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Tim Eldridge
I met with him on April 26, 2006 and he is the best! He really took his time explaining things to me. He was joking around and I really appreciated his humor. I could tell he is really respected in his field. I hope that I can get this done because I know he will help me make this tool work for me! :)
He really makes sure that you know this is not an easy fix, that this is something to be used as a tool. He went through all the risks and all the possible things that could happen. He told me how many people he has had problems with. It was the end of the day and he still spent 30 mins with me going through everything- even after he knew I watched an online presentation. I respected that.
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  • Comment by cnav on 8/1/06 7:41 am
    Hi Liz, I hope your surgery is a success and the next few months fly by. This is your time, your life, and your surgery. The very best of luck to you. Cheryl
  • Comment by Taffydoll on 7/31/06 6:41 pm
    Wishing you all the best for an uneventful surgery and a great recovery. All the best in your new life!!!
  • Comment by WannaSew on 7/31/06 6:22 pm
    Liz, Congratulations...Yo ur day to be banded is nearly here....I am so excited for you and the new life that you are going to have....You are now taking the steps to take your life back and become a healthier person... Good Luck and God Bless, I am praying for your quick and painfree recovery.... Blessings, Debbi
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I've been overweight my whole life- sound familiar :)
I'm 5'3" and at my highest weighed 286 lbs. I remember weighing myself in elementary school and being 125 lbs . I have dieted down to 140 lbs from 180lbs but it was such a struggle. The diet that did me in was the phentermine/pondimin diet. After I went off that after a couple of years of being addicted to phentermine- not medically addicted but its pretty much speed- I gained quickly 145-180 was almost overnight. I went from weighing 180  and skipping everything in between and straigh to 230. Now I'm 270 after losing weight on weight watchers.  Recently I was diagnosed as having polycystic ovaries which explains ALOT! :) 
I have been married for 6 years. My husband and I have known each other for 15 years so he has seen me at my lowest and married me at 230 lbs. He has never had issues with my weight and is very supportive of this surgery. I have two sons age 12 and 3. I am wanting to be healthy and more energetic for everyone in my family and myself.

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ch ch ch changes...
on May 1, 2007 2:56 pm
So much has happened since my last post. I guess I finally figured out what I want to do with my life, I'm very excited about it. I'm happy with where my life is right now and even more excited about the future. 
I deal daily with the old negative voice in my head and have to do affirmations quite a bit because I realize I'm normal/average now and yet I constantly find myself thinking how fat people might think I am. I am still in the obese category but thats going to change soon!  I think when I get to 187 I will be over weight ...I'll have to look at the charts. 
I know it seems extreme to some but due to revelations in my life I am happy truly happy with my life. I was the person who saw no purpose or reason behind life except a long torturing existense until death. Its like a fog has been lifted and I'm happy for the here and now and happy and excited for the future. 
I wear and 18/20, I have a pair of 14/16 stretch pants that I am wearing out! who wouldn't? :) I am refocused after my fill today and plan on giving it my all so I can reach the ultimate goal of 100lbs gone by my 1 year! 
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Ugh!
on January 21, 2007 11:32 pm
I am going through so much right now. I guess I didn't think this weight loss thing would have such an effect on my life! I got so used to being the woman on the couch with food that I'm bored now. I want to go out and do do do. I want a new career that excites me and I want to be home for my kids. I want it all and I guess I am realizing I can't have it all. 
I am getting frustrated with everything and I had to go for a drive tonight. Get out of the house alone and think. I managed to have dialogue alone in the car. Crazy huh? 
I hope I figure it all out soon!
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Stuff
on January 18, 2007 7:03 am
I've decided to start blogging more. I guess people are right you do get tired of the board sometimes. In any case I have spent a lot of time here, posted many questions and gotten lots of advice and info.
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update... 01/11/2007
on January 11, 2007 1:11 pm
I am down to 217 now. Woo Hoo!! Just two weeks ago I was 23 lbs away from onderland and now I'm only 17 lbs away. Maybe I can do it by 6 1/2months!! I am having TOM and probably have some bloat so I am drinking lots of water this week! :) sorry for the TMI

I haven't been this low since 1997. Wow huh? 

With some wonderful advice from the board I am able to eat and keep down more solid proteins. At least once a week I follow a liquid diet just because and it helps. I find that eating like we were told seems to make all the difference in the world!
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Oops- Dr appt Nov 7th
on December 6, 2006 4:49 pm
I forgot to put this story down and its very important. I felt I needed an unfill and went to my dr. I was pb'ing everything. 
I was trying to eat 1 cup of food. Well my dr didn't want me to eat 1 cup of food so he said he would take all the fill out and do an upper GI or leave my fill alone. I opted to leave the fill alone and off I went. 
I was pb'ing ALOT and sliming frequently. I had been upset with the way I couldn't eat. 
Then he reminded me of the RULES- FOLLOW THE RULES. 
I have refocused myself and I have lost more weight now than I did before. I make sure to drink hot tea before solid meals. I have been able to eat more protein and more solid foods. 
I have been walking and moving more and I think this helps too. 

At my appt on Nov 7th I weighed 236 and this week I weighed 225. AMAZING! I know that is just from drinking my water better but I'm happy! 
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My Story

12/28/2001- This was the start of my journey YEARS AGO!
I Have made an appt with Dr Pearce - its a support group meeting and then I am planning on going to the local group in Jan also.
My insurancce is BCBC Bluechoice PPO. I hope I get approved! I made an appt on Jan 9 with a PCP recommended by the local RNY group. Also I have told my Mom. She was remarkably supportive.
My sister is also supportive and my dh says if I am going to do this he will be supportive... That is a great deal of support! :)
I will update more later 

01/10/02 Well I went to my pcp and asked for a referral. Luckily a lot of locals goto him for this...He was so supportive!
I found out today that we are self insured here at work .. now i have to see if I am approved!
I am getting so excited. I have a few more records to get and I'll be on my way!!! :)

01/2002
I am very anxious about getting the ball rolling on this. I keep trying to find info on my insurance. I really don't want to have to fight for this. I have a back up plan to go to my husbands insurance if mine won't cover it. His is an HMO but seems more people have approvals from BC/BS with an HMO than my plan.
My first seminar with Dr Pearce is 01/08/2002!

Well my insurance does have an exclusion- DENIED!

06/04
Wow almost two years later! I just had another baby but magically enough weigh the same! I have a new job with new insurance. Starting the journey all over again.

04/30/06- I'm baaack! :)
I wanted to keep my old info here so people will know how long my journey has been.
I have seen information on the lap band since the beginning but there was never any surgeons locally I could find. Then when I started working at my new job in 07/04 many co workers have had this surgery done. Some had the RNY and some had the lap band.
When I began working in July 2004 I had been off work awhile and we had free insurance at my husbands work so I didn't get the health insurance. I waited until enrollment this year and told myself put in one really good last effort to lose weight and then I didn't enroll in the insurance telling myself that I was gonna diet one last good time. I joined weight watchers and got a Gym membership. I told myself this was it. I put everything into. From 08/05-01/06 I lost 30 lbs. Its good but slowly I fell back off and today I've gained back 15 lbs. I started weight watchers at 284. I am 5' 3".

I have two co workers looking into lap band and called the surgeon that many people at work have gone to.  They email you a presentation called emmi for the lap band. I watched it and called back and was set up on an appt two days later. How is that for fast?

On April 26, 2006 I met with my surgeon, Tim Eldridge,for lap band. He was great! He really took the time to talk to me. Said that as a surgeon he usually does 90% of the work and the patient does 10% with aftercare. He said with the lap band its the only surgery where he does the easy part -10% of the work. He said he puts the band on and the rest is all me. He told me I had to work really hard at this and that the results were up to me. He said most only lose 70% of their weight. I'm happy with that because most charts say I need to be 121 lbs and I'd look like death at 121. In the end he told me he thought I was a great candidate for this surgery that he could tell I was informed and he could tell I'd put in the effort. He was sending in my letter on thursday or friday and then his office manager would call me this week to let me know. From my coworkers I know I will have to go to a psych consult and to see a nutritionist. So hopefully we will know soon how this is going to go!

05/03/06
I finally called the dr's office back and called insurance. Insurance is waiting on my info and they told me yesterday they are going to get my info and it takes a week.
I called the dr to find out what I can do for now. SHe gave me the # to the psych consult, told me I need to goto my pcp and get a tsh test and a referral letter.  Finally she is going to send my info to the nutritionist. Tuesday I go and get my dr letter. I asked my pcp receptionist if he does referrals and she said yes so I am glad! I am going to write a letter with my diet history and history of problems from being overweight so he'll have that information. I have done weight watchers recently and I also have asked my dr about diet before. I had an absolute exculsion with my prev insurer so I know thats why it can't be coded in my file.
My appt with my pcp is on Tues 05/09/06.

05/04/06
The nutritionist called today and we are meeting on 05/09/06. I thought this was great so I called the psych to try again for an appt. May 26. I am going to try and be patient about this because I know others have been way more patient than me. They did put me on a list to move me up if anyone cancels. Maybe by June I'll be ready to go :)

05/05/06
Well my ins info is finally in the insurance system. I got my id# and signed up online. I was able to see what info they needed before claims could be submitted. I completed the questions and hopefully they can accept claims now! I called the surgeons office and vickie took down all the info. She asked about my appts and she seemed to write those down. Not too much longer!! I hope the psych can get me in sooner so that I can maybe have my surgery at the end of the month. Wouldn't that be awesome :)

05/08/06
GREAT NEWS! The psych consult was moved up to Wed. 05/10/06. Today I am doing my physician appt and my nutritionist. Then tomorrow the psych consult. Give it a few days to send it to the surgeon, then the surgeon submits it to insurance next week so maybe I'll know by May 19? :) Maybe maybe maybe I can get it this month :)

05/10/06
I am done with all my appts. Everything went well. The nutritionist was very informative. My PCP was very supportive. Today I had the psych eval and it was okay. Emotional but okay. He did say I would succeed and to quit thinking I'm going to fail. He said he recommended it for me so that is great!
Now I have to just wait for the surgeon to submit the information to the insurance :)

05/18/06
I called the dr's office yesterday and they still haven't gotten the letters. Then I found out the person that submits to insurance is out for 2 weeks. Meeting tonight at the hospital. I'm gonna go but don't really want to because of my social anxiety thing due to my weight.

05/21/06
I didn't goto the meeting. I'm slightly annoyed that nothing is happening. I am going to follow up on tuesday with the 2 drs letters. Then again I know they won't be submitted because the lady is out of the office for another week.

05/23/06
I finally called the surgeons office.The person that handles insurance for the surgeon is out for two weeks and her helper was out for the day too. But I ended up calling the psych and my pcp and the letters were sent already. So today I am going to call and see what they are going to do since the main lady is gone. I'm sure the one girl can send it over to the insurance company for me. I make it all sound so easy. When I left a message yesterday I said 'I'll just start calling everyday'. And I will just because I'm not inactively waiting anymore.

05/31/06
Called and talked to the dr's office. They seem to be behind still. There was a communication issue but she finally understood. She said she would have my stuff sent today. I called the insurance company and they called doctors office and asked for a predetermination to be faxed over. Sounds like they have a lot of factors to be approved and I don't know if I meet them all but we'll see.

06/13/06
Nothing new. Well I hurt my back. Dr said weight related...hmppph!
I've been going through a bout of depression. I really hate it. I just feel like I'm not good at anything and that I'm lazy. Truth is my body was telling me something is wrong you just need to stay still. I guess I know why people with back injuries often get depressed. I decided that since it was hurting and the dr wants me drugged for a few days to let my back try and heal that I was going to take time off work. I am going to pop the pills and lay around for a couple days and go from there...

July 2006-
I got a date! I having the procedure on Aug 1st. 2 weeks yikes!

 

 


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