This is my year of farewell. Farewell to those who dont want to support my dreams, farewell to my weight, farewell to male husky stores, farewell to high blood pressure, farewell to being frustrated be my weight because I cant enjoy my quality of life. Farewell, I feel so liberated and I am not letting anyone stop me, your either on this train or your not. For thos special people here on OH, you know who you are, thank you for being my co-pilots and being supportive in this vital time of my life.


FAREWELLFAREWELL

My good Friend is probably going to read this and say  "what"...lol. Well I really didn't realize I had lied to them until just now. I told them that I had made up my mine and I was getting the lap band. WRONG!!! I have come to realize that I would really enjoy the added benefits, referring to weight loss and time, when it comes down between the lap band and RNY. Ewe....why does this have to be so hard. Please someone give me there valued opinion. Which one should I get?

Oh and yes I know that its not as easy as picking what color vest I want from Casual Male XL (hopefully I wont be shopping there in the near future)...I know that, and I know this is a very important decision, I just need someones story maybe you went through the same thing, or maybe you think the RNY is better. Let a brother know and give me your well appreciated opinion.