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A few things I have to say now that I'm off most of the pain meds.

Dr Eric Wiess in Orange Park, FL. is a great Plastic Surgeon. He's worth every penny. The day I had the surgery and was home groggy and feeling like hell his office sent a lovely basket of flowers. They sit right across from my bed so I can see them. They called me up several times to be sure I was alright and that I knew to call them. When there was problems with the new fed rules about Oxycodo-Apap that you can not do refills they got new perscriptions to my hubby right away so he could get them filled.

At any time of night or day they would answer our questions. Just like my RNY doc did. The whole time I have been recovering they have been wonderful. As it turns out the drains need to stay a few days longer. They asked questions I never thought to ask and it was great.

Today they took out the pain pump and the black stitches. Told us how they wanted the pressure band to be worn and what to look for. They also gave us picture of the extra tissue. I know down here they don't use it for burn victims I wish they did. Still from the pic it looks to be around 12 to 15 lbs they took off.

They were happy that I get up and move around every few hours but I don't do any heavy work around the house and that I get out for a little while like at the mall. Over all they had nothing bad to say and everything looks great.

Once the swelling goes down and the site heals I will be able to do some light working out. I can already tell that pressure that had been bothering my back is a lot less. I can move much better and form what I can tell I will have a very nice hourglass figure.

I'll have to get use to the new bellybutton and being able to see all of me with no over lapping. I'll have to get new pants for sure.

Both Robert and Renee' have been great. They are helping me out but also relize that I want to try and do somethings for myself. They make sure I have taken my meds and am not hurting and that I'm drinking enough water and juice.

This had been a great Christmas gift.

I'll post pictures when I'm able. In the mean time I'm doing great and looking for a nice office job. I might see about going to school for a bit. Shopping is going to be fun for sure next month.

Me in a junior size 14 wedding dress (As everyone knows wedding dresses are small size and often for skinny teens). My normal dress is size 10-12. And the shocker is I could still breath. Robert and I were married on Father's Day, June 20th, 2010.

So much has happened this year and I have either not had time to post or had lost the password so could not get back on here until I found it. The system was sending to my old now dead email address at the time so no way to up date it. Now it is all fixed so I'm back posting.

The Wedding was June 20th, 2010 on Father's Day. Robert really loved it and we had a great time. There was a ton to do and time went fast. One fun point was his brother decorated up the wrong car so we had a good laugh over that and my poor older daughter had to drive it home.

Check out the pictures in my profile (under photos/ME). I posted a few for you all to see.

Another update is a gift from Robert. December 1st I go in to get my tummy tucked and the extra skin finally off. It will cost us some but I will feel a lot better and beable to work out more. for the past few years after loosing all that weight I have been limited in how I can keep myself toned up. Often either I would bruse the skin badly, have tears or rashes due to the rubbing. I would love to swim more, bike ride without hurting myself and also run.

Also I will beable to get back to working again. Had to leave my job due to my limits and back problems. The doc has had to restrict what I can do. So after this I will once again beable to do a lot more. It will be great. It is such a wonderful gift from Robert.

Anyway we have had a ton going on here. Between the kids, wedding and a tree hitting our house (only damage was the roof and that was replaced) it has been a very busy year.

I'm looking into going to college and seeing about nutrition as my field. In any case I want to give back and help folks so will be looking into the Health field. Still planning on opening a Herbal Health store here in Orange Park, Fl. We think folks will really like it.

Anyway if you are in the Jacksonville, Fl area do please contact me. - Jaz

I have had no time to visit here. So again I need to do up cards for folks. I will once my computer room is put back together again.

After a year ago moving from Virginia I moved again. This time to a house that Robert and I bought. We are still in Florida and in fact will be working on starting up a shop in the Orange Park area that will be for Health. Its focus will be for Bariatric, Diabetics and others with special needs. Also it will be a herb and tea shop too. We are planning it out right now. If you live in the Jacksonville area please do write to me with suggestions and ideas.

As for those of you who have read my blog you know I was divorced in June of 2008 then moved in October to Florida to help out my best friend who had just lost his roommate to the Air Force. The move saved me around 5k and it has been a very fun and interesting year.

We both knew that come a year later it would be time to look at moving to another apartment since the current one was proving to be too small. We hit on the idea of using his VA benifits to get a small house that we would share for a short time then find another house for my daughter and I.

Well as it turns out other things entered our plans. For one the idea of moving out was something neither of us wanted to thing about too much. Also the house we wanted neede both our incomes to get. So these past months we both took a long hard look at our lives and living apart... and we can't.

The thought of not having Robert around would leave me crying at night. So we talked. Robert and I have always talked a great deal. This time the talk was how he felt and wanted in life. To hear another person tell you that you have been in his heart a long time and the pain they feel at the thought of you not being there... well it is a feeling that is beyond description.

In the past two months we have become very close so we started dating. Looking back in reality we have been dating since I moved down here. We get along so well folks think we have been married for years. That is the good kind of getting along. We don't aruge we talk things over and never fight. Often we both come up with the same idea just think it up at different angles.

The move took a lot out of us but also made us look at the house and that it is ours. Looking at all the stuff it's not a case of dividing everything up. The movies are all together as is the kitchen and more. It's not "You own there or that" It's "Where do we put this or that."

And to top it off we are both happy. More later. - Jaz

Alright I edited the main page of Swords.cc so you all can click on the InterAfter.com link and get there. Please help add info to the site and help out. - Jaz