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  • Comment by Havnfun2 on 6/22/08 8:52 pm
    Just wanted to come by and say Congratulations to you on your surgery early as we will be having it the same day! I look forward to sharing our weight loss journey! See you on the losing side!!
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Hey there, everyone!  My name is Melissa -- I have been a member of this site for about 3 years now and I can't believe that I am just setting up my profile!  I initially started thinking about WLS in 2005... I was fed up with the obesity and thought I would start exploring my options.  Obviously I wasn't ready then... I did a little bit of research on it and decided that I would give it a bit more effort the non-surgical route.  After a couple more attempts at Weight Watchers and a year with a personal trainer, here I sit.  Not one pound lighter.  Oh I lost weight, but I have hit the same wall over and over and over again, only to gain it all back.  Now I know that this problem is bigger than myself and that's it is ok to try another alternative.
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Approved!
on May 21, 2008 9:50 pm
My surgeons nurse submitted my paperwork and charts to my insurance company last Thursday and since then I have been slightly anxious.  Perhaps I never even really thought I would get to this point and maybe I thought that it would all be a breeze.  Then it hit me, "what if I'm denied?"

Yesterday I decided to call the insurance company just to make sure they received my paperwork.  In my line of business follow-up is everything -- so following-up is engrained in my head.  I told them I just wanted to be sure that my doc sent in my paperwork and before the insurance rep put me on hold to check she said it sometimes could take up to 10 working days for paperwork to even be processed and input into the system.  When she came back on the line a couple of minutes later she said that all of the documents had been received and that I was approved and that the approval letters were mailed to me and to my doc yesterday.

I was floored!  And very excited!

I'm feeling so many things... excitement, happiness, trepedation, anxiety and plain old fear.  I know all of these feelings are normal and I'm just trying to go with the flow.

It's hard to believe that in a few weeks I will be on my way and beginning the adventure of a new journey.  It will be so nice!
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I am a 31-year old female and I have lived in Houston my entire life.  I'm single with no children and I have a career that I absolutely love.

Aside from all of that... I have been heavy my entire life.  Well, actually since about second grade... that is when I started to put on weight and let me tell ya, it's been an "uphill" battle ever since.  I'd like to say that being large, heavy, obese, whatever word you prefer to use has not impacted my life much.  But that would be a lie.  I have a good life, and excellent life.  I've had great opportinities and I can honestly say that I don't have many regrets.  The oportunities and experiences that have come my way have been fabulous and I have taken them all on with gusto and determination.

But now I'm 31 and oh so wise.  I know that life can be better.  I know that life doesn't have to be lived in a 330 pound body, I know that I don't always have to be the funny-fat friend, and I know that at a healthier weight my whole life and outlook will be so much better and healthier than I could ever anticipate.

I know that my weight is starting to hold me back, physially and emotionally.  It all catches up with you eventually... and it's caught up with me.

I think the turning point was when my trusted Gynecologist told me that I would never be able to have children being so heavy... the thought of not being able to be a mother some day really hit me at my core.  It's sad, really.  I know I want children someday, but I don't have forever.  So it starts now.

I went to my first information session at Memorial Hermann Hostpital in the Med Center the first week of April... after that I had my first appointment with my surgeon, nutritionist and psychologist.  Everything went smoothly... almost like it was meant to be.  I found out yesterday, only 3 days after submitting the paperwork, that my insurance approved the RNY... I'm just waiting for the approval letter to arrive in the mail and then the date will be scheduled.

I'd be naive to say I wasn't nervous or scared.  I'm petrified... life as I have always known it is going to crash to a halt and start changing immediately.  But I am ready for it and I know I can handle it.

It's time to start seeing the world from a different set of eyes and I'm excited!

Reading everyone's story and experiences on OH has been a tremendous blessing for me.  It makes me feel great to know that everyone on here knows what it's like to be heavy (obese) and it's comforting to know that we have all walked in the same shoes and we do so on a daily basis.  Support and  understanding are such great things to have in life!

I wish all of you the best of luck on your journeys!  May you be happy and healthy! 

 


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