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David Von Rueden, M.D.
My first impression of Dr. Von Reuden and his staff was that they were very proffessional, understanding and helpful. DVR was very layed back, always observing his surroundings. He reminded me of a person who wanted everything to go smooth. He went so far as to get and arrange extra seats so everyone felt welcome and part of the group. This told me that no job was too big or too small for him do to have things done right. He answered all questions no matter how technical or simple they were with much patience and enthusiasm. The risk and complications were talked about in detail. When I have my 1st consultation with him, he asked if there were any questions I had about the surgery. All I said was "No". I should have said I had three friends to go through this with ease, but being a retired nurse, I do know the complications that could arise. I should have told him I had seen several videso on the RNY and banding (actual surgeries) on the internet, that I had read several books from the libruary. But at that time all I was concerned about was insurance and cost. The more I visited the office and watched him interact with staff and patients, the more confident of his ability to do the surgery and it is also an indication of how thorough he would be from the start of surgery to the end with bedside manner.
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  • Comment by Baby_Phat on 1/29/08 8:13 am
    Congratulations to you! I pray that all goes well with your surgery and recovery.
  • Comment by sandypoint on 1/29/08 4:46 am
    Gloria, My thoughts and prayers are with you today as you begin your new journey. May the Lord keep you in his hands.
  • Comment by Shirley E. on 1/29/08 3:16 am
    Gloria, Prayers sent up that you have an uneventful surgery and a speed recovery in Jesus Name!!! Amen.
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I am changing.
on August 12, 2008 10:23 am
Almost 5 months have passed and nothing remained the same.  1st of all I have moved to another state.  After my son got married I decided to move to Ohio to be closer to them.  I lived with them for 2 months and then got my own.  My 1 year old granddaughter is the light of my life and I just heard last week another one is on the way. 
Since moving I have been busy getting all my medical records right and it has been a headache with the insurance and stuff.  Prayfully all is in order now.  I will go to a seminar this wk-end to see if I like this surgeon then ask for a referral to see him. 

About my weight.  Hmmmmm.  Let me see..... I have lost a total of 75lb over a slow drawn-out process but I am losing and I thank God for that.  I lose on the average of 5 pds per month.  I am proud to say coming from a BMI of 47 and now down to below 38 is a very good thing.  I am so happy in the way I can get off the floor (it's the little things that count the most).  I can walk further without going very slow and stopping to see the scenery to catch my breath on the side.  I haven't been this energetic sinch my 20's. Praise Jah.  I only have a few clothes since I change sizes frequentlly.  I am down to a 16 - 18  acording to the make.

I have to cut my hair.  It was depressing seeing the hair in my comb and love my new style.  i like what I see in the mirrow and trying to adjust to the new me. 

I still have trouble keeping to the diet but I am on 95% of the time.  My only dumping is when I do eat sweet.  I will have diarreah for a minute.  The only vomiting was in the very beginning when I truly ate according to my eyes and not my pouch.  I do find that when I nibble (5-6 times a day)I tend to lose faster.  What's with that?  My snacks are usually fruits and veggies. No longer do I bring candy in the house.  I may get a 1/4 piece of dessert on rare occassions.  Eating out is sad because the meal lasted for 2 days or until I throw the rest out or give it away.  So all parts of my previous lifestyle has change and I know for the better.  My process is slower that most and I would like the faster one but I am learning, understanding and adjusting as time move on.

I want all of Maryland to know that I am still with you in heart and thus far use you as my inspiration and encouragement.  I haven't forgotten you. Even if I don't write I still feel like I talk to you everyday b/c of seeing you on the board daily.  I relate and connect.  Thank you and God Bless you.

Until next time.   Gloriajd
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Just a quick update
on March 14, 2008 9:19 pm
As the weeks past I did the full liquids (not getting enough protein).  So when I got to the soft diet I started a small pocket-size food journal to help keep up with the proteins.  My bld sugars are good with the highest being 145.  I have not had to take insulin since surgery.  I am loving it.  My HTN has not come under control as yet.  I had to add another b/p pill and I am going to talk to my primary b.c it is still running high.

At first I wasn't losing fast enough for me and I started the gym but only for the bike and treadmill and the weight is beginning to come off.  

And as far as dumping goes, mine are very mild.  Remember DVR said the irritated stomach and bleeding was a form of dumping.  Then there was the time when I over ate  (4oz chicken, 1/2 cup cheese spinach and 2 tblspoons mashed potatoes) over 3 hours span and it all returned after stomach cramping and nausea.  The last time I really don't know what triggered it.  I had eaten 1/4 cup eeggbeaters and a slice of cheese for a while then all of a sudden I can't tolerate it, not even now. 

I want more solid foods so I try different ones every week or so.  By the time I take 3ozs I can't hold much else.  When I pass by different fast foods which I used to visit or in the grocery stores passing by mu favorite junk foods I feel a bit of saddness for that minute.  As I continue on my way, joy and happiness fill me as I think of the coming future.

Some days are very good and somedays I am very tight (the pouch i mean).  What ever mood its in I play the game.  The pouch rules!!!  I am so glad I had the surgery.

Almost forgot.  When I went for my 6wks check-up  I am down to 261.4, a total of 24 pounds. :-)
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Post-op wt gain
on February 12, 2008 12:00 pm
Well, you know what's the first thing I did when I got home.  Weight myself.  To my surprise I weighted 315lbs.  When I went to the hospital I was 285lbs.  I was almost in tears.  As the days pasted I noticed that my body was really retaining fluids.  My thighs was like buns of steel.lol.  They had never been that tight before.  But since my first appt was the following Tuesday I felt I could wait.

DVR was on vacation and I desparately wanted that drain out so I went in on Tuesday.  My weight was 296lb by then.  Dr. Moein was nice and I asked a few questions.    He saw the swelling in my feet and ankles.  Long story short I can start back on my diuretic tomarrow.

I took the diuretic until the 10th then stoped when my ankles went down.  That nite I dranked V-8 (V-fusion) 1/3 juice and 2/3 H20, ate my Viactin calcium med and got ready for sleep.  My stomach begin to cramp a little and at times uncomfortable and I felt nauseated.  I took more juice/water and went on to sleep.

The next morning I'm up and doing what I'm suppose to do (follow the meal plan).  @ 11:30 I went to the bathroon and released some dark diarrhea stool and after cleaning up there were signs of blood on the tissue. Then within half hour it happened again only when the toilet flushed I could see the blood.  Well after debating what to do, a third time .  Nothing bright but dark red but the signs were there. 

So I called DVR's office.  Said to come in.  DVR examined me and asked lots of questiions and said it was the V-8 splash b/c of the tomatoes in it.  I never though about tomatoes b/c the fluid was yellow in color.  Then came the lab work and trouble with my insurance card.

No active bleeding just irritation form the juice and that was my first dumping.  Today all is about normal except the stool is still dark in color but formed.

One last note:  on my visit with DVR on the 11th I was down to 275.5lbs. 

Until next time.  
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I'm home!!!
on February 1, 2008 6:52 pm
  Paise Jah, you people.  Just wanted to let everyone know that I am home and loving it.  I had surgery on Tuesday and came home on Thursday.  I am still working on getting all the fluids in but I will get there.  I have very little gas pain but take the pain meds for sleep.  

DVR did the DeVinci robontitis (sp) meaning a robot worked on me with DVR on a computer making the moves.  The medical field is really going forward.  Anyway I will go more into detail later. 
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5 DAYS AND COUNTING!!!
on January 23, 2008 10:23 pm

It's so close I can taste it.  I so want Tuesday to be here now.  And then 10 minutes later, I dread how fast Tuesday is coming.  So I guess I am excited and nervous at the same time as most have been.  One thing that I've learned:  If you practice or do something for 3 months it becomes a habit..  I am so ready to start my new habit.

I'm scheduled to arrive at the hospital at 5:30AM  so I will sleep later that day. lol  This will be the first day of the rest of my healthier life.  I really enjoyed bowling once a week.  Had my own shoes and ball but gave them up as the weight piled on. 

And now my dreams will be seen and my voice will be heard.  I want to thank everyone for allowing me to vent when things didn't go as I though they should.  For the copious encouragement which came from many directions and forms. For keeping me in your prayers and thoughts. 

And most of all for one special person consenting to be my Angel.(Thank you, ) 



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My Story

Hello, my name is Gloria.  For some reason I feel very comfortable talking to you all.  This is my past history.  I am sure we all have gone through this, some better, some worst. I can remember being very thin as a child and my Mom would give me vitamins while encouraging me to eat more.  Then came praises when I did.  Then, I remember 4th grade in Ms Pugh's class, barely able to do cart wheels because of being overweight.  I remember my mom buying material and having a friend sew clothes for holidays.  (By the way, my mother wore a size 52 dress.  I remember 7th grade when boys became very important to me.  I decided to lose some weight because boys were not as interested in me as I was in them.  I remember wearing a size 18 dress for my mother's funeral when I was 16 years old.  She was 56.  I'm 54 and seem to be following the same pattern.  I have HTN, diabetes and a serious beathing problem.  I am on disability for health problems.

I was interested in WLS in 2003 and told I couldn't handle it.  Sad thing is I believe him.  Now I have changed doctors and think this is the best choice for me.

Lately, my journey has been hard due to the heavy load of carring around this extra weight, but I'm working to make this load light.  My strength will come from above and my encouragement will come from you.

 

 


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