It's been a while so I posted anything.  I'm almost 9 months out now and down 90 lbs.  For the first time since high school (I'm 34) I am down to 130.  Unbelievable!!!  I feel fabulous and so much better about myself and just life in general.

I can now be the outgoing and spontaneous mom that I wanted to be for my girls and they are loving their new fun mom too.  My life has changed do much for the better.  I still struggle sometimes with not being able to eat as much as before, which was my favorite past time.  However, the results have definitely been worth that little issue.

If anyone has any questions, feel free to e-mail.  It was very helpful to have advice from people who had been through it before I actually made the committment.  I would love to repay the favor.

Last Thursday morning I awoke to back pain which is very unusual for me.  In contined on with my morning routine and drive into work.  On my drive in (almost an hour one way) I began to hurt more and more - to the point that I drove myself to the urgent care.  

After numerous tests and a cat scan, I was told that I have a kidney stone.  They gave me a shot in the urgent care which caused the pain to subside and it didn't come back until Saturday morning.  Around 12:30 PM on Saturday, my "little friend" entered the world.  It was quite painful.

I asked the doctor in the urgent care what could cause this type of thing.  I was told that it can be a result of the gastric bypass because your body doesn't absorb food the way it once did.  

Even with the pain, so far, I would stil have done the gastric bypass.  I feel like a new person and it is worth it at this point.

Well, it's hard to believe that it's been 4 months since my surgery.  I am down 63 lbs and now in the 150's which is so unbelievable for me.  It has been about 15 years since I saw the 150's.  

I am having a very difficult time eating.  Meat does not go down well for me at all unless it has been cooked in the crockpot all day and is very very tender.  But then when I eat other things, the carbs and such just absolutely wipe me out.  There is no happy medium and I just feel sometimes like it's not worth eating.

I am however, extremely happy with the way I'm feeling and the way I can do things now.  It is unbelievable.  I have at least 10 people tell me every day how fabulous and healthly I look.  I run into people I have known for some time and they pass by me and don't know who I am.  It's a good feeling.  I guess you trade the good for the bad.

I think other than the eating difficulties, the hardest part for me is that I go to the bathroom probably 5 - 6 times a day and when I have to go, I have to go right now or there is going to be a problem.  I think that may have something to do with the tiredness I have been experiencing too.

Everyone keeps telling me it does get better, your body just needs time to adjust and pull itself back together.  I guess I'll just have to hang in there a little longer and deal with it for now.  There are definitely good things that go along with it too.

Wow!! It's hard to believe that it's been 3 months already.  I'm feeling great. I still so far, have had no real problems other than my mind still trys to fool me into thinking that I can eat more that I actually can.

Shopping has even become a little fun lately.  I am wearing large and xlarge tops even in the Juniors section now.  In addition, I am wearing the smallest size of jeans that you can buy in Lane Bryant now and I can't wear the tops at all.  It feels amazing.  

My husband is absolutely gah-gah over me, of course he was before too.  He is like watching a little kid who is amazed at what is happening in front of them.  He didn't really care if I had the surgery or not before hand, but I'm pretty sure he is very pleased now.

I had to go on a business trip last week for a couple of days and I surprised by 8 year old daughter at school by picking her up early when I arrived home.  She was sitting at a table doing her homework.  She looked up and saw me and looked back down at her homework.  In about 5 seconds she looked back up and smiled really big.  She said that she didn't think it was me because I looked so different than before.  That was pretty nice.

Oh yea, on the traveling note, it was great.  I had to fly on an airplane which I really did not like to do before surgery.  I was always concerned about putting the arm down between myself and the passenger next to me or not getting the belt fastened, etc.  I sat down in the seat and had plenty of room and no problems whatsoever.  In fact, there was actually room on both sides of me.  It made me almost giddy.

This has been a truly exciting trip for me.  I am having the time of my life and enjoying life again.  Spring has sprung both with the season and within me.  

Happy Spring Everyone!!!

I am two months out from my GBP today.  I'm now feeling so awesome and young again.  I feel like I am gaining my life back.  I am down 43 lbs but down so much more baggage.  I feel like a huge burden has been lifted off of me and I'm free to move about the cabin

I went shopping this week and fit into the smallest pair of jeans that Lane Bryant has to offer - that means that the next pair will be at the "normal store" which was one of my goals.  

I also went and had a new hair style this weekend which I have found seems to be the growing trend on these sites.  I now have about 4 different colors of blended highlights in my hair along with a new hip style.  I left there Saturday knowing that a transformation was underway and the April that I have missed so much is back.

I am still having a struggle with the mental part of this process.  I still order or prepare way more food than I will be able to eat.  My mind still wants it but my new body just can't handle it.  That's a very good thing, just something that I have to get used to.

Thanks to all the support that everyone has been providing me.  It means the world to me and helps me get through the tougher days.  I still wouldn't trade my surgery for anything.  It was absolutely the right decision for me personally.