THIS IS FROM SUPPORT GROUP MONDAY MY OUTLINE!
I. HOW WILL/DO YOU DEFINE IT?
Ø TAKE A MOMENT AND WRITE IT DOWN….THEN SHARE
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v JUST NOTICE…DO NOT JUDGE SELF OR OTHERS
v HOW MIGHT IT CHANGE OVER TIME?
Ø REASONABLE, RATIONAL & REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS
v PERFECTION IS NONE OF THESE
v 100% EXCESS WT LOSS IS NOT EITHER!
v CAN YOU SEE BEYOND THE SCALE?
ü BEYOND weight changing ->LIFE CHANGING!
ü IT IS NOT A RACE (DON’T COMPARE ever really!!!)
v WILL IT BE A JOURNEY OR A DESTINATION FOR YOU?
ü REFRAMES: EATING TO LIVE VS. LIVING TO EAT
II. ARE YOU PREPARED FOR IT?
Ø READING, ‘RITING AND RESPONSIBILITY
v Knowledge is powerful all along the WEIGH!
v WRITING GAOLS AND JOURNALING CONSIDER IT!
v Surgery is the EASY part, living the LIFE AFTER SURGERY IS THE CHALLENGE!
v WHAT ROLE WILL SUPPORT PLAY FOR YOU?
ü How to be responsible, accountable, consistent & present!
ü Boundaries and taking care of ourselves!
v ARE YOU WILLING TO PAY IT FORWARD?
ü We cannot keep what we do not give away!
III. WILL YOU CHOOSE SABOTAGE & FAILURE?
Ø DURING AND AFTER THE HONEYMOON: ACCEPT WHERE YOU ARE AT ANY MOMENT!
v WILL YOU CHOOSE FEAR OR FREEDOM?
ü ADDICTIONS
ü How letting go, surrendering, and acceptance are keys to success NOT CONTROL!
ü GRATITUDE WORKS! Everything can be an opportunity/lesson!
v WHAT WILL/DO YOUR CHOICES AROUNG EATING, EMOTIONS & EXERCISE LOOK LIKE?
ü Lets discuss the Perfectionism Trap
ü What about 90/10?
ü DANGERS: SLIPPERY SLOPES
§ GRAZING
§ JUST THIS ONCE WON’T HURT
§ TERMINAL UNIQUENESS~
v DO/WILL YOU TRULY BELIEVE IT IS ONLY A TOOL!?
ü PLATEAUS
ü REGAIN
v RECOMMENDED FOCUS BE WILLING TO MAKE LIFESTYLE CHANGES NECESSARY FOR LONG-TERM WEIGHT LOSS SUCCESS/HEALTH:
1. REGULAR PHYSICAL ACTIVITY (~E~X~E~R~C~I~S~E~)
2. GOOD NUTRITION AND APPROPRIATE VITAMIN/MINERAL SUPPLEMENTATION
3. ASSISTANCE IN IMPROVING EMOTIONAL STATUS
4. CONTINUED INVOLVEMENT IN A BARIATRIC SUPPORT GROUP AND IN YOUR CLINICAL PROGRAM (LABS/APTS)