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To Fit into the XL Free T-Shirt I Got When I Joined The Gym

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TO SIT IN A AIRPLANE SEAT AND NOT HAVE TO USE AN EXTENSION

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to be below 250

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Member Interests
  • Computers & Internet - Love to play games at www.pogo.com
  • Travel - Our Favorite! From Africa to Hawaii, we have been lots of great places!
  • Dogs - We have 2 dogs - a chocolate lab and a Golden Retriever / Chow mix.
  • Theater - I majored in Theatre in college and LOVE going to the shows!
  • Singing - My husband and I LOVE to Karaoke!!!
  • Real Estate Sales Associate - I have my license, but don't do anything with it. Considering it after WT Loss!

Latest Surgery Support Comments

  • Comment by Tami H. on 6/4/07 5:12 pm
    Praise God, surgery went well. Marli got out of recovery and into her room around 4:30pm. She is groggy, but doing good. Her husband Troy tells us all thank you for all our prayers and support of her. Now the adventure begins!! blessings, Tami
  • Comment by MOJI on 6/3/07 2:58 pm
    Hi Marli, congrats on your up-coming surgery and I hope for a fast recovery God Bless-moji
  • Comment by Tami H. on 6/3/07 10:59 am
    Father God, we ask your hand of protection and mercy upon Marli tonight and tomorrow. Grant her doctors and nurses your wisdom to care for her with excellence and may her surgery be without complications. I ask that even now, you protect her body from infection and any post op problems. Grant her spirit your peace and presence and for her husband Troy too. Make yourself known to her in a mighty way. Give us wisdom to support and encouage her along the way. May her sleep tonight be sweet, and without fear or tension. May she go into surgery with confidence. Be with her post op, that the nurses will meet her needs for pain medications and she would not have much nausea. I thank in you in advance for my dear friend, and I know you are watching over her even now. In Jesus' name, Amen love Tami
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October 31, 2007
on October 31, 2007 8:28 am


HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!!

And no tricks for me this year - it is a TREAT that I am down another 3 pounds!! Woo Hoo!!! 89 Pounds GONE FOREVER!!! I can't believe it. I will lose over 90 pounds before leaving for China. We leave in 9 days. I can't even imagine what it would be like to lose 11 pounds in the next 9 days to reach the 100 pound mark before leaving - but it would be super cool if that happened. I will try to make it so.

So, something pretty cool happened this week. I went to The Avenue (for those who don't know, The Avenue only sells sizes 14 - 32 and I have pretty much shopped there exclusively for the last 6 years) to get some things for China - I need another pair of jeans and a few sweaters and stuff, and I had a 20% off my entire purchase coupon. Well, there was a beautiful frilly girly ruffled shirt in black and white that they just got in. I love it! I love girly shirts and have always wanted one in white, but white doesn't really look good on us big girls. So, I grab a size 26/28 and a size 22/24 in the black and head off to the dressing room. The 26/28 was swimming on me and the 22/24 was loose too, but looked good. I went out to the rack and, ya know, just for shits and giggles grabbed an 18/20 in WHITE off the rack and headed back into the dressing room. I slipped it on and IT FIT! I looked in the mirror and said, out loud, "Shut Up" to myself (but the lady in the  next dressing room thought I was talking to her - oops!) because I never expected it to fit, let alone look as good as it did. Woo Hoooooo!!!!! You better believe I bought that shirt! Along with another 18/20 blues shirt and a green sweater and red hoodie in 22/24. I can't believe I am fitting into some 18/20's. I knew this surgery would work all along in my head - but my heart wouldn't let me imagine losing this much so fast. And my heart was also very scared that I would be the one person out there that the surgery didn't work for - I mean, nothing has worked for me till now, why should this be any different? Well, it is different. It is the solution I have been looking for. It is the tool I need to be successful and keep the weight off for good. I know there will be a bounce back after I get to my lowest weight - it is normal - everyone has it - but I will never again weigh over 200 pounds - let alone 300. I am pretty damn happy right now.

Here is a picture of me at our Halloween Parade in our office building - wearing a cool hat my mom lent me and my NEW WHITE SHIRT!

Halloween Me by you.

Have a great holiday everyone and I will see you next week. Thanks for stopping by!

 

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October 24, 2007
on October 24, 2007 7:42 am

First off, I am home sick. My first illness since my surgery and it feel just as crappy as it always has. I hate being sick. 

sick_in_bed by you.

But even feeling like crap on a stick can't stop me from being super happy that I lost 6 - YES 6 - pounds this week! That is 86 Pounds GONE FOREVER!!! Oh Hell Yeah!

Aside from being sick, it was a great week. I had a ton of WOW moments over the weekend. My family spent the weekend out at Disney's Animal Kingdom. We stayed Friday and Saturday night at the Animal Kingdom Lodge. Me, Troy, Mom, Dad, Steph, Joel and their three wonderful boys. My first WOW came when we got into our Savannah View room and we went on the balcony to look at the many animals on the Savannah. I was able to sit in the chairs out on the balcony. Chairs with arms! Yea! That night we went with the kids down to the game room and I was able to fit into one of those car racing games. Before my butt would not have fit in and even if it did, my stomach would have hit the steering wheel. Not Now!! Troy and I had a blast racing each other. Saturday, when we went into to park, I was able to walk straight through the turnstile! I didn't have to use the "stroller gate" and I didn't even have to turn sideways and go through on my tippy toes so my belly was above the turnstile. Nope - I walked straight on through! Hooray! My sister said to me "now you are just like a normal over weight person" - which was so true! On the safari ride, I was sitting on the end and when there were animals on my side of the vehicle, I was able to hold my nephew on my lap - that's right - I have a lap now - and a kid can fit on it! Woo Hoo! I was able to walk the whole park for two days and keep up with the family. I didn't have to stop and rest all the time. It was great! And last, but not least - I RODE A ROLLER COASTER! I have not been on a roller coaster in probably 6 years. Last time I rode one was The Hulk at Universal Studios and it took 2 guys pushing on the lap bar to get it to lock down. That was embarrassing enough - after that I never wanted to risk being asked to get off the ride because I wouldn't fit. We rode Everest and it was so much fun!!! Yowzer!!! What an awesome weekend!!!

Here is a picture of Expedition Everest - my first Roller Coaster in 6 years!!

ExpeditionEverest by you.

I also wanted to post this e-mail that my mom sent me because it means so much to me and I want to always remember it:

I rejoiced, as did your dad, with you (as we discussed driving home) about all your wow moments you had this weekend with your family who love you so very much.  

 My heart is filled with joy, pride and a multitude of love for all that you have accomplished.  You AND Troy are to be congratulated a hundredfold.  Keep on truckin’  Love, mom

 PS – please let Troy know how very much I appreciated his care and concern for both of us this weekend – he always waited for me to catch up and as it was sung in the Lion King review – I could feel his love for us all weekend.  Troy is a wonderful caring man whom we both admire and adore and we are so very proud to call him our son-in-law.  ! 

Thanks Mom. I am so lucky to have such a wonderful family. 

That is about all for this week. 2 weeks til we leave for China. I am getting so excited!!!


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October 17, 2007
on October 17, 2007 5:15 am

I REACHED MY FIRST GOAL!!!!

My first goal was to lose 80 pounds before I left for China. As of today, I have done that! 80 Pounds GONE FOREVER!!! Woo Hoo!!!!!

HipHipHooray by you.

I will say, however, that I hate slow weight loss weeks. Even though they are normal. Even though it is just my body catching up to itself. Even though I know I will have them, I hate them. I lost one pound this week. But, big picture and all that, I am still down 80 pounds in just over 4 months and that is pretty awesome! But this slow week makes it hard to reach my S T R E T C H goal of 100 pounds before China. But, honestly, I am good with that. I have 3 weeks before we leave and I can probably lose another 10 pounds and that is awesome. We will see. For me, it is all good in the hood.

So, I went shopping this weekend. I didn't mean to, it just happened. We went to see Elizabeth The Golden Age on Sunday (Excellent Movie) and I was on the way home when my friend Joan called and she was at Macys and they were having a sale. DETOUR! I met her up there and I found a shirt that I love for $19! There were other things I loved, but I am just not willing to spend a lot of money on new clothes right now. And, the shirt is a 2X !! It was very exciting for me because I have not bought a piece of clothing from a store that was not a Plus Size store in over 5 years.

Speaking of Plus Size stores, I found a Plus Size consignment shop this weekend and took in my nicer pieces of clothing up there on Saturday. I had cleaned out the closet again on Friday and had several items in size 30 / 32 that I had only worn a few times or not worn at all and thought I might try to make a little cash. I also have 3 more bags to donate to the Vietnam Veterans and they are coming to pick them up this Friday. The consignment Shop, called Pretty Women, was great. I even found 2 shirts, a necklace and some earrings for myself. One shirt still had the tags on it. Apparently they get a lot of clothes like mine that have never been worn because people have WLS and they blow through their sizes so fast that they sometimes miss wearing something they might have bought before surgery. Yeah, I can relate.

That is about all for this week. Hopefully next week will be a bigger loss!

 

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October 10, 2007
on October 10, 2007 8:22 am

Another week, another 4 pounds!! Ayup, 79 Pounds GONE FOREVER!!!

That kicks ass. 4 more weeks till China and I am one pound away from meeting my goal to lose 80 pounds before the trip. I am only 21 pounds away from my S T R E T C H goal of 100 pounds. I am going to try try try to get as close to that 100 as possible.

We had dinner with my Aunt Betty (God mother) and Uncle Bob this weekend. It was nice. I had the Lobster Bisque (about 2/3s of a cup - so YUM!) and the Cod special with smashed taters, spinach and asparagus. It was delish! Here is a picture of us that was taken that night - I am wearing my other new shirt! Woo Hoo! The handsome Gent to my right is my wonderful hubby!

Me, Troy, Aunt Betty & Uncle Bob by you.

So, new topic - I think my hair is really thinning. I know it happens to most WLS patients - I was just under the impression that it would not happen to me! LOL! And the thing that sucks it that it seems to be thinning on the top where my bangs start. My husband tells me I am crazy, but I think he is being nice. I called Dr. Kim's office and the nurse told me not to freak out - that the hair loss is normal and TEMPORARY. And that it grows back. I started on Biotin to promote new growth. I have a hair appointment in a few weeks and will get my hairdressers opinion on if I need a new style or not. For me, the thinning is all I see when I look in the mirror. Bummer. I will take some pictures and post them later on in the week.

I went to The Magic basketball game on Monday and saw a lot of people that had not seen me since before surgery. That was FUN! I got so many compliments. Our seats were in the front row and when we were in the Area Club at half time there were a lot of people coming up to the table where we were sitting with my parents to tell me they saw me walking around the floor and that I looked great. So nice!

That is about all I can think of to post now. Have a fabu week everyone and thanks for stopping by to check up on me.



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October 3, 2007
on October 3, 2007 9:08 am


Another week, another 3.5 pounds gone. Oh yeah, 75 Pounds GONE FOREVER!! Tomorrow it will be 4 months since surgery. Who would ever believe that I would be down 75 pounds in 4 months. Just Awesome.

I would say I will most definitely lose 80 pounds before leaving for China next month. 5 Weeks to go. I think I can lose at least another 15 pounds before then. That means I would have lost 90 pounds in 5 months. I can't even imagine if I was going on this trip at 356. Well, I guess I can - I have never been one to let my weight hold me back. I went to Africa 2 years ago at 330 pounds. I was able to do all the activities, but the trip didn't come without its share of hard moments. Sure, there was the seat belt extender on the plane over to Africa. But that was a minor inconvenience compared to the small planes we took between game camps. We had to purchase 2 seats on all the "Puddle Jumpers" because of my weight. The first plane was a 12 seater that was very narrow and the seats were very close together. I could not fit in between them. I tried and tried. I tried to hop over, but that didn't work either. It was humiliating. I had to basically sit on the floor in the back of the plane where they put the carry on luggage. I sat back there and put on the bravest face I possibly could and tried not to let my husband or my parents see the tears that were streaming down my cheeks. When my mom looked back at me I could see that she wanted to cry too for me. I am so happy that she will never have to feel that pain for me again. Fortunately, the same company provided all our puddle jumper flights and for all future flights they removed one of the 2 seats in the last row so I could sit in a seat. When we go back to Africa in July of next year, I won't have to worry about that. I can't even begin to tell you how happy that makes me.

So, I went shopping. I had to get some new bras. Absolutely had to. The old ones were loose and the girls were hanging out around my stomach. Not a good look. So I went to Lane Bryant. I have not bought any clothes there in a long time because I was wearing a 30/32 shirt. The only place that carries that size is The Avenue, so that and Romans catalogue were my only choices. Of course when I got to Lane Bryant I just had to try on some shirts and stuff too. Right? How could I not? I bought 2 shirts - size 22/24!! W00T!! I also bought some black dress pants and new jeans for the China trip. And, of course, 2 new bras that have the girls looking much better and sitting where they are supposed to! I had to restrain myself from buying more since they had so many nice things. But I didn't want to spend too much money on clothes that wouldn't fit in another 2 months. I am planning to go to the Lane Bryant outlet down by the attractions about a week before the China trip to pick up a few more items.

Here is a picture Troy took in our back yard in the jeans and one of the new shirts. The T Shirt has a hoodie! So Cute!!



Thats about all for this week. Have a great week everyone!

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