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weigh less than my husband again !

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  • Comment by Cira S. on 12/26/06 1:05 pm
    D, Congratulations on your surgery! Wishing you a speedy recovery.
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    Prayers for an uneventful surgery and a speedy recovery are going up for you. Hang on tight cause this is one wild ride. Don't get discouraged with the ups and downs because it is all just part of the ride. You will do fine and we will all scoot down and make room for you on this losers bench. Cindy Mc
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    Sending you lots of love and good vibes, Big hugs, Celest
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Here I am again!
on June 26, 2010 2:38 pm
My biggest challenge has been regain.  After RNY surgery, I have been pregnant........with twins..........twice.  In the first pregnancy, I was terrified of not getting enough nutrition in for my babies and struggled to eat round the clock.  I was very healthy and gained 40 lbs (gee how the mind "forgets", see post below), which I thought was good for twins.  Unfortunately, that started a grazing pattern that has continued.  Having to be up around the clock, I ate around the clock.  Get up, feed first twin, eat a granola bar.  Get 2nd twin bottle, eat a granola bar.  Repeat every 3 hours.  Nine months after the first twins were born, I became pregnant with twins again.  I had not lost a pound since the oldest twins were born.  And I gained an additional 40 lbs with the next pregnancy.  Now I am struggling with 80 lbs to lose again.  I have not been on basics for awhile though.  So as I start  back, I do feel my body and pouch responding which gives me hope.  It is silly, but I threw up the other day after eating and was actually excited.  I had not done that in years. 

So here we go again. 

Real protein first (not SouthBeach granola bars, not cheese, not Kashi cereal, I gained on these foods).  Just meat. 

NO DIET COKE.  Seriously they are addicting and I believe cause cravings.  (or maybe it was just me)

Water, water, water, water.

Exercise (I've been okay about this one, just need more time)

Today I weigh 255.  I hope to change that.
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The truth hurts
on December 2, 2008 11:38 am
Wow, it's been almost 2 years since I had surgery.  I have had regain.  Of course, I just gave birth to twins on 10-5-08, so I knew it was coming, but dog, it's ugly.  I gained almost 60 lbs with them.  And now it's time to do better.  Being pregnant was hard.  I had to eat constantly (also known as grazing) to get enough nutrition to support them.  They are healthy and well and 8 weeks old now.  However, I had to go against all my post-op training to keep them healthy.  And I also ate bad stuff and found out I could.  Thank God I became lactose intolerant post-op or Ben & Jerrys would have really done me in.  I have a lot of things to become accountable now for, and take this weight off.   I have not been able to exercise in quite some time and right now it's almost impossible as the twins are on every 3 hour feedings which means almost no sleep plus I have a 3 year old who needs attention.  I am feeling a bit sorry for myself as I eat this fairly dry tuna, but I must now fight the sugar demon, so people, don't try sugar, you may be able to tolerate it and that is not a good thing to learn.  I started eating it when sugar substitutes made me ill when preggo.  *sigh*

Its a long road ahead, I weigh 227.  I have a lot to lose to get to my lowest weight pre-baby of 178.  At least it's not 365 right?
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Have I mentioned post-op nausea is hell?
on April 8, 2008 10:03 am
Ok I know I'm whining alot, but this is my venting ground.    So please bear with me  (as a Stephen King fan, I am so tempted to call you dear reader, but then that would presume someone finds me interesting enough to read about!  lol).  This morning sickness is a killer.  I was sick before when I was pregnant (before RNY), but this is so much worse and if I dare indulge in anything I crave (ice cream!) I know it will only be that much worse.  So right now, I am allowing myself to eat what is convenient and easy and won't make me barf, which is only the carb-filled Lean Cuisines.  At least I'm getting protein right?  I will check on getting some Zofran that my surgeon recommended when I see my OB for the first time on the 14th.  In the meantime, waaaaaaaaaah!  Seriously, I am normally not this big of a baby.  

I wish I knew what was a normal gain right now.  I am 7 weeks I think and have gained like 5 lbs.  That seems high. 
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God save pregnant post-ops
on April 6, 2008 8:01 am
What in the world to eat?  Protein makes me nauseous.  I am going to die.  The only thing I want is potatoes and oranges.  Not exactly post-op approved.  So far I am managing to get my protein in via yogurt and some cheeses.  Thank God for the Kroger hi-protein brand or it'd never happen.  This is pure hell.  And I am trying not to freak out too bad about the scale going up.  It's baby right?  That and I forgot how when you are pregnant you get "backed up".  I swear, between my own plumbing and my 3 year old's, all I talk about is poopies.

Today I am going to go apartment hunting.  *sigh*  I have to give up the house due to my husband's and my separation.  And then, lovely enough, I found out I am surrounded by drug users on three sides.  And I thought I lived in a "nice" neighborhood.  I actually felt safe.  Uhhhhh.  LOL.  Wish me luck for a nice apartment complex that we can afford with NO DRUGGIES! (ok I know that is probably not realistic, but one can dream right?)
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I'm happy!
on March 26, 2008 9:58 am
As crazy as it is, I am excited about this baby!  I told my Dad he had hurt my feelings and BOY!  Did he apologize, he back-pedaled and said that is not how he meant it, and said after we got off the phone, he had been quite excited too.  He even called me back again to apologize again.  I really felt good then, that was sweet.

So as crazy as my life is being separated from my husband and being a single mom, I am as thrilled as can be!  My almost 3 year old is almost potty trained too, so that is great.  I am having to give up my dogs and find an apartment this week.  *sigh* Moving again do suck.

But the chips will fall regardless, right?  Let's hope they stack themselves up neatly and in order!  (yeah, that is my life, NOT!)

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My Story

I am a 31 year old wife and mother of one, hoping to have the surgery. I do my insurance req'd psych and nutrional evaluations on 2/3/06.

2-6-06 Okay NeWeigh rescheduled my psych and nutrional evaluations. So I did my psych this morning as (re)scheduled and I hope it went well. Not sure but the therapist was really nice. I was quite honest, so *crossing fingers*. On the other hand, I am still waiting on a call back from NeWeigh about my rescheduled nutrional exam. I wish they'd hurry up and do it so we can submit to insurance. My friend who has the same insurance as me just got approved after only 2 weeks, so I'm anxious! I'm ready to go! I've got my income taxes, let's pay and play!

2-22-06 Insurance documents submitted by NeWeigh.

3-2-06 Call from NeWeigh....I'm approved! I should be getting my approval letter in the mail. Wow. I am so floored. I thought it would be harder than this. I am now terrified!! And not terrified. I feel so befuddled. Where will the money come from for my sleep study? Lord, I gotta go talk to my husband now. I'm approved!!

11-06-06.  After I received the approval, I got scared.  I decided to put everything on hold and do some soul-searching.  I went on an all organic diet complete with amino acid therapy.  It helped.  I lost a little bit.  I'm down to 340lbs right now from an all-time high of 365lbs.  I worked it for about 6 months.  Then went back to low-fat.  And I began to yo-yo with 10lbs.   In the meantime, I received some doctors bills from Dr. J and I realized that he was not an approved doctor in my network.  In my excitement in the beginning, I did not get that checked out.  As well as the nutrionist and psych evaluator.  It was an expensive lesson.  To the tune of over $1000.00.

In July, I put money in my flex to pay for some dental work, but after re-consideration, I decided my weight was probably the bigger (ha!) issue.  In September I began the process again.  I really feel as if I gave it my all from March to September.  In September I began looking for doctors in my network and decided to try the Memorial Hermann Bariatric Program.  I have met the surgeon, done all the tests, including EGD and gallbladder ultrasound.  They found h.pylori, gastritis, a hiatal hernia, and I have gallstones!  I was put on prev-pac and they will take my gallbladder and the other things should resolve themselves with weightloss.  Prev-pac, for anyone fortunate enough not to have experienced it is some EXTREMELY nasty antibiotics along with a prevacid for stomach acid.  Everything smelled terrible for 2 weeks and made me nauseous!

On Friday, 11-03-06, everything was submitted to my insurance.  They think I will possibly hear something back in a week since I have a current approval with the other doctor.

 I am crossing my fingers!!!

 11-16-06 I AM APPROVED!  I called my doctor's office and the only one who can schedule surgery is out until Monday!  WTF!!  I want to schedule it now!  This is killing me.  I am waking up at 4:30am every morning because I am so excited and nervous, and that was before I was re-approved.  Now what!  Plus I've got to work around the doctors vacation and give my folks enough notice to get here and not pay exorbitant plane fares and I have to WAIT FOUR MORE DAYS???!!  Deep breaths, deep breaths!

 11-22-06 My surgery date is scheduled!  It is 12-20-06.  I feel calm and actually kind of apathetic. I was more excited about the approval.  I think that one week before the surgery I will bounce off the walls.  Well, it's Thanksgiving tomorrow, so I guess I will have one really good one and then back to my diet before surgery.  I can't believe it is really going to happen!