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Hi, I'm Cathy and I think I'm actually gonna do it this time!!
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I Quit Talking About It & Finally DID Something!
on August 6, 2008 10:05 pm
So after months of researching, reading the experiences of other WLS patients, and lots of soul-searching, I have decided that I want Dr. "Fuzz" Fernandez of WFUBMC in Winston-Salem to do my surgery.

Giant step Number 1 was to travel to Winston-Salem and attend his PAVE, or information, seminar.  Now, for normal folks, that probably seems like no biggie.  But for me it was HUGE.  To say that I don't get out much (like EVER) would be the understatement of the century.  In fact, if my sister Linda had not insisted that, yes, I WAS going, I would have probably come up with some excuse yet again not to go.  But the two of us went, and not only did I really enjoy it, I LOVED having the all-too-rare, one on one time with my big sis. 

I have to admit that I really already knew most of the information that was covered in the seminar - whenever someone would ask a very basic question, I would think to myself  "you would already know that if you knew about OH".  But, I did find out a few things specific to Fuzz's program that I had wondered about,  so it was a very positive experience.  Not to mention I was so proud of myself for taking a proactive step towards actually doing something about WLS, that I am STILL pumped and ready to get this show on the road!!!

Sigh, now all I have to do is wade through the mountain of papers I have to fill out, collect my medical records, and mail it all off to Elizabeth at Dr. Fuzz's office.  Somehow I don't think this is going to be NEARLY as much fun as going to the seminar with Linda was!!






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My Story

 I live in north central NC, I am 54 years old, and these days I  weigh around 365  pounds.  I hit my highest weight of 408 pounds in January of 2006, and decided I was NOT going to be over 400 pounds!!! ( I  let the 300 lb mark sneak up on me, no way was I going to do that again.) So, over the past two years I have changed some of my eating habits and managed to lose down to where I have seemingly stalled out at my current weight.   Unfortunately, during that same time my mobility has gone down even faster.  My back, legs and feet have had enough, and  there are days where I can barely hobble to the bathroom.  I have no doubt in my mind that I am quickly heading toward becoming a total invalid if I don't do something drastic.  

I have researched and looked into WLS before, but I was never willing to take the risks involved.  Now, with my health declining at an alarming rate and all my doctors hounding me, I'm wondering if I haven't waited too late.  I'll be honest with you.  I'm terrified of having WLS; I've never had surgery before and the only time I've ever been in a hospital was for childbirth; add to that some of the horror stories I read on here about the post-op problems, and I'm just pulling my hair out over what to do.  

For my first step, I have decided to join this website.  I'm hoping I can meet more people like me and get their input so I can make some decisions.  I'm open to any words of wisdom and/or encouragement anyone might have for me!!    

 


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