few notes and that is what I used to compile this post.

When I awoke on the 17th (Very little sleep) I was so excited in anticipation. We arrived at the hospital and checked in at 5:45am. I got changed into my gown and got ready. They hooked up the IV lines and I kissed my husband and off to surgery I went. I was 7:30 am and was in recovery by 10:20am. So far so good. I knew my friend Michelle was scheduled for 10:30.

After recovery they put you in ICU for 24 hours. I remember how nice my belly looked. Just 5 tiny scars all looking good.

1/20 I was in extreme pain and bleeding internally. I was taken to the OR for a second surgery around 4:50pm. Due to the nature of the complication I had to be opened up. The was a very large blood clot at the Y and it was seperating the parts. Dr. Singh did the surgery and I was back in ICU. Had to have a blood transfusion I got 4 or 5 units. Fortunately with my being coombs+ I did not reject it :>

Now first I need to preface this next thought by saying the staff in ICU was incredible. My son is an RN there and his co-workers went out of their way to try and make me comfortable. I owe them all so much thanks.

I do not remember a lot about ICU as I was heavily drugged. Unfortunately I had wicked bad holucinations from the morophone and did rip the NG tube out of my nose as instructed by someone in my holucination.

1/22 Moved to room 6210. Doing a bit better. Was so happy to leave ICU and get to a regular room.

1/23 My oxygen leven was very low and I had a greenfield filter inserted. Blood clots in my lungs & legs. I was in the OR again from 1:30-2:30. Back to ICU. I remember waking with the ventilator on and not be able to breath on my on. I could not speak and felt awful. I was sure I was dying. I was never so scared. I remember seeing my husband and both sons standing over me and my younger son was crying. (he is 21). He was afraid to kiss me with all the tubes in me. Don't remember much else. My son who is the RN said it is just as well that I don't remember. I agree.

1/25 did another leak test and detected an Illius ( that is when your bowl will not function it is sorta frozen. It did eventually start working again.

1/26 moved back to a regular room 6203. I can not say enough about the awesome staff and care I was given at St. Peters. Had an infection had to go on a strong antibiatoic.

2/4 19 days after admission I went home!





2/10-05

I am still a lot uncomfortable. I still have a feeding tube in my side and staples. I hope to get rid of all of that on the 15th. I have been eating good and keeping everything down. Getting in all of the liquid is hard I feel so blaoted all the time. I am anxious to sleep in my bed. I am sleeping in the recliner as it is the only place I can sleep ok and believe me that is not great.

But every day it is a little better.





2/11/05

Slept in my bed last night :> . Awoke several times with discomfort but far better than in the recliner. I can not wait until Tuesday to get the feeding tube & staples out. I am sure I will be more comfortable then.

I spoke to the hospital today. My bill is 91,000.00 ! That is just for the hospital. I asked to have them send me an itemized invoice. THANK GOD FOR INSURANCE!









2/15/05

Today I saw Dr. Singh and he finally took out the staples and the feeding tube. Boy that tube made me think he had set a fire to my tummy. But alas, it is gone. I feel so free. lol.

He said both sites will still need to be covered for a while as they will drain a little. I have lost 18 lbs, I was exactly 200 on his scale. I am a little disappointed in that but that is ok I will be happy. He said I am now a normal post op and can start resuming my life (still no lifting etc).






2/17/05 1-month post op

I saw Dr. Michalek today. I have lost 21 lbs. I am below the 200 mark. I was 197. ONEderful!

I am still a bit sore from the second surgery. The incision is still draining a bit and not totally healed.

I wake several time (8-10) at night as everytime I move my incision pulls a bit. However I am so much better each day.

Cardiologist said I was doing great when I saw him yesterday and will see me in 4 months. He had me stop the nitro patch and wants me to check to see if the hemotologist will allow a baby asperin daily with the coumadin since I have heart disease. He will keep checking the copies of my blood work to see how my colesterol & blood pressure are so that when I see him again we can adjust (maybe stop) some of my meds.

I am going to try to bowl Monday. I doubt I will be able to do 3 games but I am going to try :>

The best part. I had to go to motor vehicles to renew my license & reg so Bob & I decided to stop at McGearys to have dinner. This was my first restaurant visit post op.

I ordered my favorite a Mcgeary Sandwich (minus roll) which is a roasted chicken breast with a slice of portabella mushroom, roasted red pepper, tomato and melted cheese. It is the most delicious sandwich on earth. I deleted the roll, lettuce and chips. I cut a small piece of the end and cut it up into tiny pieces. I ate very slowly and chewed like crazy. It was just as yummy as I remembered. I savored every chew. It went down nicely and I have about 3 more servings left lol. I then waited 1/2 hour and had a cranberry/water (had to dilute). I felt so human going out to eat. We met my brother, his girlfriend and some other folks we know there. Everyone was happy to see me out and about. The owner Kevin McGeary had seen me in the ICU and was surprised at how well I was doing. The Mayor Jerry Jennings gave me a hug and wished me well. (my brother & him are friends) It was a wonderful night and I really am happy to be living in the world again.



2/28/05

Not very happy. Not sure what is happening but more and more I feel naucious a lot. I have been getting the dry heaves every day or 2. Feel crappy, still no energy and the scale does not seem to be moving to boot.

Will I be the one who goes through all of this and never lose much weight? One of my biggest fears.

I am able to eat well and I chew good and eat slowly. Getting in my liquids pretty well on most days except when I get the heaves as then I can not eat or drink much at all the rest of the day (except popsiscles) and how many of those can I stand in a day.

I have no energy yet, my stomach still hurts and is still draining just a little. I wake up so many times each night I never feel rested. I go hot and cold in a heart beat.

One day I feel great and the next day I am feeling like hell. I can not make plans to go/do anything as I am never sure how I will feel from hour to hour.

end of vent






3/10/05

Saw Dr. Singh today. Weighed in at 192. I was quite disappointed and he was pleased! Go figure! He said I will probably be a slow loser but I am losing.

My incision had to be quarterized and he said it will drain more now but should heal better. He will see me again in 4 weeks. It burned a bit when they did their thing.

So much for melting :<








3/28-05

Saw the nutritionist today. Exactly 10 weeks out. Total loss 34 lbs.

She said I am doing well and could start salad at the end of the month. Well being it is the 28th....guess what I had today LOL

Ohhhhh I missed salad so much. I had a spinich salad with chicken breast and it was such a treat. I chewed until almost liquid but it went down fine :>

I still get the dry heaves a few times a week and generally feel queasy a lot. My incision area is still a bit tender but not draining any more. But other than that I feel ok.








4/3/05

Rainy weekends :<

Tuesday, Bob & I drove up to our camp this week. We were surprised there was still so much snow there. We had to walk in as the car would not make it. We were unprepared. I had soaking wet feet but the walk in the snow felt great! I can not believe the energy I felt. The sun was shinging and it just felt soooo good.

We stopped and had lunch at TGI Friday's. I got the chicken ceasar sald. Had a couple of bites of the chicken and a few bites of salad. Took home a lot lol. The waitress of course, wanted to know if anything was wrong with my food :>

Friday we went to my brothers retirement party. He retired after 33 years as a detective with the Albany Police Dept. The last year he was assigned to Mayor Jennings.

I posted a picture at the bottom of my profile. I am starting to see a difference.

The party was fun. The roast was hysterical. The Mayor had a warm sense of humor. He told me I looked great and he was happy to see I was doing so well. A few folks there had not seen me since surgery or while I was in ICU. Got a lot of compliments. Boy did that feel strange. I told my husband I think they just say things nice because they know what I went through. He said no you are changing! But after looking at the picure I do see a difference.

It sure does feel odd to have people telling you that you look good. WOW, I can not wait to get to goal. This is a slow road compared to so many I read about but at least I am going down :>


4/7/05

Today I saw both Dr. Michalek and Dr. Singh. Weight 182, 36 lbs since surgery. I am ready to say goodbye to the 180's :>

My starting BMI was 41.8
Today My BMI is 33.2

Everything else was fine.


OMG OMG I went to Kohl's today. I went to the 60% off racks. OK I did something I normally would never do I went over to look in the JUNIORS DEPARTMENT....you heard right the JUNIOR DEPARTMENT. They had these adorable jeans on the clearance rack for 5-10. Sizes 17 & 15. I figured well someday they will fit so I bought them. Got home tried them on and THEY FIT!!! 17 are perfect and the 15 are a tad snug. NOT BIG just snug. WOOOHOOO

I never wore juniors in my adult life that I can remember. Most of the stuff was to young in style but wow what a feeling. Now I just have to hem them as I am so short and these junior girls must be very very tall. LOL





4/17/05

Well it is exactly 3 months ago today. I wanted an official weigh-in so I just ran over to my PCP's office (it is also an urgent care center so they are open on Sundays) The lady at the desk asked if I need to see the dr??? I said no, just the scale. I went back and weighed myself 177 WOOOHOOOOOOOOO

That is 41 lbs since surgery and 52 since I started pre-op. 10 more pounds and I will be at my 1/2 mark to goal!

I wore a pair of 14 jeans yesterday. I think they must have run big lol. I asked my husband if it would be ok to keep the tags on so everyone could see them LOL.

Feeling better more days than not so I guess I am doing well. I actually vomited this week not just dry heaves that was a strange new experience.










4/22/05

On Wednesday I went for my annual mamogram at Memorial Hospital. I got undressed and when the technician came in she looked puzzled. She then asked if I had a large weight loss since last year? Now, I found this odd since there is NO weigh in for a mamogram and I knew it was not the same tech as last year.

I said yes and asked why she asked. She told me she had just looked at last years and when she set me up she realized my breasts were much smaller than the ones in the film from last year LOL

Now, I have always been (and still am a B cup)but she could tell. I was so surprised. I really did not think I saw much of a change in the girls but I guess I was wrong.

The up side of small breasts, they won't need to be lifted when I am done as they were never very saggy to begin with :> (unlike my tummy, thighs and wings lol)

My Mom & Dad come home from Florida next week. (they are both 80) I am anxious to see what they think of the changes so far :>








4/27/05

went to see Kathleen today at Albany Clinical Nutrition. I am 175. Said I can try anything I want since I am doing well with everything. I can't wait to have an apple :>

Pick up my parents at the airport tomorrow. They haven't seen me since just after the surgery :> This will be fun.





5-11-05

Well today I went and joined Planet Fitness. I have been getting to lazy and need to get my butt moving. So I will go there every morning early. They are open 24 hours so that works out great for me. I like early morning. It was 29 to join and 15 a month for unlimited.








5/17/05 4 Months Post Op

172 lbs

OK I have to admit I am so disappointed with my weight loss. I really had expected to be much further along by now. I only lost 5 lbs this month, for a total post surgery of 46. Most people seem to lose that much every week.

Well I will keep increasing my workout and pray it isn't over for me already.



5/24/05
Went to group meeting tonight. Jumped on the scale and I am 169.

Small accomplishments & changes:
Wearing sizes 14 and 12
Nothing in even the smallest plus sizes fit me anymore
I can wear clothes from the JUNIORS department
I no longer wear Queen Size pantyhose. I wear size B woohoo
I can work out longer at the gym without huffing & puffing
I feel more self confident
I don't feel like every person I meet is thinking "Isn't she fat"
I feel like I am near NORMAL size
I am 34 pounds away from a normal BMI & nutritionist goal for me
I am 54 pounds away from my goal of 115
I am wearing my tops tucked in
I am wearing belts on my jeans & slacks





6/29/05

Seems like I am slowing down a lot. Not much new to report.

7/11/05

Finally the scale stated to move again. Today I am 157. Seems like the scale had stopped. My clothes are starting to get to big again. I am comfortable in a size 10.







7/17/05

6 months!!! down to 155

7/19/05

I saw Dr. Singh today and all is going well. I am 155 and I have a hernia in the navel area. He asked if I wanted to see a plastic surgeon yet. I told him I will wait until I see him again in Jan. At that time I hope to be at goal and then go see about the hernia and tummy tuck.

The hernia bothers me only for a few minutes after I first get up from laying down/sleeping. Then once I am up it is fine. So I just have to keep it ok for another 6 months or so.








7/19/05

Called Dr. Singh's office yesterday and have decided to start the process for plastic surgery. I have an appointment with Dr. Joshua King for Nov.. 4th. My hernia has been bothering me more and I thought I better start the wheels turning. I never thought it would be so long for an appointment so I am glad I started now!

Today I weigh 153.

Here is a pic of Bob & I 7/23/05.




8/19/05

Today I am 7 months out. Weight is 149. Had hoped for more but it is still coming down.

Loss since surgery is 69 lbs and since I started this process down 80.






8/23/05

Another week goes by and 2 more lbs gone. I am 147. Since surgery 71, total 82.





8/29/05

Another week goes by and 2 more lbs gone. I am 145. Since surgery 73, total 84.

10 more pounds and I will have a normal BMI and be at the nutritionsit goal. I am thinking 120 but will see as we go on.

Just having a little fun...still a work in progress. But hubby likes it so far :>


8/29/05 145 lbs

 

9/13/05

Almost 8 mos out and down to 143. 7 more lbs to normal and 23 to my goal.



9/29/05 a little over 8 months out. 141, 5 more til normal and 21 to my personal goal.

I went to my pcp today...guess what he found when he checked my hernia???A Staple from my surgery was still in my navel he took it out and now my tummy doesn't pinch when i move. Unbelievable. It has been there over 8 mos and no one else ever noticed.

I have an appointment with the plastic surgeon on 11/4. Can't wait to see what happens then.

I hope to post a new pic soon. I am comfortable in many size 4's now. Never thought I would get that small. However, when I look in the mirror I still see hugh thighs and tummy and butt. Oh well.

Will post again soon.






10/16/05

Tomorrow will be 9 months. I am at 140. The honeymoon must be over as I am losing so slowly. Never did lose super fast. But hey I am down a total of 89 lbs which is an average of 10 lbs a month.

Yesterday I did the 3 mile heart walk with some others from my support group. It was great even though it rained during most of it. I felt great afterwards. I don't think I ever did 3 miles straight before. Finished in 45 minutes. We walked at a comfortable pace.

10/17/05

9 mos today and I am down to 139. almost normal....counting down to celebrate that magical moment!!!






11/4/05

Well today I had my consult with Dr. King (Plastic Surgeon). I was very impressed with him and his staff.

Hopefully in Jan I can remove all this excess skin. His office manager said January looks good and it will definately be on a Monday as I will be in the OR for the full day. They are submitting to my insurance for a Tummy Tuck. I am upgrading to a Belt Lipectomy.

So here are the totals with and without the insuance.

I will be having a Belt Lipectomy, Bilateral mastopexy and bilateral brachioplasty.

Without insurance total 17,852. With insurance covering the plain tummy tuck and me upgrading it will be 14,982.

So there it is. Arms wings, stomach, butt, outer thighs, mounds area and breasts lifted.

He recommended that I do NOT do implants as my breasts are just saggy and he feels that with a lift and making them perky again I will have a full B-C cup without the implants and will be well proportioned with my frame. I was happy to hear that and agree with him.

He will do it all in one long surgery. As for the inner thighs, he will not do that with everything else as it will be to much swelling around the pubic area. However he said some of that will pull up with the belt lipectomy and I should wait and see how everything looks after the surgery and the swelling is done. If I still want to do the thighs it can be done at a lter date. So I will hope that they will look ok and I won't need more work.

I am so excited and with or without the small amount my insurance may or may not cover I am going for it.

I have met several people who have had him and have had amazing results.







11/17/05

10 Mos ago today :>

I am still holding at 139. I have upped my workouts and have been doing well with my food choices and still the scale will not move. Not sure what else to do.

Waiting to hear from the plastic surgeon on a date. Still hopeful for Jan.






11/25/05

Just went to the dr's for my check up and.....drum roll please.....

You have a BMI of 24.8.
This shows that you are of a normal weight.

I AM FINALLY NORMAL. For the first time in my adult life I am not Morbidly Obese, Obese or overweight...I AM NORMAL NORMAL NORMAL

I can not believe it. I cried when I saw the scale go to 136. 10 months, 1 week and 1 day since my surgery. I never thought I would see the day. I can not even begin to explain what I am feeling. 16 more til my personal goal. (I think). I am wearing size 6 & 4 depending on the cut.

Life is good, Thanksgiving for me came today :>








12/10/05

What a week. I got denied for my Tummy Tuck on Thursday. I did a telephone appeal and today I got a letter saying THEY WILL cover the Tummy Tuck & hernia repair. WOOOOHOOOOOO!!!!!!!

So that will cut the cost of the more extended plastic surgery by about 4,000. I am so happy.

Weight is not budging from the 136. My loss seems to really have come to a standstill. But I will keep using my tool to try and get to the 120 mark.

Happy Holidays

Here are some pictures taken 12/10/05 Christmas Party A much happier Maryin 2005






12/16/05


As it stands today I will be having Hernia repair, belt lipectomy, bilateral mastopexy & bilateral brachioplasty on Jan 25th. Dr. Singh will do the hernia repair and Dr. King will do the plastics.

Please keep me in your prayers as after all the complications I had with the gastric bypass I am hoping for a routine surgery this time. I have appointments with hemotologist, cadiologist , Dr. Singh, Dr. King & Dr. Michalek all in Jan prior to the surgery.
Gonna be a busy January.

My employer doesn't seem to thrilled with me taking some time off so I hope it will be smooth sailing, I didn't telll them if all goes well I want to do the thighs too. LOL





12/26/05
Merry Christmas










12/30/05

Update on Plastic surgery costs.

My insurance approved a panniculectomy with a quick telephone appeal when they originally denied me the surgery.

So I decided to upgrade and do some other things at the same time.

Here is my quote:

Procedure: Belt Lipectomy; Bilateral Mastopexy; Bilateral Brachioplasty in conjunction with insurance approved Panniculectomy.

(My terms, Full circumfrence tummy tuck with muscle tightening, Boob lift and arm wings clipped) (Still have not decided if I want to get implants yet)

Surgical Fee: $11,500 - 1,150 (Multi procedure discount) = 10,350 (includes pre & post operative care)

Hospital & Anesthesia charges:
Facility 2,800, Anesthesia 1,352, Total 4,152.

Total charge out of pocket is 14,502.








1/5/06

I saw Dr. Singh today. He was pleased with my progress. He said he wanted me to stay more than 24 hours after my PS and hernia repair due to my past complications just as my hematologist said. I am glad we are in agreement there.

I was a bit disappointed when I found out that he didn't know about the surgery scheduled for 1/25. The plastic surgeons office never coordinated this. Dr. Singh's secretary tried to call and they were nor open yet.

I called the PS office later in the day and the schedule person (who I thought was a bit curt) said she didn't know about any other surgery and I was already scheduled for 8 1/2 hours and they work an 8 hour day yada yada yada. Said she would call Dr. Singh's office.

Well, I decided to have the plastics since I needed the hernia repair DUH!!! Dr. King seemed fine with all of this when we discussed it during my appointment in Nov.

Called dr. Singhs office later to see what was up and was told that the PS Dr. Kings office had NOT called them. Dr. Singhs office said he did go ahead and schedule me for the surgery that day at Albany Med, and she would call the PS office. I said ohh you mean the annex where they are doing the PS...she said NO the main hospital. OK my head is spinning at this point. I have no idea what the hell is going on now.

I think due to my past Dr. Singh wants me where there is the most extensive emergency support and the south campus is a smaller place used mostly for same day, short term care. I think he believes I would be better off at the main hospital and I have to agree. The PS has operating rights there so he said that should not pose a problem for the PS to change to the main hospital.

I will update when I know what is going on!



1/17/06

Well today is my ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY!

weight 133, plastic surgeon told me today I am quite tiny and he will probably remove around 10 lbs of skin so that kind of puts me around MY GOAL!

What a wild 12 month roller coaster ride it has been.

From emergency 2nd open surgery, pulminary embolism, not being sure if I was ever going to make it home, regretting I ever did it. Being sick to my stomach for so long and thinking I could not stand feeling like this for much longer......and then

losing weight always very slowly and feeling better and better, looking better and better, losing more and more, doing more and more, feeling even better & better.

My joint pain is all but gone, I can physically do so many things. I feel human, feel like I blend in the crowd instead of feeling like I am the biggest person in the room. Now wearing size 3 junior or 4 petite and having plastic surgery next week! WOW

Dr. Singh you saved my life!!!!! As now I am truly living, I didn't even realize to the extent I would. Life is amazing, remarkable, beautiful and fun. I love everything about my life.

To have the most supportive husband in the world, great kids and awesome family, wonderful friends and feel good about everyday is beyound belief.

To all who have supported me throughout the year you will never know how much you have meant to me and I will never forget.
Thank YOU!




1/24/06
Surgery in the AM. I have to be at Albany Medical Center South Campus (Old Child's Hospital) tomorrow morning at 6:15. Surgery is scheduled for 7:30 and I am told I will be in the OR for about 10 Hours!

I must admit I am so scared after the complications I had after the RNY. I am praying that since no organs are being cut this time I will go thgough it without all the drama of the last surgery.







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