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  • Comment by Diamond Girl on 6/11/08 10:30 am
    Wishing you all the best tomorrow! Congratulations on your decision.
  • Comment by Kristi K. on 6/11/08 8:20 am
    Congrats on your surgery tomorrow. Sending you healing thoughts and prayers. Hope your recovery is quick and painless. Welcome to the other side!
  • Comment by outlawsgal on 6/10/08 11:17 pm
    Barb , Congratulations to you !!!! Let me be the first one to give you my best wishes on your big day !! ! I can't wait to be seated next to you on the losers bench !! Have a quick recovery & be sure to keep a seat warmed up for me ok ((((HUGS)))) Michele
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on July 5, 2008 10:31 am
My surgery was June 12 and went beautifully.  I had a lap RNY and the surgery went about 5 hours long (so they say ...it seemed like 10 sec. to me!).  My surgeon had to deal with many adhesions that I had from past surgeries that involved the part of the intestine he had to use.  It was challenging for him but he did manage to do it all laparscopically which I find just amazing!  

Like I said, I have had other abdominal surgeries and having this done Lap. was easier for me than any of my other procedures.  By three days post-op I was using my pain meds only at night and stopped them by June 16.

I only have 3 complaints:  I got very little sleep in the hospital (thankfully they sent me home 2 days post op),  I got a reaction from the Lovenox injections that I had to give myself at home (hives all up and down my sides), and on July 1 I went to my regular clinic to treat a urinary tract infection.  The liquid antibiotic is yuk, yuk, yuk!

I adjusted to the liquid diet for the first 7 days and wasn't hungry.  My first post op was June 20 and I was only down 3 lbs but my tummy was still bloated from surgery.  They then graduated me to pureed food and food never tasted so good.  Water tastes sweet to me, isn't that wierd?  The smell of cooking or grilling beef grosses me out, wierd again, right?  I'm perfectly satisfied with my meal plan and can only manage now less than 1/2 cup per meal and less when I have a pureed meat.  The only food that didn't work for me, and yes people, it did make me "toss my cookies" was ham.  I later found out it was honey baked ham.  I'm assuming that is what caused the problem.

They sent me home from the hospital with a walker as I was too bent over using my cane and it would help my balance better.  It has and I am trying to strengthen my legs and backs to walk better.  I have been trying to go solo a bit but until I can walk better I have started using an exercise bike this week.  I'm starting off slowly 20 min a day every other day.

So the weight is coming off slower than I expected, but it has been easier than I thought it would be.  I see my doctor for my first month check up in a couple days so I'll see what it is then.  Thanks for all the great support!


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Started PREP and Only One More Day to Surgery!
on June 10, 2008 7:49 pm

The last couple of weeks sure have been crazy!  So busy that I haven't had too much time to think about my surgery which is good.  Today I started the PREP and liquid diet so I guess that must mean I'm really commited to getting this done!!!  I had my last appointment with my surgeon on June 3 and was so fearful I had gained weight with all the early summer parties and family food temptations, etc.  I was relieved that I was down a couple pounds.  It wasn't what I thought I'd be going into surgery (371 now) but I have to remember I was 407 in December!  Gosh I can't even believe I ever got this big!

As I'm sure all of you felt while drinking the DELIGHTFUL laxative which resulted in the literal liquid pounds rushing from your body , "OH MY GOD!"  and so it begins my friends...my journey.  Say prayers for me and I will write more after I get home from the hospital.  

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TAKE DOWN THOSE ROAD BLOCKS! I'M COMING THROUGH!
on May 27, 2008 8:48 am

Whew!  It's been a tough 3 1/2 weeks since last I blogged!  The food devil has been chasing me something fierce.  He keeps whispering in my ear "Take it ...it will be the last time."  Well I have to admit the temptation has played out.  Sometimes I'm strong and successful and sometimes I fall prey, but equally as important, and new in my life, is the retreating.  I have noticed that those times I have been taken in I also start to redeem myself by lifting my weights and eating more sensibly for the rest of the day.  Then there is the road block.  

I don't know if anyone else has noticed this pre-surgically in their lives but there is my family, "The Skinnies".  I don't think that it is because I am more concious to what I can't eat right now but all of a sudden my hubby is bringing home tons of stuff I can't or shouldn't eat!  Can you believe he even offered me a Strawberry Cheese Cake from Bakers Square two days ago! ...and my surgery date is June 12!  What's the matter with this guy?  Take down the road block already...I'm coming through and I will make it!  He seems he wants to feed me more than ever right now.  It's been tough. 

Today also I called the insurance person at my surgeon's office to see if I was pre-approved for surgery from my health insurance co. and she told me she hadn't even done the paperwork yet!  It wouldn't be so upsetting if I hadn't worked for 25+ years in a patient accounting office and know a thing or two about this.  I asked her what the delay was in getting my surgery pre-authorized.  She actually said, "Oh, don't worry I'll get around to it!"  Great people skills, this one. I'm sure if my insurance doesn't pay the clinic will wait patiently for their money, right? 

I'm hoping that things will go as planned and I will find out from the doctor on June 3 if all the papers are in order as I don't want to delay this surgery further into the year.
I guess I won't worry about it...  

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I've got a surgery date!
on May 1, 2008 8:21 am

After much testing I have a surgery date for a RNY on 6/12/08.  For those who think all the testing is nuts I must say I felt pretty good about finally taking care of me!   

After the sleep study they did discover I had apnea and I have a CPAP machine to help me breath at night.  It took a little getting use to but now I am starting to feel more rested.  I probably wouldn't have checked for apnea if it hadn't been for the testing prior to surgery. 

They checked out everything so I am confident that my surgeon has all the info he needs to make the surgery a success. 

Now I have to do my part.  Mostly I'm nervous.  They think they can do my surgery laparoscopically but won't know until they actually get in there.  I'm preparing myself for an open procedure just in case.  

I'm watching what I eat now and in the next month start bringing home my post op groceries.  I am trying to lift my weights everyday as that is the only exercise I am capable of doing right now as I can't walk so well.  So pray for me the next month as I prepare myself for surgery! 




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My Story

Welcome to "my story".  I am a mother of two lovely girls, 18 and 14 years of age and have been married for 32 years.  Everyone is skinny in the house except me which isn't too much of a shocker as I have been heavy most of my life and have always been the largest in the house.  

Now my journey begins.  I've trekked off many times to loose the pounds without success.  It seems I've spent a life time dieting.  It has taken me about 5 years of research and info classes to finally make the decision to have a gastric bypass.   Though a little nervous I feel confident that this will be a good choice for me.

I want to live again.  There are so many things in life that I can't enjoy and so many things I have missed out doing with my kids and husband.  Something as simple as going to the movies (can't fit in the seats) or swimming or just going for a walk.  My teenagers don't even have a mom to go shopping with.

In the last 5 years I haven't been able to work because of my weight.  I walk now with a cane and standing more than 5 minutes for me is too painful.  The upside of this is that I am determined to make this work and really started my new journey in December with dieting and in January started to lift weights or exercise when sitting. I started at 407 lbs and in March was down to 375.  That was the last time I was weighed as I don't have a scale at home that can weigh me.   My surgery date now is set for June 12, 2008.  

My identity all my life as been being fat.  I'm truly looking forward to just being healthy happy me.

 


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