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Clifford Porter M.D.,F.A.C.S.
Honestly, the first thing I thought was ..'Wow, he is much better looking in person'. His picture doesn't do him justice. He was pleasant and listened to me. I tend to ramble on when I talk but, he was beyond patient and very polite. He seems generally concerned with my well being. I have seen him 3 times now and each time he is positive and down to earth. His office is layed back and his staff is freindly. I had some issues with one of his nurses. Unfortunately she is the one I need to deal with, but, she does try to be helpful... I just find she hates being questioned and just likes you to take her word for everything. I want to know and understand everything I am getting myself into. We butted heads at first, but now we are doing o.k. The other complaint I have is sometimes the good Dr. talks above my head. He will explain things in his knowledgable way and I have to make him back up and speak in terms I can understand. (I think most Dr.'s do this.) I chose him because I heard through the medical grapevine that Nurses go to him for thier surgerys. I also had been told he removed the whole remaining stomach... and since I have a history of problems, I felt this was my best option. I think I feel more secure about the surgery and aftercare knowing I won't have ulcer issues. I will say, between me and my family and freinds drilling him, I think there wasn't an question he wasn't afraid to answer. He openly talks about comlication history after HIS surgeries and how he dealt with them. It wasn't all peaches and cream. So far he is an 8.5.
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  • Comment by J.Bug on 2/7/06 6:45 am
    I stopped over on Saturday and visited with Carol...and all I have to say is WOW!!! She looks great. We visited for about an hour and it did not seem as though she was in any outstanding pain. There was the "normal" pain but nothing that she could not handle. She had good color to her and she seemed to be getting in all of her liquids or at least close to all. LOL I'm sure she will be on soon to up-date, but I will try to keep you posted. All of us who have already got to the other side...know best...we have great intentions to jump back on OH the day we get home but it takes a good couple of weeks. I will jump back on and leave a message of her progress after I call her today. Carols friend for life...Judy
  • Comment by piperkc on 2/5/06 8:58 am
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Do the hardest thing on earth for you. Act for yourself. Face the truth." ~ Katherine Mansfield "Too often we are scared. Scared of what we might not be able to do. Scared of what people might think if we tried. We let fears stand in the way of our hopes. We say no when we want to say yes. We sit quietly when we want to scream. And we shout with the others, when we should keep our mouths shut. Why? After all, we do only go around once. There's really no time to be afraid. JUST DO IT." ~ Nike advertising campaign "I am convinced that attitude is the key to success or failure in almost any of life's endeavors. Your attitude - your perspective, your outlook, how you feel about yourself, how you feel about other people - determines your priorities, your actions, your values. Your attitude determines how you interact with other people and how you interact with yourself." ~ Carolyn Warner "Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives." ~ Author Unknown "It's never too late to be what you might have been." ~ George Eliot "For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it." ~ Author Unknown "Whatever you do, you need courage. Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising which tempt you to believe that your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to the end, requires some of the same courage which a soldier needs." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson A wish changes NOTHING; A decision, changes EVERYTHING "So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will,they soon become inevitable." Christopher Reeves "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; And through the rivers, they will not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be scorched, Nor will the flame burn you. For I am the LORD your God, The Holy One of Israel, your Savior." Isaiah 43:2-3 Everyone has beauty but not everyone sees it. "If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they may have planned for you? Not much." ~ Jim Rohn May you always have an Angel by your side. Watching out for you in all the things you do. Reminding you to keep believing in brighter days. Have a speedy recovery Angela in Corpus Christi 291lbs BMI 45.60 -234lbs Dr Michael Grace Open RNY Life began May 16, 2002 I have heard your prayer, I have seen your tears. Surely..I will heal you." 2 Kings 20:5
  • Comment by J.Bug on 2/3/06 5:50 am
    I talked with Carol yesterday and she sounds great. She says that there was a small window of concern but after further testing and a little time...all turned out to be good, no problems. She says she is getting up and down with some comfort and is looking to come home. She sounded great on the phone and I only kept her on it for a few minutes. She said she slips in and out of sleep on people and that it might be interesting for the visitors who want to come see her later on in the day. LOL I'm going to the West side to see her today, so when I get home I will give OH an update. Thanks again for everyone’s thoughts and prayers...Carol is a wonderful person!!! Wow...(thought)...I wonder if skinny Carol will still be sarcastic!? LMAO Judy
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January 1st, 2008
on January 1, 2008 9:30 am
Oh, am I out of control or what!  I am so ready to go back to work tomorrow and get into my set routine agian.  My eating has been horrible.  I have been on vacation for a week and a half and somewhere in the last five days I have lost my marbles and my sensibility in eating.  I feel like all normality has gone out of my life because I have just spent the last 9 days going from cocktail party to company party to visiting with friends and mall shopping with the kids.  Every meal I have seen seems to lack the vegetables and fruits I need to balance my proteins.  Yestereday was the worst.  I think I was putting things in my mouth every 15 to 30 minutes ... and I wasn't even hungry!  There was a tray of cheese and crackers and a box of chocolates in front of me.  I think I ate half the chocolates and a third of the meat and cheese tray!!  I drank two bottles of water between all of it.  I just could not get full and could not be satisfied with my normal multi tasking jobs.  ( I was folding clothes and doing crossword puzzles.. but, they were not helping me !)  I am also talking eating fast food while on multi-road trips.  McDonalds chicken sandwiches and kids meals down my gullet.  
  I knew there was oatmeal in the cupboard, but I went for the mash potatos for breakfast.  Sure, it would be fine to fall for one day.. but, I look back and see I have been out of control for a few.  I need a reality check and bad!!
I know I need to gain control.  But, thinking about it and doing it are two worlds right now.  I do not know how stay at home moms keep control.  I do so much better in my world of work and volunteering and staying so busy I cannot think about watching TV and eating.  I go back to my old routine's tomorrow... Yeah!
So much for being invinsable and in control, LOL.  Who would have ever thought I would be hoping to return to work so I can gian control of my food. But, my addictions are so strong.. there has to be an element of normalicy and rountine to keep me sensible.  It just has to be there. 

Oh, and I got a lot of gift cards for clothing stores... and in the last two days, I used them all.  I bought all new clothes that I plan on wearing every day.  Nice ones.  I think I need the mental boost!  I tried everything on too.. and  I found that I wear a size 16/ 18 to a 20/ 22.. depending on the cut and style.   I just have so much skin and fat rolls around my waist that I do not look normal.  Big boobs, a small waist and huge tire roll is unatractive in a clingy shirt.  It is too grinch like.  My goal will be to lose 30 more lbs this year, then see about removing the great circlular sphere I carry.  That should also help with my esteem issues.  Lord knows I still think I am the fattest woman in the room at any given time.   Reality is coming out of others mouths... especially my mother's and best friend's, they always tell me I have no idea how different I look and am.  I think I do have an idea.... cause I feel so much better.  I get sick less often and I don't have to sit down after being on my feet all day.  BUT, I still feel mentally fat as before.  Insecurity at it's best.  I hope wearing nice clothes in the year 2008 will hep how I feel in public.  Here is too a new year and a new me..... soon to be 2 years out!!
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