So as I was running on the treadmill today I was thinking about the people in my life who have come & gone & who has stayed an constant. My absolute rock through my entire journey has been my husband. He is my
best friend. I can not imagine having in my life. He is so loyal & he is always looking out for me. He is the first one I want to call if I am bummed & he IS the first one I call when I have a victory whether it is hitting a goal on the scale or at the gym. He is my constant cheerleader - the one who can always cheer me up & open my eyes to the bigger picture. When I get frustrated for not being farther in my journey, he patiently takes me by the hand & shows me how far I have come. He is amazing & I am blessed to have him. I have read horror stories about WLS ripping couples apart but we are the opposite - it has made us closer.
Another constant is my dad. He never fails to make me feel pretty when I see him. He always enevlopes me in a big hug & tells me how proud of me he is & how beautiful I look. I am truly blessed to have a dad who loves me unconditionally and isn't afraid to show it. My dad is one of best friend friends & for that, I am a lucky girl.
The saddest part of the WLS is the loss of friends I have felt. I knew that the chance of that happening was pretty high because I was completely changing my life & the things we had in common (like sharing clothes) would vanish. A part of me mourns the loss of the friendship but another part of me feels like it is for the best - I did something SO dramtic to my body in order to change my life. I have been given a tool to take control of my life & I
will not be made to feel bad about being
successful. I proud of what I have accomplished - I have gone from a size 26 to a 12.
I have lost 130 POUNDS. I am damn proud of myself & I will be damed if someone else thinks they can rain on my parade.
So to those who are my rocks, I thank you. You mean the world to me & I am a
blessed girl to have you in my life.
To those of you who are pre-op - Your life is going to
CHANGE in every way. People you thought were your friend & would support you & join in with your accomplishments will show their true colors of jealousy & self-pity. Those people aren't your friend. Those are people who find satisfaction in trying to tear down what you've worked
so hard for. Don't let them. You are worth more than that.
XOXO
Katie