- Username: marcia.f
- Location: El Dorado Hills, CA, USA
- Member Since: 10/5/2006
- BMI: 25.2
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- Surgery Type: RNY (10/10/06)
- Surgeon: William Fuller
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-100lbs! Finally!! on October 8, 2007 12:47 pm
I have finally lost 100lbs. For a while it didn't seem like it would ever happen. I was stuck at 98lbs forever and then at 99lbs for even longer. I'm two days away from my one year anniversary and I really didn't think I was going to make it. But, when I weighed myself this morning- tada- down 100lbs!!! I had to get off and get back on the scale five or six times before I could believe it.
WhooHooo. I still have 20lbs to go to get to my dream weight of 127, but even if I never lose another lb I'm still glad I did the surgery. I'm down to size 10- comfortably, from a 22 and can shop anywhere now. I feel 100% better, and can even run now. My only regret- that I didn't do it sooner.
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6 months on April 11, 2007 3:56 pm
I can't believe it's been six months already, it went by really fast. I'm down 80 lbs- and only have 40 more to go to goal. I was wearing a 20/22 before surgery and now I wear a 14. I'm only 5'3"(and a 1/2) so 80 lbs is a huge amount on me. Yesterday I cleaned out my closet for the second time and came across a pair of capri pants from last summer. I couldn't resist trying them on and it was hysterical. I laughed like a loon for a good 10 minutes. But what's weird is that I never saw myself as that big, but looking at those pants I had to have been huge. Why didn't anyone tell me?
I remember pre-sugery not being able to do some things like give myself a pedicure or fit into my husband's car (it's really small), but I just don't remember feeling that big. Weird huh?
The change between 3 months and 6 months isn't that drastic food wise. I can and could eat pretty much anything since around 3 months as long as I chew really well and don't eat too much. And yes, I "cheat". Anyone who says they don't are lying. Everyone I know who has had the surgery cheats once in a while, a bite of a donut, a couple of pretzels, maybe some fat free sugar free ice cream, whatever, we all do it and those who say they don't are liars. We're human, thus we're going to want some thing junky once in a while. Now the main difference is I don't live on junky food whereas I did before.
The other main difference is I work out now. If I don't hit the treadmill hard at least 4 times a week, I don't see the scale move. But I always feel better after I run, so it's a win win.
To all those just starting the process and wondering if this is for them, I would say go for it. I was one of the undecided, in fact I was still on the fence right up to the day of surgery. But this is truly the best thing I have ever done for myself. Being fat sucked- I was always checking to see I was the fattest person in the room, I hated going out to eat because I was afraid everyone around would be wondering why I was eating anything other than a salad, I hated shopping- clothes for the chubby girl are not very flattering, and I hated feeling tired all the time. But who wouldn't be tired lugging around an extra person all day? Now, I can shop where ever I want, go where ever I want without worrying about being a spectacle, and I feel a hundred times better. Now I'm free to think about something other than my weight, cuz before it was ALWAYS on my mind. Always. Now, not so much. And it will be even less once I get to goal.
Highest weight-247
Surgery day-236
Current-167
Goal- 127
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60 days / Dec '06 on December 11, 2006 2:48 pm
Ok... it was 60 days yesterday and remebering how I felt at 30 days tells me I have come a long ways. I no longer have any regrets. The first month sucked and I was sure I had done the wrong thing by having the surgery. Well that's all past now, I've been pain free for the last month(except for the self induced pain from working out) and am now 100% sure I did the right thing. The scale hasn't moved as fast as I thought it would, and if I don't work out it doesn't move at all, but at least it is moving. I'm down 39 lbs, I was really hoping for 40 by my weigh in today but what's a pound right? I'm getting excited to get under the 200 mark so this week I'm hitting the treadmill harder than ever, plus I'm starting the gym to tone up and build some muscle.
Now I see how the surgery helps, before I would diet and work out and not see the results fast enough so I would get discouraged and quit. But since I was able to eat huge amounts, I would gain all the weight back plus some. Now if I get discouraged, or just tired of working out, I can take a few days off and not have to worry about gaining. The surgery just kind of bookmarks my place for me, and lets me pick up right where I left off once I'm remotivated. And to be honest, I do still get discouraged and take a few days off every now and then, but then I'm right back at it.
Once I was past the 6 week mark, I was pretty much able to eat anything as long as I only have a few bites. Everyone is different and I see some people throw up alot once they move on to solid food, but so far so good for me. Not to say I haven't upchucked once or twice. Actually I think it was three times, and all were my own falult for eating too much or too fast, but it's not like throwing up before sugery. One quick "bleh" and it's all over.
My luck seems to be sticking, so far no complications. The only issue I have had so far is low pottasium, so my dr has me taking (huge horsepills of) pottasium pills for the next week. Speaking of pills, one of the hardest things to accomplish every day is taking all the vitamins, calcium and iron. I'm not a good pill taker, so some days I forget completly. I have to mark it on my calendar just to remind myself.
All in all, I feel better, my clothes are almost too big, I sleep better and would absolutley do it again if I had to. Lucky for me I don't. The worst part is over and now I can move on with getting in shape. :)
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One month out /Nov '06 on November 7, 2006 10:39 pm
So it was 4 weeks ago today that I had the RNY done. In the beginning I wasn't sure I did the right thing, and to be honest, I'm still not 100% sure, but hey- what's done is done and all I can do is live with it now. So the first three weeks sucked. I mean really sucked. I was so sore I could hardly get off the couch the first two weeks and the entire third week I spent worrying that I had a bowel obstruction. It turned out not to be true, but I still spent a entire week worrying before I finally called my surgeon's office. Word of advice to any other newbies- if you have any questions- call, and call sooner rather later. No sense worrying if you don't have to.
After I finally healed up some I was able to sleep in my own bed again at around the end of week 2. I had been on the couch with a ottoman and a kind of pillow fort holding me in an upright position so it was good to get back to the bed.
Every day has gotten a little better and last week I started walking the neighborhood. Not that I couldn't before, for being a fat girl I was (am) in pretty good shape. I needed to get moving cuz the weight just isn't coming off me like it does some others. I hear about all these people losing 30- 40lbs in the first month and wonder what the heck I am doing wrong. I have been the model patient and done everything the dr ordered. I get in my water and protein and haven't eaten anything that isn't on the list he gave me. On the day of surgery I was 236 and today I'm only down to 219. Heck, I could have done that without getting all humpty dumptyed so you can see where the exercise is going to be important for me. Even though I mentally know this wasn't supposed to be quick fix, or easy ride or whatever you want to call it, I still was kind of hoping.
But now that I did do this to myself I'm going to make the most of it. So I bought a treadmill this week-end and have used the stupid thing every day since I got it. Which is only 4 days so don't be impressed. But I am commited now, which is what I really wanted from the surgery. It forces me to stay to on track. I actually got up to a jog yesterday. (ok, that you can be impressed over)
The food thing has been good for me. I only threw up once, and that was the first day I was able to add scrambled eggs. It was fine going down, but an hour later I felt like I had ate an elephant. I tried to drink some liquid Isopure to help water things down but - blech- it came right back up. Unfortunatly the egg did not, it must have been to far gone to come back so I spent the next 6 hours feeling like a stuffed turkey. Lesson- no more eggs for me.
So overall I know the surgery wasn't the magic ticket I was hoping it would be, but it did give me the tool I need to stay on track. And having to work the weight off will make me appreciate it more once I get to goal. And I will get there, it's just a matter of when.
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Hospital Stay Oct 10, '06 on October 15, 2006 5:28 pm
I arrived at the hospital about 6:30 am on Oct 10th and did the normal check in. It began to seem real when they took me to a pre-op room and had me put on the gown and gave me the first shot of lovenox. They drew blood one last time and within the hour I was being moved to the surgery waiting area. Your family can be with you up until then so that is where I said good bye to my husband and was off on my own. Just so everyone thinking about doing this knows.... that is hardest part of this entire process- seeing the scared look on your family's faces. Then you are left to wait alone. That sucked too because all you can think about is your family, so I sat there and cried.
The surgeon came in to check on me just to see if I had any last minute questions. He gave me some tissues and assured me everything would be ok. The nurse hooked up an IV, then the anestegeologist took over. I was awake when they put me on the surgery table and then the next thing I knew I was waking up in recovery. I didn't feel any pain and only wanted to go back to sleep but the nurses kept telling me to take deep breaths. The blood pressure alarm kept going off and they were concerned, but I was too groggy to tell them I have always had very low blood pressure. They let my husband in to see me for a few minutes. I was glad they let him come in to see me because I was initally told I wouldn't see him again until I was in my room. I was in and out for the next few hours and had to wait a while for a room to be ready.
Once I got to a room, I was still very groggy but nauseated. I remember the nurse coming in to introduce herself and show me how to press the button for the pain medication. I didn't want to press the button, because everytime you do- boom- it knocks you out again and I was very aware that I should be up walking around as soon as possible. At one point I knew I was going to be sick and I pressed the call button and the nurse never came. I swear I pressed that stupid button 20 times over 20 minutes and she never showed. Luckily my huband was showed to my room about that time. Needless to say he was livid that she was ignoring me. Later she said she was with another patient. Thank god he was there to finally get her because I couldn't hold off on the throwing up any longer and he got a small bucket for me and helped me sit up to the side enough so that when I was sick I didn't choke on my own vomit. I guess I should mention that my muscles were too sore for me to even roll to one side with out assistance. I threw up some blood...which at first concerned me then my dr came in later and said it was probably just residual in my new stomach from the surgery. The stay that night sucked. I did get up and walk around about 1am because the blood pressure monitor kept going off and the bed was at an angle where I kept sliding to the bottom so I couldn't sleep anyway. Needless to say the very next day I got out of bed as soon as possible and moved to the chair. They let me begin sipping water about 11am and told me as soon as I had sipped 14 oz I could be discharged. Now I had a new goal... to finish that water. Once I did, they took out the catheter,the IV's and my drainage tube and I was on my way home.
I should mention that all the nurses were ok except that first one. I also had an issue with my IV. My hand was swelling up like a baseball mit and when I pointed this out to her she didn't even acknowledge me. The best care I had was from a student nurse. I wish I could remember her name because I would send her a thank you.
I was home by 7pm the night after surgery.
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I'm 37 years old and have been overweight for about 13 years now. I wasn't always fat, in fact when I met my husband I was wearing a size 3 - now I wear a 22. The weight came on gradually, a pound or two a month. Add that up over 13 years and there I was at 247 pre-surgery. Like everyone, I tried Jenny Craig, WW, Atkins...you name it I did it. The problem was I just couldn't stick with it long enough to get off the weight. About a year ago several of my friends began having the surgery and I became envious of their new bodies. Most of them were complication free, but even the ones with complications said they would do it all over again so I started looking in to it. I have Blue Cross PPO and the process was surprisingly easy. I found out who the Center of Expertise for my plan is, and then made a general check up appointment with a dr affiliated with that hospital. She referred me to the bariatric group on my first vist. That was July of this year- 06. Once I was reffered it went really quickly...an appointment here...an appointment there...blood work, x-rays, a few classes and boom- I had a date- Nov 15. Now it was just a matter of waiting on the insurance approval. I was sure I was going to be denied because I didn't have any of the normal co-morbidities, no diabities, no sleep apnea, nothing. Just the usual aches and pains of carring around an extra 130 lbs. But I was approved on the first try! In fact my date was then moved up because we got the approval so quickly. My new date was Oct 10. That didn't leave me much time to think about it, which was probably a good thing because I was very undecided. This was a huge move and I wasn't sure if I was ready to make it. The days passed very quickly and before I knew it it was time to begin the pre-op clear liquids and bowel cleansing. Still undecided, I just kept moving forward telling myself that I could back out at any time. Surgery day came and guess what- I DID IT! I'm 5 days post op now and there's no going back. I'm still not 100% sure I did the right thing but everyone keeps telling me it gets better as you go. I'm trying to be thankful for this opportunity, and am following the dr's directions to a t. I would just love to fast forward about 6 months, but I'll get there. So far I have been complication free...I just hope my luck holds. I can't wait to be in single digit size again.
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