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Goals

Complete a Sprint Triathlon

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To start living life instead of existing.

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Ride a bike again

62 People
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Ride a horse again

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stop avoiding long lost friends due to my weight

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Surgeon Testimonial

Jeffrey Friedman M.D.
I originally started my journey towards weight loss surgery with a different local surgeon. I didn't get to meet the surgeon, but for my insurance I met monthly with the nutritionist / dietician. The first visit with him had me leaving embarassed and angry... with only a few paper handouts to show for the visit. His assumptions and comments were what I expected from the general public, not a weight loss professional. I decided it was a "standard 1st visit speech" so I went back again the 2nd month. I received another fistful of handouts and instructions to cut out "all those deep fried foods" - even though he never reviewed the carefully documented food log I had in hand (which did not list any fried foods). Again, the 5-10 minutes he spent with me left me feeling humiliated and unsure.
I decided I would rather go through life struggling with my weight on my own than to deal with the frustration and embarassment.

And then a friend suggested I visit Dr. Friedman. WOW. What a difference.

The instant I walked in the office door I was greeted with a pleasant waiting room and an even more pleasant lady at the desk, Betty. Dr. Friedman came to the waiting room to get me and I had a consultation with him before even meeting the nutritionist. He was very friendly and down to earth. I wasn't even sure I wanted to go through with surgery, so Dr. Friedman reviewed all of the potential complications, risks and benefits. He sketched out the surgery on a piece of paper and wrote down the various medications and vitamins he would be requiring of me. When I left HIS office, I felt confident in my new decision to have RNY Gastric Bypass, and confident in my decision to have Dr. Friedman as my surgeon.

Throughout the remaining months of my insurance required visits, every visit was pleasant and reassuring. There was no rushing through and no "handout only" consultations. Every time I met with the nutritionist she explained her expectations, why she had them and how I could meet them. The nurse was WONDERFUL about making sure my anxiety and claustrophobia was addressed and made known to the entire team who would be involved in my surgery.

The morning of my surgery I expected to be frantic... but I was very calm and confident that I was placing my life in the hands of a great surgeon who had genuine concern for me as an individual, a friendly and thorough OR team who would see to my needs (especially the anxiety and claustrophobia, if the need arose) and I had advocates in both my surgeon and his nurse.

I woke up from surgery with mild pain, but mostly wanted something to moisten my mouth. I had very little pain throughout my stay (Tuesday morning - Thursday afternoon) and it was always addressed with reasonable quickness by the nurses on the floor. The nurses and techs were caring and attentive. Even the housekeeping staff seemed like my own personal cheer squad as I took my walks in the middle of the night.
Dr. Friedman visited me each day and checked on how I was feeling. He never made me feel like my questions were dumb or insignifcant.


I am only a week post-op and I feel great! I had my first post op visit and everyone in the office was happy and proud for me. It was like celebrating with friends instead of the usual feeling you get in a doctor's office. There is a 5yr aftercare program, so I feel good knowing I have resources available to me for the "long haul."

I adore Dr. Friedman and his staff.... and I feel like they are sincerely interested in playing a part in my success so that I can really LIVE life
Member Interests
  • Animal Rescue - I foster horses that are seized by the county
  • Cats - 4 of them inside - Diva , Leroy, Boots and Lil
  • Dogs - I have a 110lb yellow Lab named Rio. He means more than this line lets me write.
  • Horses - 2 horses - 29yr old Skye and 2yr old Buddy
  • Gardening - LOVE my garden! Even at my highest weight I was out there in the Florida sun

Latest Surgery Support Comments

  • Comment by Vanessa A. on 8/18/11 6:27 am
    Good luck on your surgery, hope you do great and i pray Everything will be perfect
  • Comment by Shae-mae on 7/22/11 6:17 pm
    Just read your post. praying all goes well for you and you get some peace. Good things are coming.
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Healthy
on April 29, 2011 6:40 pm
I have spent entirely too much time reading here at OH.  I read blogs from day one to current post, study the forums, read the practical articles, etc.
  In my reading, I see where a lot of folks talk about their comorbidities and wanting to be off meds.  It kind of worries me as far as being approved for the surgery but I am extremely healthy to be so morbidly obese.  My cholesterol runs about 127, blood pressure 112/78.  No diabetes or thyroid issues.  I have knee problems that originated from traumatic injury but I am sure the weight keeps them aggravated.  I have such mild sleep apnea that when I couldn't tolerate the CPAP mask the pulmonologist told me not to torture myself, it was on the lowest setting anyway. (I would take xanax to go to sleep with the mask on, but wake up with literally pieces of the mask and straps scattered across the room).  I qualify for surgery based just off of my BMI (ridiculous at 53 or so) so I guess it is good that I am healthy.

   I am taking my vitamins, drinking protein shakes and working out. Since the start of the "nutritional study" I have lost about 20lbs that I know of. Today I walked a mile with my dog and had absolutely zero problems until the last 1/4 mile or so when my knee kicked up - probably didn't help I was wearing crocs instead of walking shoes  :)
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Pain
on April 26, 2011 10:19 pm
 I strained my lower back carrying my old dog a couple of weeks ago and it is still bothering me. I know it would probably heal with rest, but I have been too busy with spring planting and picking blackberries to put in the freezer.  My gym partner has gone on a cruise so I haven't been to the gym at all yet this week.   I plan to either get to the gym in the morning or go for a walk with my younger dog.  I also have some gardening to do, some "must do" stuff before the Florida heat is too much for tender plants.
  
   I am wondering about some posts I see talking about being unable to eat veggies.  I love vegetables, especially those I grow at home - squash, zuchinni, peas, beans, corn, tomatoes, onions, radishes and cucumbers.  My surgery (if I am approved by insurance, still have 3 weigh-ins to go) will probably not be until August or September, so I can enjoy the veggies as part of my pre-op diet.


  Nothing really exciting to put in writing - I just want to try to get in the habit of putting things here.
I go back and forth on nervous and excited on the surgery.  The future's so bright I gotta wear shades!
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Starting the Journey
on April 24, 2011 12:40 pm
My insurance requires 6mths supervised nutritional study. I started Feb 4 at 353 lbs. The guy was an *&$%* .   I am not a gym rat -but I am not inside on the couch watching TV and eating Cheetos and Bon Bons all day either - I have a 70'x70' garden I tend by myself : amending soil, tilling, turning over, fertilizing, planting, weeding, harvesting.  I have horses that I tend to and move the fences for pasture rotation, I have chickens I care for and pens / houses to build, repair and expand.
  He told me I would lose weight if I would "get out from in front of the TV all day everyday".    I figured it was his standard 1st visit speech so I shrugged off that comment as well as others that he made.
   The 2nd visit I was down 9lbs and returned with my food log he had asked me to keep - and I did it religiously.  He never asked about the log, but scolded me about eating deep fried foods and going to McDonald's "so much".   I was furious.
 I talked to a couple of friends who had RNY elsewhere and they convinced me to give Dr. Jeffrey Friedman a try.

  I saw him in mid-March and he was friendly, kind, confident and reassuring.  He answered my questions and helped me to decide on RNY for my own surgery - no pushing, just information.   I started with an "introductory" visit to his nutritionist and walked away with a ton more information than both visits combined with the other guy.   At my weigh-in on 4/12 I was down 20lbs. 
   I had my psychological eval and got the results so now I have in writing that I am sane   :)

My sister's best friend had RNY on 4/12 and is doing well. She is keeping a journal for me of good and bad so I know what to expect.  She is doing great so far.

   My newest challenge is trying to figure out / follow / learn the measurements and counts that the NUT wants me to have of different nutrients and food types. I go back on 5/16 for visit number 4.


Nervous. Excited.
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