25 years ago we met ... he picked me up where I was broken ... the stranger who called the ambulance
21 years ago we wed ... me his fat bride ... he a healthy man... whose kidneys shut down 16 years ago..
3 years ago we renewed our vows ... prior to me going in for my panniculectomy - him recovering from kidney transplant and rejection issues along with tram flaps and toe amputations...
2 weeks ago we stood with other couples and reaffirmed our commitment to each other...
The first time around my 3 year old son was our ring bearer .. the little kid who asked him to marry me...
Second time around I walked in on the arm of my son ... to renew our vows...
Third time around we stood with other couples and reaffirmed our commitment...
IT WAS NOT AND IS NOT EASY ... BUT WE HAVE EACH OTHER AND WE HAVE YOU MY DEAR CYBERFRIENDS ... ALWAYS ENCOURAGING US ON THE JOURNEY
I stood beside this man through his kidney failure and his kidney transplant and most recently his forefoot amputation ...
He stood beside me through lumpectomy and hysterectomy and a whole bunch of other ectomies ... He encouraged me on my weight loss journey and did not leave my bedside during my RNY nor during the surgical intervention the day after my RNY for complications ... he held me and cleaned me when the secretions around my ileostomy bag burned into my skin ... but look at us today ... WE ARE TOGETHER IN SPITE OF....
He is walking in spite of and I am enjoying every day of my journey for life in spite of ... we are survivors and we encourage each other ...
LAST NIGHT IN A FAMILY AND FRIENDS GATHERING WE CELEBRATED OUR ANNIVERSARY (actual date is Monday) ... and all he wanted was a video ... snippets of our togetherness...
I made all the dresses for my marriage and vow renewals ... and I shared them on here ... in 2008...
This is a recap of my journey WORKING IT TOGETHER WITH MY FAMILY FOR LIFE ... Thanks for allowing us to share.... it is our testimony ... not to boast at all ... but because when we were down we were able to get up ... because of the wonderful people in our lives like you here on OH and because of our inner strength that tells us to take our lemons and make lemonade!!!! SHARING OUR VIDEO ... THANKS FOR ALLOWING US TO SHARE....
Youtube link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7e2UOdd5qns
Photobucket link:
http://s259.photobucket.com/albums/hh286/martitalinda/fun%20stuff/?action=view¤t=TogethernessbeforeandafterSnippetsfrommyJournalaPictureaDay.mp4&newest=1