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Married mom of 11 years with three children. Had rockin' body till they came into my life, but some things are worth the exchange. Haven't given up on weight loss, just doing it slow. Sometimes painfully so...
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Waiting on results
on September 11, 2008 8:59 am
Well, it was quite the event, my MRI  . It took 4 nurses and one doctor to find a vein to use for the contrast dye. The dr used my artery in my wrist, which hurt. Then, when it was over I had a really bad headache when I sat up, and I asked if that was normal. They said yea, you've been laying there in that position, it's probably just muscle tension. It should go away. Well, it didn't. The next day I awoke with a terrible migraine , couldn't get up because the pain was so intense, threw up , so I called radiology to see if that was normal. Turns out I had a bad reaction to the contrast dye, who knew. They said to saty laying down and drink lots of fluids. SO I did, I peed a lot, and the next day felt much better. Now, I am just waiting on the results...
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Brain MRI with and without...
on September 7, 2008 7:28 pm
Tomorrow I have to go to the hospital and get a MRI of my brain with and without contrast dyes. I am super nervous!! I have a fear of needles, and they have to give me an IV with the dye in it... . I can't remember if I said or not, but the neurologist says he is doing this as a precaution, he doesn't think I have MS like mom, but he does think I have Chronic Pain Syndrome. All I know, is I hurt and I don't want to anymore...
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Does rny mean I will end up divorced?
on September 5, 2008 5:42 pm
I Swear that it seems like every time I turn around I am reading about people who had their surgery and then ended up divorced. I want to know why these things happened... it's already like a 50/50 shot of actually making it, how does this life changing surgery affect the statistics? I guess I am having my insecurities about it simply because I know how incredibly awesome my husband is, but with him the way he is, people really don't give him a chance to shine. When he loses the weight, people most likely will not classify him the way they do and I guess I am scared that although I have been there through all the really hard years, that the new things and people will take him away from me. He deserves to have friends besides me, but he always has deserved that. I, of course, know that... but I am worried he doesn't. AND what if I don't lose any more weight myself... my new prescriptions DO have a side effect of weight gain, so I guess selfishly I will remain scared that I will end up alone. In my heart I know he loves me more than that... but it seems my heart and my brain are not on speaking terms right now...
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Wearing a halter monitor...
on September 3, 2008 8:42 pm
Well, my doc thought it would be a good idea to wear a halter monitor for 48 hours. I agreed, till I got it on, now I think it sucks. The tape is VERY itchy. He thought that my heart fluttering, or "palpitations" as he referred to it, were not normal. I have had them for as long as I can remember. That is why I have like 5 thingy's on me like tiny stethoscopes with this cell phone sized monitor strapped around my waist. Oh, and did I mention the tape itches..lol. The best news--- I cannot get it wet so that means no showers for 2 days and I have church tomorrow night. This should be good!! Guess maybe I could talk my hubby into a sponge bath..   2 more days till I go to the neurologist. I still think he will just order a MRI and I wont know anything until then. I do know though that if there are white patches on my brain like my mom's, they will want to do a spinal tap, and I won't do it. I had 3 kids completely naturally simply because of my fear of having needles in my back. SO that could prove interesting. That and the fact that the treatments for MS involve weekly injections, which btw, needles in general are a fear... in my back or no. Did I mention this tape is stinkin itchy??? 
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Who knew dieting sucked??
on September 3, 2008 7:55 am
So, here I am... back at square one. I have a gym membership, have all the weight watchers tools necessary to lose weight... it's the will power that's lacking. See ads, see other people... then I see me. Well, I know I am not happy about what I see, but my only real weakness is pop, soda, suds, whatever you wanna call it. I HATE water, but it's exactly what I need. I know my liver and kidneys HATE me about now because I drink less than eight ounces a week. I KNOW if I just drank water I would feel better too. Oh, BTW, I never have mentioned I have fibromyalgia, but my dr's think it may be MS, so I have a neurologist appt this Friday the 5th. My mom has MS, and we have the same symptoms... so we will see I guess...
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My Story

My story isn't actually my story as much as it is my husbands. When we met it was September of 1997, and he was the most annoying, obnoxious guy I had ever met. It was only later I found out it was under the guise to impress we with his wit and banter... at the time, not so much.    Anyway, we were engaged the following April, on a full moon, at a lake, super romantic. He asked to see my class ring which is what I wore on my married ring finger cause I knew we would be married. Now this was no ordinary class ring, it was the only ring my dad had bought me and it had a real emerald and diamonds. I, of course, handed it to him. He purposely dropped it safely in the gravel where he could see it. When he picked it up, he also picked up a small rock, which I knew nothing about. He said, "You don't need that anymore." and tossed it into the lake. My heart totally stopped... I could not believe it. Before I started crying though, he showed me my class ring again, and said give me your hand, I'll put it back on. I put out my hand and instead of my class ring he slipped on an engagement ring and dropped to his knee. The rest is history...  I fell wholeheartedly in love, deeply and purely, for my husband. All 318 of my man. I didn't care that he was bigger. He was my teddy bear. We became pregnant soon after marrying and as I gained 40 lbs, he gained 100. Every time we ate out, I couldn't finish my meal, and leftovers made me sick, he was raised to eat everything, so he did... and again the rest is history. I love him just as much as I did 11 years ago, but I long for the day when I can actually hug him again like I used to, or lay next to him in bed and really snuggle close. He will always be my teddy bear no matter what, and I will live the rest of my life with him if he never lost a pound, I just know his life wont be long enough for me or for him if he doesn't have this surgery, and as scary as it is for me, I can't imagine how scary it is for him...

 


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