This page and group came from a need to be heard.  I am truly Thankful to God for Blessing me with a wife that is by my side as we are constantly working on and improving upon our learning each other.  This is needed as Men we speak in a totally different language and when that happens it can sometimes leave us feeling lost and mis-understood.  Are there any other Men feeling this way. I would dare to say YES!!!.  Feel free to post a response and we can begin to exchange dialog and begin to grow and improve in how we communicate so that we are understood and so that we can understand what is being communicated to us.  Do you happen to know someone who is Pre-Op or Post-Op and do not know where you fit or how you can help.  Feel free to post your concerns here and will work on it together.