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  • Name: Kevin A.
  • Username: Kelvin
  • Location: Bombay, CA, USA
  • Member Since: 10/6/2005
  • BMI: 31.2
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  • Surgery Type: RNY (08/21/06)
  • Surgeon: Mir Ali, M.D.
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  • Comment by Celest J. 7 hours ago
    Congratulation kevin, you are a rock star. big hugs, celest
  • Comment by Janine J. 9 hours ago
    Wow Kevin I cannot believe that it has been 2 years for you already. You have done an amazing job!!!!! Congratulations!
  • Comment by christine mats 1 day ago
    HEY BABY!! Happy Surgiversary Congrats on your 2 year journey Yes you have come a long way and I've seen so many (good) changes in your life I'm so very happy for you and wish you continued success. also thanks for all your help and support over the years your an awesome friend,,, Love always,
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2nd Surgiversary is today!!
6 hours ago
This has been another great year. I have trained for the L.A. Marathon with AID Project Los Angeles. Ran over 500 miles, raised $1,500 for people living with HIV/AIDS, run 2 marathons, and 2 ½ marathons. My weight the past year has gone between 221-230lbs. I’ve been hold steady at 230lbs the past few weeks. My weight loss honey-moon period is over. I can eat just about anything I want so it is up to me to maintain my weight loss. I’m still running, spining and weight training 3-5 times a week. I’m healthier than I was last year at this time and that is my goal for next year. Thanks everyone for your support!!

Best Wishes on Your Journey!!
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Hello Again!!
on June 6, 2008 9:37 pm
I've been MIA on the boards but I feel like a stranger in a place I once called home. I think it from the changes I've been going through. I been so focused on staying active, personal life and still having a good time its hard making time to stay active on the boards. I admit I read them everyday but I don't know what to say? I know how hard I am on myself I lost friends because they just think I'm being mean when I tell them the same thing I tell myself to keep me focused. I've been staying between 223-230 the past 6-8 months. People tell me they see a difference every-time I see them. That tell me that staying active keeps me looking good even if the scale is not moving.

Until next time!
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San Diego Marathon Report
on June 2, 2008 9:27 pm
Hello Sport Fans!!!

This is my San Diego Rock n Roll Marathon report. For those that don't know my history this is my second marathon my first was the L.A. Marathon March 2008. I finishing but was totally unhappy with my results. (read my profile for that report) Because of the way the first marathon went I was happy to never have to run that far again. But something strange started happening. I started missing those long run. I needed something to keep me motived. At the last minute I decide to run. I had not done a long run since the L.A. Marathon so I did not know how my body would hold up.

Miles 1-15:27, Mile 2-14:22, Mile 3-14:03, Mile 4-15:14 Mile 5-14:11
Over 17,000 runners it was overwhelming the amount of people running at the start. I stayed in the very back I knew I was going to have to take it very slow at the start of the race. I started with a 1 minute run and 2 minute walk. I was surprise how good of a pace I could keep just running for 1 minute. My shoes were giving me trouble I need a new pair but it was too late to break some new shoes. But my pit crew (Kirsten) had another pair waiting at mile 6 just in case I needed a tire change. The people cheering and the bands were great. I took off my i-pod just to hear the music playing as I passed bands.

Mile 6-20:05, Mile 7-17:11, Mile 8-16:04
I was still feeling good but I need to keep taking bathroom breaks. As soon as I would go I need to go again!! I met up with Kirsten at mile 6 I was feeling good. My pace was great but she keep telling to slow down!! Another high light was I saw some runners coming out of a fancy hotel in downtown San Diego. I ask they let you use the bathroom? Yea so I walk through this fancy place all sweaty and use the restroom. As soon as I thought I was done I needed to do a #2!!LOL!! I been told you are not a real runner until you take a dump while racing!!LOL! I'm a real runner now!! I was so happy I didn't have to use the port a potty!!!

Mile 9-13:57 Mile 10-15:14 Mile 11-13:58 Mile 12-15:43
Runners have talked this was the worse part of the marathon. Running on the freeway!! That right!! I got a chance to run on a California freeway!!! The 3-4 miles was up hill and worse slanted so one foot was totally uneven with the other foot. But I was able to keep my pace passing alot of the runners cramping and some of the walkers. It was fun car zooming by the other side of the freeway honking at us runners!! Very Cool!!

Miles 13-17:02 Mile 14-16:26 Half way point 3:22!!
I made to mile 13 the first cut off point were they had bus waiting to take slower runners of the to another point of the race. That was one of my goal to not end up on that bus. I made by about 10-20 minutes!! I met up with Kirsten. I could feel my legs starting to tighten. I rubbed some cream on my legs, salt and refill my bottle. I was ready for the second half of this marathon.

Mile 15-14:19 Mile 16-14:38 Mile 17-14:03 Mile 18-14:36 Mile 19-14:15
I was back on pace and feeling good. If I was going to beat Kirsten L.A. Marathon time of 6:24 I was going to have to step up my pace. I changed my time to a 2 minute run and 2 minute walk pace.

Mile 20-15:00 Mile 21-15:06 Mile 22-15:30
I up my running to 2 minute but my running was slowing down. I was running out of gas!! Kirsten time was out of reach now. I knew I would finish but I could feel my toes ready to curl up in my shoes and my legs cramping!! I grab so salt and took some Advil and hoped I would at the very least I would finish under 7 hours!!!

Mile 23-16:30 Mile 24-15:39 Mile 25 18:04
I'm not able to run for the full 2 minute at this point. I was in pain but nothing I can't handle but at this time I'm telling myself why push it? I'm going to finish. Why push yourself and end up hurting more? That when I saw a friend that got pulled from mile 13 and sent ahead of the race. She was upset but still trying to finish. She told to finish strong!! So I took off running trying to get the best time possible.

Mile 26.2-18:26 Total time-6:45
The marathon end on the Marine base in San Diego. Entering the base I started running. People were cheering me on as I tried to keep running. I knew I was close but did'nt know how long I could keep running. My legs were cramping bad now!! I saw Kirsten and (Grove Daddy another OH runner) cheering me on. I finished 6 hours and 45 minute!!! I beat my L.A. Marathon time by 1 hour and 10 minutes!! It was a great race. I gave it my best and I'm happy knowing I can challenge myself to do things I never thought possible.

Thanks to Kirsten for being my pit crew!! She made it to 3 different spots and by the end of the race look as if she ran the whole 26.2 mile!!

That's my story and I'm sticking to it!!











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L.A. Marathon Report!!
on March 23, 2008 1:22 pm
My marathon day started at 3am rushing to the bathroom!! Yep 5 hours before I was going to be running 26.2 miles I had the runs!!(Mistake #1 seafood pasta for my carb load dinner!) Me and Kirsten walked to 7-11 at 3:30am down the mean streets of downtown L.A. We walked past the homeless sleeping on the streets and the people walking from a night of partying. Got some coffee and imodium walked back to the Beilmore Hotel walked around the lobby looking at old pictures from the 20's & 30's. Some from of the first Acadamy Awards!!

It was 6am I’m dressed and ready to go. I had been thinking all morning if my stomach would hold up during the race? If I would be running to every port-a-potty when I ate something?? I felt good not nerves at all just ready to get started. We took the Metrorail from Downtown to Universal Studios. It was the first time I rode the Metro it was a cool ride with all the runners. We met up with AIDS Project running group. We started making our way to the start line. It was crazy out there with so many runners!! Just a sea of people ready to start running!! The gun goes off then I hear the music I LOVE L.A.!! We are off!!

Mile 1 & 2-18:49-14:43
The couple was up hill so the plan is to walk up hill then run the down hills to make up the times. Also there where so many people it not a safe place to run. I felt good!! It was crazy how many people were out there!!

Mile 3 & 4-13:36 & 13:55
I was feeling good but those times tell me I was going to fast!!(Mistake #2) I need to be at about 15 minute pace or slower. I was planning on doing a 1 minute run & 2 minute walk just like we did on our long training run but my group decide to do a 2 & 2 like on shorter runs (8-12 miles)


Miles 5 & 6 17:48-16:48
We had a lot of bathroom stops these to mile and I had to walk more to give my group a chance to catch up with me.

Miles 7, 8 & 9 14:56-14:33-14:23
Still was feeling good!! This was a very pretty part of L.A. huge old style mansions. There were rich people having parties a party in there driveway, Kids giving us high 5's it was a nice part of the course.

Mile 10 18:21
This is where the wheels fell off the wagon!! I was starting to slow down. I was starting to worry I was know where near the finish. Am I was hitting the wall?? If so I was going to be in for a very long day!! Kirsten asked me if I’m as ok? I snap at her telling her I was GREAT!! After a few words choice words on her part. I told her to run her race I would see her at the finish line. She knew that means I’m pretty much done. I knew I could not keep up and did want to holds her back from having a good race. She ran off I was walking with my buddy Grove Daddy!! I had hope he would run with her to keep her company. But he stay back with me making small talk trying to make me laugh but I was in a foul mood. My legs felt like lead, my feet were burning and I had over 16 miles to the finish!! How was I going to finish???

Mile 11, 12 & 13 16:00-15:53-15:22
The sun is out is all the way out it about 70 degrees it a nice day but not running weather. I'm still trying to shake the effects of the past 10 miles. I can't even keep up with a full 2 minutes of running at the point. So I try running for 1 minute. My feet are burning with every step am my legs are so tight I can barely keep them moving now I starting to feel pain shoot up between my legs!! This is horrible!!


Mile 14& 15 21:56-18:45
I made it to the L.A. Coliseum I see the other half of my running group!! They were in pain too but are in better shape than I was. It was no way I could even keep up. I’m thinking I just going to have to walk the rest of the way. A good time is out the window now I'm in survival mode just trying to finish. I tell Gene (Groove Daddy) look I going to have to walk don’t wait on me!! Gene is a good runner I know he could run the rest. Gene is running in slow motion for the pictures!! He tells me to at least look good for the pictures! So we make like were jogging for the pictures!! Mile 15 a friend mother and son was working a water station but by the time I got there it was like a ghost town. Use water cups everywhere and only a few people handing out water. I was too late they were already gone.



Mile 16 & 17 18:45-18:37
All I could think about was keeping my feet moving. Everyone around me was walking. It was like being in the zombie movie and we were the walking died!! Gene final decided to leave me. I was not being good company. I was really down on myself and I was hurting bad. There was is old lady running but very slow a little faster than I was walking. Her body was twisted forward and to the side. You would think she could not walk a block let alone 17 miles!! It was amazing to watch her!!

Mile 18 & 19 22:43-14:41
I have friends waiting for me at mile 19!! I forgot had Advil with me!! I popped a few pills and one of the volunteers had icy hot!! I rubbed some on my legs!! Wow!! My legs loosed up!! I started back on my 2/2 pace. I was feeling good. I was passing people. Maybe I can turn this around and still finish before the 7 hours?? I made it to mile 19 14:41!! I felt reborn!! LOL! Got some quick hugs and kisses from friends grab a sandwich and I was back in the race!!!



Mile 20, 21 & 22 18:49-16:42-14:13
I was back to mostly walking but my legs felt good enough I would run for a little. So I try to pick up my pace but I was running about as fast as walking. I check my phone mom’s at mile 22!! She standing there with one of her friends I give them both a hug and a kiss I kept moving. As I walking down the street hey that looks like my car? Why would she drive my car and park it so I could see it?? That just not right!! You don’t know how bad I wanted to jump in my car to leave this race!!

Mile 23 & 24 25:33- 22:13
The 6th street bridge took the last hint of life out of my legs. The next two mile was up over the bridge then up a smaller hill to another bridge back to downtown L.A.

Miles 25 & 26.2 20:15 – 23:48
Just 40 more minute then I’m done!! As I make my through downtown I see my coach he tells me I'm doing great. Take it easy and enjoy the finish. At 26 mile marker and I turn on Bob Marley on my i-pod and start running to the finish! I cross the finish line Kirsten and Groove Daddy are waiting on me. Kirsten put the medal around my neck and gives me a kiss! No runners high I was just glad to be finished!

I was feeling down about my race. I got this e-mail from my coach that put it all in perspective.


Whether you never started yesterday's race, did better than you anticipated, worse than you anticipated, or could not finish...you came together as a community and we did something amazing together! You truly are Heroes! As the Coach's were bringing in the last four runners a man approached us and thanked us for doing what we do. He said that he is an APLA client and he benefits from the funds that we raise. If nothing else, that definitely makes it all worth it! I was beaming with pride as I saw you all on the course, you are truly amazing people and my life is better for having met you! I hope that some of you will decide to come back and train again! If not, you should still continue to run; I spotted alumni all day long! Your life will be enriched by being active and you now know that you can do anything!!

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Year End Review!!
on December 31, 2007 6:16 am
What a great year it been. Start of the year I weighted 300lbs and at the end I'm at 227lbs! I run 5k's, 10k's, half-marathon's and training for the L.A. marathon. I've already run 20 miles in training!! I strange how far I come it almost hard to remember what my life was like before.

I can tell you it does get harder the farther out I get!! I can eat more and just about anything I want. It's so easy to fall back to my old was it is a struggle with not just food but alcohol also. I have to stay on top of my weight because it so easy to put back on 5, 10, 15 pounds before I know it!! I'm looking forward to another great year with more fun and staying active!

Happy New Year!!!
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 10/6/05 As many of you out there I have been big all my life. But now it seems I getting to big for my body to handle. I have high blood pressure and I starting to retain water in my legs. I been thinking about the surgery for a long time but have never as much as right now. I had giving myself 6 months while I take the class required by my insurance to try and lose weight. I have been dieting (on and off again) and going to the gym for the past 6 months I lost very little weight. So not I have come to the crossroad on what am I going to do now???  

  10/15/05 After about a week of reading and chatting with other OH members I finally call Dr. Owens to make an appointment. I was told to submit an online app. and send a copy of my insurance card. Now I waiting to hear from the doctors office. I still a little taken by this big change I'm starting. Thanks to the OH members I feel like I taking a step in the right direction. 

      10/18/05 I got a call today from Coastal obesity about my online app. They said my insurance would not cover the operation. When I asked about changing insurance because open enrollment is in Nov. she said it may not the insurance my but my job not covering the operation. Wow!!! That really floored me!!! Now I have to wait for open enrollment to find out if my job or the insurance will cover the operation!!!     

 11/11/05 At my doctors appointment I was told I do have sleep amnia and I would have to do another sleep test to get fitted for my equipment. My blood pressure was good 134/86 for the first time in a long time and I lost 6 pounds!!! So now I have to choose between Blue Shield and Pacific Care for my insurance. I still waiting for the open enrollment to change over. It's only been a month but it feels I been on this journey for months!!!  

   01/09/06 Happy New Year!!!I know its been a while since I posted anything!!! Dec 12 I took another sleep test to get fitted for my equipment after the test I did feel refreshed. Now I waiting on my equipment to arrive. I have new insurance Blue Shield. It just kick in at the beginning for the year so now I starting the process all over again. I've had been working out at the gym about 2-5 times a week. I feel 100% better than I did a year ago but, the weight is not coming off. I can see I big difference in my body-shape. I'm trying to keep doing motived but it hard keep up. The one only things that keeping me going is that I know that it I could be turned down again. Then what would I do? Gain more weight? I'm taking this as a challenge to change my life.  

  2/20/06 I finally got my Cpap machine after going around and around with my medical group. I been feeling good using the Cpap. I also found out that got denied be my medical group because my PCP didn't put down my BMI also the weight loss class I attend last year said I only attended for 2 months!!! So again I have to go in and get things straighten out again!!!

3/19/06 I walked my first 5K!!! I had a great time!! Thank you Helen for inviting me!! I would not and could not have done it without you!!! Also the chance to meet your uncle who is a running machine and your lil sister who is a sweet heart.  Your goodness is truly amazing!!! Now I'm ready for another 5K maybe something longer!!!    

3/21/06 I got the call today!! I'm approved!!! WOW!!! Everything is changing for me I'm just trying to get a grip on this ride. Thank You OH members!! You guy kept my spirits up when I was down!!! I don't know if I could have do it without help for  great the friends I have made.

3/23/06 All systems are go!! I called Dee Dee from Lite Dimensions. She has received my authorization form from my PCP and my appointment to meet with them is April 14!!!

4/15/06I didn't get a date yet. I still have a few more hoops to jump through! I need to fax a copy of my 6-month Dr. supervised diet. I need to get a Psych Evaluation. Which I can go through my insurance and wait for who knows how long or pay $250 and go to one of 3 they have chosen. I have to pay $200 to Lite Dimensions, attend their nutrition class, attend a support group, choose a surgeon and attend one of the surgeons group meeting. I have to complete this is before they will submit my paper work for the surgery to my insurance. I was feeling a little down after my consult. With all the paper work, test, questions, and details about the surgery my head was spinning. Now I'm just planning my next move to get closer to my goal.         

5/10/06 Well I'm done all the requirement for Lite Dimensions to send my info off to my insurance but my 6 month weight loss program was with my medical group!!! My insurance may want me to do a 6 month program from Weight Watcher or some other group that does monthly weight checks!!!! So I have to wait and see if I get approved or not!!!   

 6/2/06 I'm approved!!! It's been such a long journey to get to approved. I still don't believe it. My surgery date is Aug. 21 it feel so long away but now I can enjoy the rest of my summer. I still plan on continue to going to the gym andwalking to get my body to recover faster after surgery also I plan on enjoying my last couple months of eating and drinking!!! :-)     

7/19/06 I'm still over a month away from surgery. I'm waiting for this life changing thing to happen. I'm still in the gym 1-3 times a week. The past weeks have been very hard on me. I closed myself off from friends and just been in the house doing nothing. WLS is on my mind so much I was having problems finding any enjoyment out of life. I'm trying to snap myself out of it by getting out and doing somethings. I feel like I'm in limbo waiting for surgery and hate feeling like that.      

8/20/06 Wow!!! What a month this has been!!! A complete turn around from last month!! I started my last supper tour hitting all the places I wanted to eat and some of OH members favorite places. Claim Jumpers, Roadhouse, Babba Gumps, Club Bounce, Northwoods Inn, Mai Tai Bar, Agora Churrascaria, Lucille's, The HOP and PF Changs is where it ended at 12am this morning!!! What a great time!!! As I sit here sipping on my chicken broth I want to once again thank all my friend here!! You guys are the best!!! I so ready for surgery!! I am without any doubts this is the right direction in my life.  

 8/28/06 I'm a week out from WLS and what a week it has been!!! The night before surgery I was very calm. I just was ready to get this process over and start a new journey. I could not sleep the night before. I was afraid I would over sleep so I stayed awake up till 2 hour before I need to get up.  I made it to the hospital at 5:30 am. Checked in said my good byes got ready for surgery. I really didn't feel nervous until I was laying on my bed and they stated the IV and shaved my belly. A few minutes later Dr. Ali and Dr. Laport were looking over my charts. The next thing I remember I was waking up in ICU. I was taken to ICU because of my sleep apnea. The nurse said my surgery went great and my family member were waiting to see me. I was in a little pain from the holes in my belly and the pressure on my chest but nothing felt different about my new pouch. It was almost like they did do anything but put these holes in me. The first day was by far the toughest! I was feeling major pain from the gas in my chest. The only way to get it out was to try and burp it out. So I did what everyone told me to do before surgery. Start walking!! I few hours after surgery I was up walking around trying to get this gas out of me. Everyone was surprised how well I got around. But the gas never seem to move. Not being able to drink make it worse. So I would sit up in my bed with my head over my table and my angel Monica would rub my back and chest to try and make the gas pressure move. Let me stop and thank Monica for being a great angel!!! Later that night I started throwing up blood!! I started to get worried that something was wrong with me!! I happen again later!!! The nurse said she notified my Dr. but he didn't sound too worried. The next day the gas was gone!!! I felt good!!! Dr. Laport stop in said my surgery went great no problems and the vomiting might be a reaction from the ansea. I had loss some blood I would get a blood transfusion. They would keep an eye on my blood levels I might go home on Wednesday. They kept me in ICU until Wednesday evening then move me to a regular room until Thursday morning then I was released! Everyday I felt stronger!!! Sunday I went to visit some friends bowling they were surprised how well I looked! One telling me I looked great!!! This morning I notice no knee and ankle pain!!! WOW!!! Amazing!!!     

9/30/06 Ok it's that time again to update my profile! The past 6 weeks have been full of highs and lows!!! The first 2 weeks were hell being on liquids!!! But the 3rd and 4th weeks everything got a little better when I was able to eat soft foods. The 5th and 6th weeks I was suppose to be adding eggs and puree foods to my menu. But I never a big eggs eater and baby food just sounds nasty!!!  So I ate solid foods more the 5th week everything went down good. But the 6th week I had a couple bad days of barfing made me go back to soft foods and liquids! Now that I'm 6 weeks in I can eat more regular food. But I now I very worried about what's going to stay down. I guess I'll have to wait and see? I'm back at the gym about 3-4 days a week. I'm feeling good!!! Today I did a 5k Long Bach Obesity walk which ended up being a way over a 5k!!! Last but not least I'm down 41 pounds!!! I'm losing a couple pounds every few days!!! I took some pictures of my face that where I see the difference. (I hope to post them soon!!) My cloths a fitting a bit bigger but no need to do any major shopping yet. I'm down 1 size!! Also I'm no longer SUPER OBESE!!! I just EXTREMELY OBESE!!!LOL!!   

 


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