Ok, so I met with my NP who said the magic words...gastric bypass...to which I replied...bite me...then she said your left ventricle of your heart is hardening, you are pre diabetic, you have fibromyalgia, you have PCOD, you are not going to get better if you stay MORBIDLY OBESE...to which I responded...ok, i will think about it...So i did, I met with the MD who I adore, and she said do you want it? I said yes, I want the surgery, but I don't want the band, she said ok, I said I want Dr. Kim at Upstate, She said Ok, I said thank you for helping me, she said we need to do this ASAP, and that once I have it I am off the Beta Blockers, the Metformin, The Topamax, THe effexor, The EVERYTHING..., then I get a call, I am set up to see Dr. Graber in New Hartford July 3...that is not Dr. Kim...That is not Upstate...but doesn't Dr. know best? Now what?