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Go to an amusment park and fit on the rides, comfortably.

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105 People
 in progress, 
13 People
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To get below 200 pounds

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27 People
 in progress, 
0 People
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Member Interests
  • Cats - 1 Cat Carlos
  • Dogs - 2 Pit Bulls (Ava and Lincoln)
  • Meeting People - I am interested in meeting people pre and post-op!
  • Parenting - I have 1 son Ryan
  • Movies - I love movies in general..Most genres
  • Antique - LOWRIDERS!!!!
  • LPN - I am currently an LPN in VA
  • WLS in your 20's - Hoping to be on the losers bench when I hit 30 (3/14/08)

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I want to thank you for coming by to visit my page! My name is Laura Jean and I am still pre-op  (only for a few more months)!!! I can't waitto meet all of you and finally have my seat on the LOSERS BENCH!!!!!
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11/2/07
on November 2, 2007 8:58 am
So I know I should update this more often but with everything that is going on I have really been too busy to sit and get some things down. BUT.....Today I have a little bit of time. SO>>>>>>>>>>ONLY 4 DAYS LEFT!!! I am so EXCITED!! OMG.....I can't believe this is actually getting ready to happen. I have always been the one with the bad luck so it is CRAZY that my luck and faith have helped me get this far. It also doesn't hurt that I have the GREATEST support system not only at home but here on OH. I've gotten pretty much everything that I need to get thru the hosp stay and the first week, after that we will see howmy taste buds change and then I will buy some more things. I was really surprised how fast Liberty Medical sends your orders. I ordered my calcium on Tues 10/30 and it came YESTERDAY!!!!!AMAZING! But I just wanted to get a quick update n here. I hope everyone is doing well and treckin along. GET READY FOLKS.........MOVE ON DOWN>........I'M WALKING TOWARDS THE LOSERS BENCH!!!!!!
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10/8/07
on October 8, 2007 9:44 am
So I decided today I was gonna call my insurance co to see if they had recvd the paperwork from the surgeons office and I got this response "well I show that there was a call put in but that it is still pending". I said thanks and decided I would call later today. Well I didn't wait that long (maybe 4 hours) and I decided to call back. Again I got this response "I show that there is a request pending and that they are looking for more information from your surgeons office" That is what I wanted to do. Well not 2 minutes later my office number rang and I was told I had a phone call from Dr. Spencers office. I picked up the line and it was Diana (surgery scheduler) and She said those 3 magic words....No not "I love you" but.....YOU ARE APPROVED!!!!! I instantaniously started crying!!!!! I guess I am the type of person who ALWAYS has the bad luck running around me. Well not this time folks!!!!! I am having all my WLS friends take a scoot down on the bench to make room for me!!!!! I am SO INCREDIBLY HAPPY TODAY!!!!!!!
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46 Days and a Wake Up!
on September 21, 2007 10:01 am
So I am down to 46 days and a wake up from today for my surgery! My pre-ops are on Monday and then it it just a hurry up and wait for my approval. I can't begin to tell ya'll how nervous this is making me. Nervous that it may or may not be approved, Nervous about having surgery (never had it before), Nervous about not being fat for the rest of my life, NERVOUS ABOUT EVERYTHING!!!!!! I know that all these emotions are normal but GEEZ LOUISE!!!!!!! GIMME A BREAK! I just wanted to vent a little! I will update after my pre-ops on Monday. My computer is down at home so I have to use the one at work to update.
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8/16/07
on August 16, 2007 10:47 am

8/16/07-well today I think I have WLS on the brain way too much. I have been sitting here all day on the computer looking at profiles, before and after pictures and driving my co-workers nuts. It seems as if the time is dragging by. I again called Diana today (surgery scheduler) and asked if I needed to move my pre-op appts earlier and again she said no.  I know this time is great for me to learn even more about the surgery and what life will be like afterwards but it is SO EXTREMELY HARD TO BE PATIENT!!!!!!! I think I just need to go home and take a nice long . Not that I can sit comfortably in the tub...It was a nice thought. or I can just go home and . Now that would make my day. I better try to get some work done. I will update more frustration later...LOL

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My Story

So you want to hear my story...Well here it is! My name is Laura and I live in Hampton, VA. I have always been a "heavy" girl. Lets put it this way...I have been the same weight, give or take 5-10 pounds, for the last 12 years. SINCE I WAS 15!!!!! Back then I played lots of sports and was considered "big boned". Yea right...My bones aren't that BIG!!!! JEEZ! Well anyway like I said I live in Hampton, Virginia with my husband (Ryan) of 10 years and my 9 year old son (Ryan Jr). I have 1 cat named Carlos and 2 pitt bulls named Ava and Lincoln. I am an LPN at a Family Practice in Suffolk, VA. I guess I have always just accepted the fact that I am fat....There I said it.... I have done my research. For at least 4 years I have looked up information on the internet, but never had insurance that had the benefit. Then one day as I was on the phone with the Surgical Weight Loss Center in Suffolk, I decided to ask the lady if our insurance has the benefit (I work for Bon Secours Hospital). And to my GREATEST surprise she said we did. I immediately booked an appointment to go to the Seminar provided at no charge at a local library put on by Tidewater Surgical (Dr David Spencer/Dr Glen Moore). I had scheduled myself to go months ago but because I was scared I never went. Well after that appointment that is when I decided that I really needed some . I could not do this on my own and after going to the seminar I felt that this was the best tool I could get to help me. So at the end of the seminar I scheduled an appt with Dr David Spencer for July 31st. That was still 4 weeks away. Well being the impatient person I am I continued to call the office to see if there were any cancellations. And another surprise came about 2 weeks later when the surgery scheduler called and said I woud be able to get in the on the 17th of July. I was there! I met with Dr Spencer and he was great. Kinda speaks a little fast and low tone but still I wouldn't trade him for the world. So after the consult I spoke with Diana and she scheduled me for a visit with the Weight Loss office and set my surgery date for Nov 7th! That was 4 months from my original appt! Oh well. At least it is before the end of the year when my insurance actually changes coverage from BCBS to UHC. So I went to my appt with Melody and she scheduled all my pre-op appts. They are all scheduled for the 24th of Sept. By the time they are done then I will only have 5 weeks till surgery day! I actually just got off the phone with Diana just to make sure that I was leaving enough time from my last appt till surgery date for the approval. She said that it might only take a day or two for the approval because its BCBS of NC. Well we will see! 

     Well I figured I would tell a little bit more about me and my support system. Like I said before I am married to a wonderful man who married me as a fat girl and we still are going strong. I got married at teh age of 19 and had my son 9 months later. My mom is supportive and so is my father (I was always a daddy's girl). My husband said he would love me either way but my main concern after I told him I was contemplating getting it done was He is not attracted to smaller or shoudl I say normal looking women. He likes his women "thick". I confronted him that I may not be he woman he married 10 years ago and he said that he will stick by me thru thick or thin!!!! What a man! My friends are all excited and provide enormous amounts of support. The one person who doesn't quite get why I am doing this is my older sister. She asked why I couldn't lose 150+ with just diet and excersise????? Yea right. I can't do it. She said "It's a major surgery and I don't think you need it!" I came right back(cause I know that NO ONE is changing my mind) "well you know Meg...I didn't say anything about you getting your boobs done!!!!" She kinda shut up after that. Maybe it's hard for her being 5'4" and about 130 soaking wet. But it's ok. I think that she kinda realizes that I am GOING to have this done and it is her choice to be supportive or not! 

Other then the above I think that is my story....I look forward to meeting you all and having you all share in my journey and get to be a part of yours!!!! Congratulations and see you all on the losers bench!

 


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