I know I am not suppose to eat them, I know exactly what i am suppose to be eating, but why do I always choose the bad things instead of the good things, this is driving me crazy, I didn't have the surgery to not lose weight, I really have to get myself out of this funk and do what I am suppose to do.  Any one reading this that has had the same problem I have could you please help me out and let me know what you do/have done to get over this, I'm going crazy, and it doesn't help that my family has to have something sweet every night before they go to bed.  My daughter is going down the same road I am but thinks she is perfectly fine the way she is and if I try to talk to her about it she gets offended, I feel like such a bad influence on her.  Ok I just let my heart out here something I don't do very often, so please don't step on it!!!