i have no idea where to start . im christi im 36 im currently getting divorced after being with my hubby since i was 17 . i have 4 kids nick is 17, brandon is 13 and i have twins jena and jesse that are turning 8 . i was never thin but when i started having babies i just couldnt lose it after every bit of weight i had stayed with me each time i had a child . i have a huge family history of obesity . my mom had bypass 3 years ago and did great. my sister had it 1 yr ago great too , currently myself, my aunt , and my other sister are all pre op going to the same dr .im scared to death lol im in my 6th month and should be getting a op date but i still need to lose my 10% and get a support meeting in to quilify .