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Claire M. 21 years, 1 month ago

Hi Amy! I'm about 11 months post op and down a little over 100 pounds with only another 10 or so to go. I'm just beginning to having feelings similar to what you are describing. I, too, am looking for a good therapist who can help me sort out my feelings. Although I am thrilled to be a normal weight I am feeling the loss of so much of myself. Even though I hated my fat it was often comforting, always protective, etc. It's a little scary out here at 150 pounds instead of 250. I feel vulnerable and small sometimes. But, you know what?? We can get past this! We are both strong, smart women and I trust this is just a phase we are going through. Talk, talk, talk to friends, therapists, whoever will listen. Take care of yourself and your body and treat yourself gently.

beetle B. 21 years, 1 month ago

Amy O, I totally agree with Jillian, you look FANTASTIC! I have always heard that we are our own hardest critics. I hope you will seek someone to talk to about your feelings. You are in my prayers.

Jillian C. 21 years, 1 month ago

Amy, I just read you most recent post. I'm surprised you don't see what I see when I look at your "after" picture. I see a very beautiful person. I don't know you, but I'm sure you're special. You're thin, you're in the norm. I'm having surgery in a week and I have about 130 pounds to lose...so I can honestly say there is nothing special about being an attractive fat person who can't cross their legs or ride on a roller coaster like "the norm". This is just my opinion so please don't be offended. I'm glad you're seeing a therapist to help deal with the depressed feelings. Also, have you thought about plastic surgery? If the skin makes you feel bad...toss it! : ) Amy, honest, you look lovely. OH! When I saw your "before" picture, I realized that I have that SAME shirt...did you buy it from Silhouettes? Isn't it nice not to have to order clothes from mags!?! You stay strong girl...you've accomplished so much! ~J

laury 21 years, 1 month ago

Hello Amy, Im so glad that you found a good therapist. It will make a big difference. Your issues are real, and we don't even think about that part of the journey, when we become "normal". I haven't had my surgery yet, but, I can appreciate your struggle. I also have about 200lbs to lose, and Im 47years old. I know that there will be alot of extra skin to deal with, and a lot of mental issues. We have distorted body images anyways, and need to make this part of our recovery process. Im talking to a therapist already because I know that it will be a problem for me. God bless you on your journey, I hope you find peace. Laury

pam k. S. 21 years, 7 months ago

Amy. All I can say is "WOW"!!! You look great! You should be so proud of yourself. You go girl! I am having surgery on the 20th, and I hope I can do as well as you. I want to live again. Congratulations!!! Hugs!

charanewme 21 years, 7 months ago

I'm looking for Amy, Amy ???? Where did you go!!! Your disappearing!!!!!! You look fabulous. Congratulations on your awesome weight loss. Charlene

RODEO CLOWNS S. 21 years, 7 months ago

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE SUCH AN INSPIRATION TO MANY HERE ON AMOS. YOU HAVE DONE SUCH A WONDERFUL JOB ON YOURSELF. YOU LOOK WONDERFUL AND I BET YOU FEEL EVEN BETTER! KEEP UP THE GOOD FIGHT.

Mary H. 21 years, 7 months ago

way to go lady!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!CONGRATULATIONS

kelly D. 21 years, 7 months ago

200 pounds?? WOW! You are my new hero!! You go, girl!!

Mary H. 21 years, 11 months ago

wow great post i love happy endings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!