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Charles A. Svendsen, M.D.
Dr. Svendsen walked into the exam room today with his hand extended and said "Hi, I'm Chuck" with the warmest smile on his face. I found him to be very straight forward and full of information. He answered all my questions completely. His nurse Barb is wonderful. Not a typical no nonsense type medical professional. You can tell she loves what she does and is fun to be around. He put a lot of emphasis on the after care program and the help it provides his patients.
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  • Comment by Lori Pool on 4/20/07 4:30 pm
    Hey! By now you should be post-op. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you recover. How cool is it that you and Sabrinna are there together. Well, rest up and heal fast. Lori
  • Comment by Heather L. on 4/20/07 6:19 am
    Amy! Good luck today, will be thinking of you! :) Heather
  • Comment by calgal on 4/19/07 7:30 am
    hi, best wishes for a smooth surgery and a good recovery. see you soon on the losing side of life.... hugs, sally
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My name is Amy.  I am 41 years old.  I am beginning my journey to WLS.  Starting at 315-ish (not exactly sure...will update with confirmation).  At this point have submitted first round of papers with Health Partners in St. Louis Park, MN.  Now the wait begins.
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Where does time go?
on July 22, 2008 7:09 am
OMG!!  I can't believe it is the middle of July already.  Summer is flying by.  Before we know it school will start again. 

I haven't posted in quite some time.  I am feeling very good now.  My depression is so much better.  The meds and the counseling have helped tremendously.  I find it also helps me alot to go to the support group meetings.  I can't encourage others enough about this fact. 

Today I weigh in at 159 lbs.  Down 156 from surgery.  That is just amazing to me.  I am walking and riding my bike and enjoying life with my family. 

One thing that never did bite me is the shopping bug...thank goodness.  A lot of people going through this process find that they like shopping for clothes for the first time in their lives.  I still hate it.  Doesn't matter if I wear a 30 or a 12...I don' like shopping.  I still have a hard time with body image.  I still gravitate toward the plus sized clothes...it's where I feel comfortable.  I find myself wandering through Lane Bryant....and now nothing in there even fits me.

Peace.
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Ups and Downs
on April 24, 2008 7:57 am
Ups and downs...we all have them.  They are part of life.  How we handle the ups and downs is what is important. 

I am feeling better this week than last...let's call it an "up".  I started taking my prozac again (why the heck did I ever stop) so life seems a little better already just with that.  And I look forward to my appt with the psycho-therapist coming up.  I have stepped up my exercise and my water intake and that makes me feel better physically, too.  At my one year appt with the bariatic team I was told I was probably settling in where I will be with my weight.  I didnt like hearing that because I don't think I am done yet....so I got a little fire lit under me.  Since then I have lost 7 more pounds.  

My stats:

Start: 315
Now: 170
Loss: 145
Start BMI:  54 (super morbidly obese)
Now BMI:  29 (overweight)
Starting Size: 4X, 30-32
Now Size: L, 12-14

Peace.
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Realities of Life
on April 14, 2008 11:44 am
Here it is, the middle of April already.  Next week is my one year surgeriversary.  Can't believe it has gone so fast.  A lot physically.  I have lost 140 pounds since surgery.  At my doctors goal for me.  So why doesnt that make me happy?  I feel like I am getting into a funk...I don't really know what else to call it.  I have made an appointment with a therapist.  I guess it all boils down to getting the physical stuff better but now dealing with the head stuff.   I didnt get to be over 300 pounds because I had it all together upstairs, ya know?  I feel like I have tears waiting to spill over all the time.  I guess maybe I am getting/have become a bit depressed.  And I don't want to be one of those WLS statistics that end up in a whole new mess.  I don't drink, I don't gamble, I don't shop, I don't cheat on my husband....and I dont want to do ANY of those things.  I guess I am just dealing with a lot of stress right now, and the way I used to deal with stress (if you can call it dealing with it) was to eat...and  can't/don't want to do that anymore.   I think I am figuring out that I blamed a lot of my issues on being overweight and now that that is better, my life feels like it is falling apart at the seams.  I know that this is probably "just" a speed bump in my road on this journey, it just feels so overwhelming right now.  So now I feel like I have done a bit of whining/rambling.. maybe it helps to think out loud for everyone to see.  I am looking forward to seeing the therapist.  

So here are the stats:

Start 315
Today 175
Down 140

Peace.
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Home from Jamaica
on February 20, 2008 12:24 pm
I just spent a lovely week in Jamaica with my family escaping the cold Minnesota winter.  The weather was fabulous.  Food...not so great...for me anyway.  Had a really hard time finding what I could eat.  There was not much fruit on the island due to the last hurricane that went through.  I'm not a huge fan of jerk...and everything is jerk.  I did find some pretty good fish to eat.  The kids ate at Burger King everyday...real healthy, right? 

We took Brady home the meet the family for the first time.  I swear that little pumpkin has Jamaica in his soul...he had a fabulous time...and LOVED all the jamaican food...which of course made his dad happy as a clam in the sand.  Billy had a wonderful time reuniting with his cousins and playing in the sun, sea and sand.  He got so brown.  I lathered on the sun screen so I don't really have much of a tan at all.  When I was younger it was all about the tan...somehow that has switched to all about the wrinkles (or avoiding getting more).

Kevin's family was very surprised with my appearance.  I received much praise on my weight loss which made me very proud.  

Stats:

Todays weight:  182
Start weight:       315
Loss since surgery:  133 (OMG!!!!)
Start BMI: 54
Today BMI:  31
Difference:  -23

PEACE!!!
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Dough Head Moves
on February 4, 2008 7:36 am
Here I am almost 9 months out from surgery and did something stupid...really stupid.  I had a piece of steak and apparently didnt chew it well enough.  Oh my Lord!!!!  Painful experience indeed.  This experience will definitely reinforce the CHew Chew Chew mantra that is spoken of around here.  

I am down 129 pounds now.  Current weight is 186.  Only 3 pounds lost since 1/14/2008 but at least it's still going in the right direction.  I know plateau's happen.  Just have to keep on keeping on.

I leave for Jamaica next week with my husband and boys.  Am looking forward to sun and sand...but wondering what the food situation will be like.  We shall see I guess.

Peace.
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My Story

Where to begin.  I have been overweight my entire life.  I am either on a diet or off a diet.  I have the usual weight issues that all lifelong chubs deal with...low self esteem, low self-worth, depression, etc.  I am all about changing that now.  I want my story to have a new direction and and a new theme.  I want my story to be about a better and healthier me.

I have two wonderful little boys that are the joys of my life.  I worry about what kind of roll model I am being for them.  They are ages 6 and 11 mos.  I need to make some big changes for the better.  I love my children soooo much.  I want to be able to watch them grow up and enjoy their lives with them.  I want them to be as proud of me as I am of them. 

You know, eventually you get that "wake-up, ahaaa" moment.  Mine came when I was watching Dr Phil when my 6 year old came home from school.  It was about this 500 pound woman dealing with her own weight issues.  My son Billy came in and saw it and started sobbing, asking my to turn off the tv because he couldnt stand to see it.  All I could think was, "Oh my God, what have I done?"  I have been able to lose weight in the past and it always seemed to find me again, with extra to boot.

So here I am...ready to embark on the biggest lifechanging decision of my life.  I need help and I am not afraid to ask for it. 

 

 

 


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