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Surgeon Testimonial

Fernando Bonanni, M.D.
I just love Dr. Bonanni! That being said:

My first impression of Dr. Bonanni was that he was very competent, very straight forward, very caring, and most of all, I felt confident when I left his office that I made the right choice of surgeons for such a risky surgery. And all my first impressions hold true to this day.

His office staff is incredible. They put up with people bugging them all the time about when, when, when!!!, yet they never lose patience or get short tempered etc. I love the way they all interact with each other.

Sometimes I get the feeling that Dr. Bonanni might be too busy for pre-op or routine post- op office visits, but he probably is. He has patients he has to perform surgery on, post-op patients he has to see in the hospital, patients who have concerns who have to be seen in his office, patients who are worried whose bodies are doing weird things such as mine was while I was in the hospital etc. Seeing Dr. Bonanni for routine visits might be like seeing your PCP for routine visits. Sometime your PCP may have all the time in the world for you, sometime things can be hectic and the time may seem rushed. I get the same impression with Dr. Bonanni's routine office visits. I don't think that should detract from his competence or skill as a great surgeon. When I needed him for my surgery and my post-op care and concerns I know I had 100% of his time.

I think patients should know that he's a competent, skilled surgeon who has their best interest at heart. I had open RNY, and a longer stay in the hosptial because of my own weird body, and he, his partner Dr. Coff, and the surgical residents at Abington Hospital always made me feel confident and secure in my care.

After care is crucial to Dr. Bonanni's patients and his program. He has a great program in place with a fantastic (and sweet) dietician/nutritionist and post op visits with either him or his fantastic (and sweet) nurse practitioner.

Dr. Bonanni answered all my questions about the risks of surgery. During one of the pre-op work groups you have to attend with his fantastic (and sweet) nurse bariatric coordinator, the procedure was gone over in detail, from catheters to possible ventilator use, central line use etc.

Overall I would hope anyone who considers Dr. Bonanni to become part of their life forever (remember, this is a life time commitment, not a quick fix) has as great an experience with him as I have. I am very glad I chose him for my surgery. Both his surgical competence and his bedside manner are superier in my opinion, and exactly what I was looking for when I started my journey.
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  • Comment by BlackberryMargarita on 10/20/07 4:18 pm
    Wow, I am so touched that people care, it made me cry! LOL! Thank you both so very much for noticing and caring.
  • Comment by judyanne on 10/19/07 6:06 pm
    Monday is your day! Just remember you are on the journey of a lifetime. Try to enjoy every minute. It may sound weird now, but know that you are cared for and prayed for here, and all too soon this will be but a memory and you will be an inspiration to someone else. I am waiting for you on the losers' bench!
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Hello there!  My name is Maggie.    I had gastric bypass surgery, Roux-En-Y, on October 22, 2007.  To say I was scared is putting it mildly.  I was petrified!  I was even trying to talk myself into finding the courage to jump off the surgical table moments before my surgery began, but I was frozen with fear.   On the other hand, I was petrified of my future as a severly morbidly obese woman.  My story is not unique, but then again, it is unique.  All of our stories are, whether you are, or have ever been, overweight or not.  I am watching the pounds melt away, not without effort and determination on my part.  I realize how furtunate I am to have had this surgery, and how furtunate I am to have the support of those who love me.  I am so very happy and grateful I was too chicken to jump off that gurney before surgery!  I hope those of you who read my profile for some sort of insight as to who I am,  or how my journey began, or is going etc, will find what you are looking for. 
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Cool Wow! moment for me yesterday!
on June 23, 2008 3:05 am
I can almost, but not quite, wrap a normal size bath towel around me!  If I hold it in the back it works!  If I don't hold the towel closed my big butt comes sailing through, but it was amazing to me that the towel almost fit!

While I'm blogging, I have something else to say.  What is up with this clothing size thing?  In tops I can be anywhere from a Medium to an X-Large.  What the???    Also, my size 14 capris literally fell off of me twice last week.  Yesterday while shopping at the mall, I couldn't fit into a size 14 dress to save my life.  What the????    It's  very confusing, sometimes exhilerating, sometimes depressing, to buy clothes now adays. 

My solution.  I will now only shop in stores where the clothes that fit me are a size Medium or 12.  LOL! 
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Little "Wow!" Moments
on March 29, 2008 5:04 pm
Someone posted something on the RNY board the other day about day to day "Wow!" moments, the moments when you realize that you or your body has changed forever, since the surgery.   I want to post a few of mine so I can remember them forever.  The title of the thread was "The smallest "Wow!" moment that brought the most joy?" or something like that.  This is what I wrote:

My smallest "Wow!" moments have been my biggest "Wow!" moments and moments I hope to never take for granted!  I love the bigger "Wow!"s, too, like dropping pounds and sizes, but the smaller ones have so much more meaning.  

My first "Wow!" that I wanted to scream from the roof top came about one month post op, when I had my first visit with my PCP.  The nurse no longer had to use the large sized blood pressure cuff on me.  I felt like a princess or something.  LOL!  I always dreaded being different that way ... when someone had to hunt down the bigger BP cuff just for me.  I'll never forget that moment when hunting the big cuff became part of my past!  Yippeeeeee! 

My second "Wow!" happened a couple of weeks ago, about 4.5 months post op.  I went shopping at the mall with my mom and we decided to go to the food court because she was hungry.  We were sitting on those iron chairs at the food court when it dawned on me ... I reached down to the seat of the chair and sure enough!  Not only was my butt completely on the chair, there was room on the chair on either side of my butt!  I was thrilled!  My butt ... and believe me, it's still pretty wide! ... fit completely and normally on one of those tiny chairs!  

Another big "Wow!" moment came last week when I climbed a ladder to hang some Easter/spring decorations from the ceiling of my classroom for our spring party, I am a little over 5 months post op.  It was amazing that *I* climbed a ladder , but the true "Wow!" was that I didn't have to worry about it holding my weight!  It was then that it dawned on me that I'll never have to worry about a chair, ladder etc holding me up or withstanding my weight!   I don't have to test things with my butt anymore before I sit down, nor do I have to stand because of the fear of humiliating myself because I sat on something and it fell apart due to my weight!   Now I'm "just" normal!  LOL!

There's another one that I thought of today while shopping, that I wanted to run home to blog about, but I forget what it was.  LOL! 
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My Story

When I first started this journey, when I had decided that I couldn't go on being severely mordid obese anymore, I made an appointment with my PCP, Dr. Fissel.  I wanted him to help me help myself.   If I didn't get control of myself and work on changing things I knew I was headed for some major complications from being so heavy. 

At my first weigh in with Dr. Fissel, back in January of 2007, I weighed 299 pounds.  We talked and decided on a diet, that I sincerely put my heart into, but it just wasn't enough.  After realizing I couldn't do it, I just couldn't get my body to work with me anymore, I talked to Dr. Fissel about weight loss surgery.  He doesn't personally know Dr. Bonanni, but he had heard good things about him.  He gave me the number to Dr. B's office and I got the ball rolling.

My first consult in May with Paula, the Bariatric Coordinator with Dr. Bonanni's office, I think I weighed close to 299, I'm not sure.  I lost and gained and lost and gained pounds between January and May, I'm sure of that!  After my consult with the nutritionist Ann, who is a part of Dr. Bonanni's pre and post surgical plan, I stayed as close as I could to the 1600 calorie diet she recommended.  I wanted to be as healthy as I could going into surgery.  Don't get me wrong, I binged and had more than one "last meal", but I would get right back on the diet the next day.  I actually enjoyed dieting, knowing that this diet was a means to an end of all dieting!  After several months of waiting, I was scheduled for surgery 10/22/2007. 

Dr. Bonanni has his patients go on a 5 day liquid diet prior to surgery, but for whatever reason I had it in my head that it was a ten day liquid diet, so that's what I did!  Oh well, I didn't hurt anything!  LOL!  I don't know how much weight I lost and gained and lost between May and October 22nd, the day of my surgery, but I do know the morning of my surgery I weighed myself before I left for the hospital.  I weighed 263 pounds.  

Today I follow my surgeon's and nutritionist's suggestions/plan/orders pretty strictly, but I do allow myself ONE Weight Watcher's chocolate every night before bed.  It's a self indulgence that I love and look forward to.  Other than that, I make sure I get in 60 - 80 grams of protein every day, I take all my vitamins and supplements every day, I am now drinking 80 ounces of water every day and I exercise often, but not as often as I should.  That will all change when I join the gymn next week!  I can't wait!  

I log everything I eat on Fit Day, except condiments and calcium chews.   I eat protein first, vegetables second, fruits last if there is any room, and there always is!  My first meals were 2 oz at a time, now I am up to 4 oz or 1/2 cup at a time.  I don't go over that amount and it really does seem like a lot of food to me at one time!  I love the way I eat now!  It's how I've wanted to eat for years, but never had the will power to.   

I haven't had any complications, I haven't experienced dumping because I don't push the envelop, but I have had food get "stuck" at least twice, stuck to the point where it's made me physically ill.  The first time it happened because the prime rib I was eating didn't agree with me, but I took one more bite trying to get past the woozie feeling.  Bad call. The second time I knew the leftover roast beef was kinda just sitting there, sorta stuck, so I stopped eating the beef thinking the beef was the problem.  I continued to try to eat my vegies and fruit.  Bad call.  I again had taken one more bite than I should have.  I got sick, thank God, because it was really painful to have all that food sitting hard in my chest.  Once I got sick, the pain was over, and the episode was over.  Now, the minute I feel that tightening feeling happen, I slow my eating down to a crawl with my eating or I stop eating all together.  It's hard to explain, it's just something unfortunately some of us will have to experience to understand, and once we experience it, we understand and become quick learners!  Something I've learned that helps me get food "unstuck" ... I eat a popsicle or fudgsicle.  That slow, steady, tiny bit of fluid seems to help whatever on it's merry way.

My weight loss has been sort of typical.  I lose a bunch, then stall for a couple of days, even weeks, lose a bunch, then stall for a couple of days/weeks etc.  It's annoying.  

I am so grateful for my RNY, I wish everyone, and I hope everyone, who is wondering whether surgery is the right thing for them to do, is able to have the surgery if they so chose.  It's turned my life around.  I have no regrets whatsoever, except not doing it sooner. 

I have the best doctors in the world.  Dr. Nepalitano, who suggested the surgery in the first place, 2 years earlier than I was ready.  I thought he was nuts because I didn't think I could possibly be fat enough to warrant surgery!  I still saw myself as thin ... I felt thin on the inside and my brain wasn't registering that I truly was severely morbid obese!  Thank God he made me think about it and his words opened my eyes to where I was weight wise.  

Dr. Fissel, he's the best!  He was extremely supportive throughout my entire journey, and has always been, even before WLS.  Without him I wouldn't be where I am today.  I'm hardly sick anymore so I never get to see his smile and I kinda miss it!  LOL!  I have to take my mom for a check up and hearing test very soon, so I'll get to see him and thank him once again.  And again.  And again.  And again.  LOL!  I am so grateful he is my doc!  He's great to work with and allows me to take charge of my own health with his knowledge and guidance to help me.  He's great!  

Oh, and of course Dr. Bonanni, who has made my life possible!  He's an incredible man.  I think he's an angel here on Earth.    What a rewarding career!  Can you imagine having the skills to change the lives of people who are hardly living, who actually may be on the brink of major health crisies, to lives filled with incredible potential each day?!  How wonderful would that be!

Anyhoo, this has been my weight loss journey over the past few months:

October 22 - 263 pounds
November 20 - 248 pounds
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15 pounds

Novermber 20 - 248 pounds
December 24 - 225 pounds
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23 pounds

December 24 - 225 pounds
January 21 - 213 pounds
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12 pounds

January 21 - 213 pounds
February 25 - 198 pounds
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15 pounds

February 25 - 198 pounds
March 24 - 187 pounds
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11 pounds

March 24 - 187 pounds
April 21 - 176 pounds
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11 pounds

April 21 - 176 pounds
May 19 - 171.5 pounds
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4.5 pounds

May 19 - 171.5
June 23 - 164.7
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6.7 pounds

So a total loss since surgery October 22, 2007 until today, May 19, 2008 is = 98.7 pounds in 8 months, 133.25 pounds since the start of my journey in January 2007.  I've gone from a tight size 28 (3 or 4X) to a loose size 14/tight size12 (that's a Large, no X's anymore!).  Just think, maybe by the end of summer I can be a size 10 or a medium!  That's just crazy!  LOL!