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  • Comment by Melissa R. on 5/26/08 5:24 pm
    Hope that you are doing well. I haven't been on the boards lately. Take Care!
  • Comment by Fabydee on 5/13/08 9:26 am
    OMG Tonya I can't believe you only have 2 days till surgery, The time went fast! I'll be praying for a smooth surgery & an uneventful & speedy recovery! Talk to you when you get to the other side...
  • Comment by Tantrica on 5/12/08 4:29 pm
    I'm scooting my butt over to make room for you on the losers bench! You are in my thoughts this week!!
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Monthly Progress
2 days ago
May -28 lbs (8lbs were before surgery, still a loss and I am counting it!)
June-12lbs-had a 2 weeks stall
July - 11 lbs-had another 2 weeks stall
August-16lbs
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3 MONTH UPDATE
on August 14, 2008 7:19 am
Hello everyone!  Tomorrow I will be 3 months out.  I am down 60 lbs total, but 52 lbs since surgery.  I was told that my good cholesterol is a little low and my thiamin is high.  Other than that, my labs are good.  I don't have a copy but can share stats if anyone is interested, once I get them.  I am down 43.5 inches. These are my inches lost, of what I have measured:
                        This month                   Total
arm -                0                                      .5
bust-                1.25                              6.5
muffin-             1.5                                7.5
waist-               2                                   7.5
hips-                 1.75                             6.25
thigh-                1.75                             3
calf-                   0                                  1.25
shoulders-         1                                  8.75
knee-                 0                                  1.5
ankle-                0                                    .5
under bust--  .25 (I just started measuring this one, which I should have done from the beginning).
Total for the month 9.5                3 month Total 43.5

Non-scale successes:
I can sit with my legs crossed now.
I can sit indian style on the floor with my children.
My towel closes all the the way, when I wrap it around me after my shower.
I can wear pantyhose without my inner thighs being chafed.
I am starting to like wearing heels again...they are a lot more comfortable with less weight on my body.
I am getting the door held open for me more often (from other people besides my husband).
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I no longer qualify for weight loss surgery!
on August 6, 2008 10:53 am
I will be 12 weeks out tomorrow and no longer qualify for weight loss surgery.  My BMI is 34.7. 

My weight loss so far:

May -28 lbs (8lbs were before surgery, still a loss and I am counting it!)
June-12lbs-had a 2 weeks stall
July - 11 lbs-had another 2 weeks stall
August-16lbs
I have just started on the Couch to 5K running plan.  Running seems to have boosted my weight loss!
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I Hit 50!!!
on July 22, 2008 6:00 am
Age? No!!!! Pounds!!!!    8 of the 50 were right before surgery, but a pound is a pound and I am claiming it!  So the total is 50 and after wls 42!  I started out almost busting out of a size 24 and am in an 18 now!  Thursday will be 10 weeks since surgery.

While researching my wls, I heard a lot about how wls puts stress on a marriage.  My thoughts on that ---I think if you have a good marriage, it makes it better.  If you have a bad marriage, it makes it worse.  My husband is really enjoying the extra energy I have from the pounds being gone!  I am also able to get my big butt up and do more with the kids.    Every moment is precious and I don't want their lives to go by and me miss out, because of lack of energy.

Goal weight.....hmmm....I set a goal at 140.  I am starting to wonder if I set a realistic goal.  Yes, of course I would love to be at 140, but is it realistic?  Would I be too skinny? Can I obtain it...of course I can, but do I want to???  I am 5'6" and 3/4.  Yes, I would round up to 5'7", but I slouched in the doctor's office, to make sure I would qualify for surgery.  Guilty as charged!!!  I didn't put sandbags in my bra, though!!!  I saw that post and nearly fell out laughing!!!  That is classic!
There I go chasing rabbits again!  Back to my previous thought...I have had 3 kids and my body is a lot different now than it used to be.  i don't think I am going to concentrate so much on a goal weight, but more on the size I am in.  I think (but I have the right to change my mind) that I would be happy in a size 9/10, at the very lowest a 7/8.  Whatever the weight may be at those sizes.  If I got any smaller than that, it may look awkward on my bone structure.  WOW!!!  I NEVER thought like this before wls!!!!  I never saw these sizes as attainable!  It is funny...when I go shopping now, I usually by pants that are too tight for me, because I know they will fit soon.  The ones that fit, I stay away from, because I know that in a few weeks I won't be able to wear them! I did that one time during one of my "diet" phases and never made it into them!
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2 Days away from 7 weeks post op
on July 1, 2008 10:03 am

I am almost 7 weeks post op and am feeling great!  I am down 33 lbs.  since my RNY and 41 lbs., since my highest weight.  I did my measurements pre-op and at 1 month,  and this is what they were:

Arm            15.25     15        -.25
Bust            50          45.5    -4.5
Muffin          51.5      48.5     -3.0
Waist          45.5      42        -2.5
Hips           56.5       54        -1.5
Thigh          31         30.5      -.5
Calf             18         17         -1.0
Shoulders 49.75    44.5     -5.25
Knee          17.5       16.5     -1.0
Ankle          9.5         9.5       -0

Total inches lost = 19.5

I will take more measurements in another week, when I am 2 months out. I am still having trouble getting everything in that I am supposed to, but getting better everyday!  I am doing well with eating, but still learning my pouch.  It seems to be a little sensitive and reminds me of it every so often!  

Yesterday was my first "official" day back at work and it went well.  

I am so glad I am allowed to pick up my little man now.  I missed holding him!!!!




 

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My Story

I am a 35 year old wife and mother of 3 boys, a 12 year old, a 10 year old and a 15 month old.  I have been heavy off and on, since the 4th grade.  I don't have to tell many of you how cruel kids can be or how unaccepting society can be, because most of you have experienced one or the other.  There were times in my life, where I had lost quite a bit of weight, but never kept it off for a long period of time. I am tired of the yo-yoing and have decided to have the RNY. 

I choose to move forward and make the most of life from here on out.  In the past, I have let my weight take away my confidence, self-esteem, pride, etc.   

My insurance requires for me to be on a 6 month physician-monitored diet, before they will pay for bariatric surgery.  I had my first consult in October.  At my last appointment, my doctor told me that I should be having the surgery sometime in April.  

My next appointment will be March 3rd and they are going to submit all my insurance approval.  I hope and pray it gets approved.  We have a team working on getting everything approved, so hopefully I won't have to jump thru all the hoops a lot of other people have had to. If I do, I will still be fine.  I know it will all be in God's time, not my own.

 


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