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Surgeon TestimonialLyudmila S. Pupkova M.D.Dr. Pupkova is absolutely incredible! My first impression of her was very positive and has only gotten stronger over the last several months. She is extremely intelligent, focused and is a no-nonsense kind of woman. She is also warm, caring and truly, a special person. From her hugs, to speaking with my parents (prior to surgery both over the phone and in person) to returning my emails prior to surgery, to her calming nature minutes before I went into the O.R., to her constant care while I was at Barix, PA for my surgery, she is wonderful all around. My surgery did not go as smoothly as I hoped -- it wound up taking 3 hours instead of the anticipated hour/hour & a half, I experienced a lot of pain directly afterwards and I ran a fever of 101.8 -- and my impression of Dr. Pupkova is still nothing but the best. She would come and check up on me all throughout the day and evening. If she came during a time when I was walking, she would walk the laps with me. She consistently kept my parents and me informed and cautiously chose to keep me at Barix for an extra day. One evening when I was in incredible pain, Dr. Pupkova was with me until 11:00 pm and was back up at my room to check on me by 5:00 am the next morning! I don't know any other surgeons/doctors who would have done that and I wish all were as dedicated as Dr. Pupkova. As I said earlier, she is truly special! She has given me her cell phone number after surgery and I have spoken with her a few times since surgery to ask questions. She has answered her phone each time and has been able to talk to me and answer my questions for me. I have never felt rushed. Even though I know Dr. Pupkova has many, many other patients, when I am with her and talking to her, I often feel like I am her only patient and it feels amazing! I drove (from NY) to my 2-week follow up appointment with Dr. Pupkova and again, she was wonderful, answered any of my questions, and said I am doing great. I obviously have no way of predicting the long-term effects of my surgery right now, but I trust Dr. Pupkova's surgical competence completely and I would do it all again, with Dr. Pupkova.
Member Interests
- Dogs - I wish I had a Golden Retriever or a Lab!
- Theater - I've love musical theatre!
- Music - I love music -- 80's, soft-rock, and R&B are my favorites!
- Singing - I haven't sung in quite some time, but I'm hoping to get back into it!
- Bowling - I went from a score of 75 to a score of 145 in 6 months back in college!
- Water Skiing - I used to be a slalom waterskiier and can't wait to ski again!
- Softball - I really miss playing softball and would love to play again soon!
- Australia - I have always wanted to go to Australia!
- Frogs - I can't believe this was a choice, but I have collected "frogs" since I was 8!
- Comedy - My favorite movie is Mrs. Doubtfire!
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Hi Lisa
Good luck and best
wishes on a speedy
recovery. Save me a
cozy spot on the
bench!
 Comment by Heidi_G on 8/2/07 9:50 pm
Hi Lisa.
I'm going to be at
Barix for my 3 month
follow-up tomorrow
(more like a 4 month
for me). I'll look
for you. Hope
everything is going
wonderfully!!!
-Heidi
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Hi, my name is Lisa.  I'm 27 years old. I grew up in New York (on Long Island), went to college in upstate New York at SUNY Binghamton and I also lived in Chicago for a year. I completed 2 years of law school at New England School of Law in Boston, but I am now in search of new career options. I still live in Boston, Massachusetts, but I had my surgery done in Langhorne, Pennsylvania, with Dr. Pupkova on Thursday, August 2, 2007 (when I was 26 years old). This has certainly been a life-changing year for me in many ways and I am extremely grateful to Dr. Pupkova and to the entire Barix staff for giving me this newfound appreciation for life with the help of this wonderful tool and for enabling me with the confidence to go forward with any obstacles I may encounter along the way. Don't be shy...say hello :)
MY ONE YEAR SURGIVERSARY!!! on August 2, 2008 12:03 pm
Hi :) Today is Saturday, August 2, 2008 about 3:00 pm and this time last year I was about an hour away from waking up at Barix and about to begin my new life. I'll never forget how nervous I was minutes before I was wheeled into the OR, and how Dr. Pupkova helped calm me down, and then I remember seeing my parents waiting outside of my room at 4:00 pm when I woke up. So much has happened this past year. Even though I have had a few really sad, tough times, my life for the most part is so much better. I no longer have high blood pressure, my cholesterol is wonderfully low, my lab results have all been good, I no longer have sleep apnea, my chances of getting diabetes have been significantly reduced, I've lost 85 pounds and generally, I feel really wonderful. I am able to follow my post-surgery diet and I'm able to exercise regularly and I've met and become friends with some truly special people through OH. I feel like the PA board is my family and I love them all and appreciate them all very much. I hope I can teach others the way they have taught me and I hope I can be an inspiration to others the way they have inspired me. I also have a wonderful, amazing boyfriend, Adam, who has been very supportive of my surgery and I hope you all get to meet him soon! Here's to another year of "successing"
Love, Lisa :)
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Almost 1 year out! on July 30, 2008 1:31 am
It's been a long time. I miss you all very much. I've been wanting to write this post for a while now and I just have not had the courage to do so until now...
There is really no easy way to say what I am about to say. I found out recently that I've been dismissed from law school. On top of the already difficult time I had with law school the first year, this year was exceptionally difficult. My grandfather passed away, I was now also dealing with all of the post-op changes that occur, and I was representing myself in a lawsuit. I thought I was ok since I passed all of my classes, but apparently the school has a rule that says otherwise. For those of you who were at this past PA Fall Pilgrimage and for those of you who know me well, know that this was already my second go at law school. I've been at this for the past 3 years (I repeated my first year after taking a medical leave of absence and completed my second year this past Spring). After receiving my dismissal/option for appeal letter, I submitted a written petition (along with 4 letters -- one from my therapist, one from Dr. Pupkova, one from a lawyer/mentor in Boston who attested to my ability and said he would feel extremely confident sending me clients after I graduated, and one from my current internship boss who is an alumni of my law school). I also attended an in-person hearing and my current internship boss accompanied me and spoke on my behalf. Not only is he an alumni of my school, but he knew some of the faculty on the committee, put phone calls in on my behalf, and praised me and my work endlessly at the hearing. Sadly, it wasn't enough because I received another letter just 2 days after the hearing informing me that the committee decided to sustain their appeal.
Needless to say, my whole world has been turned upside down in just a couple of weeks and I'm experiencing a lot of crying and a lot of pain right now. However, I don't believe that this crying and pain will last forever, and as I approach my 1-year surgiversary this Saturday, I want you all to know (both pre-ops as well as post-ops) that I do not for one minute regret having this surgery, nor do I regret having it when I did. Having this surgery was one of the best things I ever did for myself. I know I am better equipped to handle this situation today than I was this time last year and for that I am extremely grateful.
I am now in the process of doing a lot of soul-searching and thinking and trying to make some decisions. At this point, I'm not yet sure what I'm going to pursue career-wise. Thankfully, I have a couple of really wonderful supports in place, but I welcome any and all support from you, my OH family. I also welcome any and all suggestions and advice regarding career options.
Lastly, I want to note that I have a lot of messages -- both on OH and in my email inbox -- that have yet to be sorted through. I really am very sorry that I have not yet gotten back to whoever has written me. It's going to take me a little while to get my life back on track and to get back to the messages, (and I'm sure I have missed a lot that's been going on with each of you) but I will definitely do so and I thank you in advance for understanding. Even though I haven't been as present on here recently, you are all in my thoughts constantly.
I love you all dearly,
Lisa, from Boston :)
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10 months and four weeks out!!! on June 28, 2008 8:36 am
Hi!!! Today is Saturday, June 28 and on Thursday I was 10 months and four weeks out. I'm really sorry I haven't updated the past few weeks. Life has been really busy...and really great! I started my internship and it is going really well so far. The lawyer I am working for is very nice and extremely patient and really wants the interns to get a lot out of this experience, which is wonderful. I have already gone to court with him twice and I'm really enjoying it a lot...The Celtics won the NBA championship and I got to go to the parade! Boston has been really exciting this year between the Red Sox winning the World Series, the Patriots winning the Super Bowl and now the Celtics winning too! It's great to live in Boston! I also made it back to Chicago last week for a long-overdo weekend visit. It was so great to see my friends from back there and I had a terrific time! And perhaps my most exciting news of all is that I have a boyfriend! Adam and I have officially been together since June 14th and so far, it has been absolutely wonderful! We've been playing tennis together, cooking together, going out to eat together, going for walks together, etc. We also went to a Billy Joel concert (my favorite singer!) and he sent me a dozen roses with a beautiful card saying he's so happy we're together. We've really had an amazing couple of weeks...just enjoying simple things, but enjoying them together which has been really nice. And he has been very supportive of my surgery, which I told him about last month. He may even be able to come with me to my 1-year-follow-up appointment and then get to go to the Barix support group meeting with me next month. I'm still waiting to hear back from Barix regarding my date, but hopefully, it will work out. Life is really good right now. I've realized that for the first time since my surgery, my life isn't completely revolving around my surgery. It's strange not being on the PA board as often and not updating my blog as frequently, and I miss my wonderful OH friends a ton, and at the same time, it is also really nice to be able to let other aspects of my life come back in. My surgery will always be a big part of my life, but I've realized that it doesn't have to be the only part of my life. Because of this surgery, I can now enjoy other things, and right now, I am really enjoying spending time with Adam. It's wonderful, and I feel wonderful!
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10 months and one week out!!! on June 9, 2008 4:19 am
Hi! Today is Monday, June 9 and on Thursday I was 10 months and one week out. Had a pretty good week. I didn't wind up starting my internship last Monday so I actually had a week to relax after getting back to Boston. I'm starting my internship today and I'll be sure to update on how it went next time. Sarton & Courtney came over for dinner on Monday night and we went out for dinner together on Wednesday night -- it was great to see them after not seeing them for a while! And Thursday night, Sarton and I went to a Red Sox game against Tampa Bay! Red Sox won...go Sox! We had a lot of fun :) I had a pretty good weekend too. Friday night I got to meet Adam's dogs (they are so great!) and then we went for dinner and to see The Sex & The City movie :) Saturday night, I went out with Allie and a few others and then I actually wound up seeing Adam again later that night. I'm glad I did because we had a better night than the night before :) Ok, I'm off to start my internship in a bit...will write again soon!
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10 months out!!!!!!!!!! on June 3, 2008 2:05 pm
Hello everyone! Gosh, I can't believe it has been almost a month since I've written. Until now, I had been faithfully updating on a weekly basis and this month really just got away from me. Anyway, I am glad to be back :) Today is Tuesday, June 3 and yesterday I was 10 months out!!! I can't believe it. I finished up all of my exams for the semester (although the professors each have 40 days to submit grades, so I am still waiting for the results) and the next day I went back to New York to be with my family and see some old friends. As many of you already know, "Pa" passed away while I was home and that is why I was away from the boards for this past month. It has been really hard, especially since I have always been extremely close with "Ma and Pa". I spoke at his funeral and lots of people told me what a beautiful job I did. I'm glad I was able to and I'm thankful that I was in New York when it happened. This past Saturday would have been "Ma and Pa's" 61st wedding anniversary. "Ma" is absolutely devastated without him and I hope that as time goes on, the pain will not hurt as much as it does right now. Despite the circumstances, it was very nice seeing my family and some friends back in NY and I ended my time away from Boston at the Spring PA Pilgrimage in Lancaster (which I learned this weekend from some of the natives, is actually pronounced with the emphasis on the 3rd syllable, not the 1st!). Laureen was kind enough to pick me up in Philadelphia on Thursday, take me to my 9-month follow-up appointment at Barix, and invite me to stay at her house in Maple Shade Thursday evening. My follow-up appointment went well and as always, it is so nice to see Dr. Pupkova and all the wonderful people at Barix. Back at Laureen's house on Thursday, we had fun with Dillinger, Kevin and the Diane's and I made a cute sign for us to hang on the door of our room in the Lancaster hotel. Friday morning, we drove to Philly to meet up with Arlene and Eileen and then the 4 of us headed off together to Lancaster (the "eens" and Me!) We had a wonderful time at the PA Pilgrimage on Friday, Saturday and Sunday and then it was time to say goodbye to the "eens" when they dropped me off at the airport in Philly for me to head back. I actually wound up flying into Providence instead of into Boston because there was an enormous price difference (about $450!!!) and Adam was nice enough to pick me up all the way in Providence, which was about an hour and fifteen minutes each way. Before we headed back to Boston, we stopped to see his friend Carolynn and her husband Justin in Providence, since he doesn't get to see them very often. They had us over for a BBQ and we had a really nice evening. We didn't wind up getting back into Boston until close to midnight so I was pretty tired, but it was a tremendous weekend!!! Again, I'm sorry it's been so long since I've written and it's very nice to be back! :)
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My Story I have been overweight for as long as I can remember. I couldn't have been more than 4 years old when my pediatrician was taking out flow charts and showing my mom and me where "normal" 4 year olds fell and how I wasn't even on the chart. I remember always feeling different...I took dance classes as a young girl and while everyone was changing into their leotards in the main room, I would go to the bathroom to change because I didn't want anyone to see me. When I was 8 years old, I was in my first play called "The Frog Prince" (that's how my love of frogs began!) and after the show we got feedback from the director. While referring to me and in front of the entire cast, the director said that an audience member asked him "who was the pudgy girl?, she was great!"...I remember not even knowing what pudgy meant at the time, but I knew it wasn't a good thing when all the older kids in the cast kept coming up to me afterwards asking me "Lisa, are you ok? That really wasn't very nice of him to say that in front of everyone"...I cried the entire 45 minute car ride home. It was like that for me all through Elementary School, Middle School and High School. I was always hiding. In college, I bought about 5 jean jackets (blue denim, black denim, courderoy, etc) and they soon became my trademark. I'm now in law school and I wear these jackets over everything except fancy dresses (and believe me, I would if I could!) I even wear them in 95 degree weather because I don't want anyone to see me. My friends joke that if I ever get married, I would need to find a wedding dress that comes with a matching jean jacket in white. I don't want to wear the jean jackets anymore. I don't want to hide anymore. I just want to be a healthy me, and I want to be happy when I look in the mirror, happy when I walk outside and happy with the way I look. Here's to a very hopeful future!
Lisa 
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