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Hi, I'm Barb, first time user's, I'm 44yrs old 2 grown kids, divorced in 6-06 after being with the ex since I was ten he was 13, yes 33 yrs, married almost 26, but that is in the past, I have two great kids out on their own two sweet grandkids, they are the best.

I'm here to lose weigh and keep it off, I have struggled with being obese since I had my son 26yrs ago, nothing seems to work unless I stayed under 1000 calories a day, and ten grams of fat, most friends and family will tell you they can't believe I'm overweight, and joke about starving at my house.

However, I don't over eat, even the Dr agrees, I just eat the wrong stuff, you won't find sweets or junk food in my house,  cereal/oatmeal, diet drinks, vogurt, diet jello,  is about it, I won't cook for one, so my problem is I need to eat healthy, I hate meat/water.

I want to have the lap band, I have did a lot of reading on keeping weight off and have waited for almost a year, however, last month I found out, my ins won't cover the surgeon in St Joe,  so needless to say I wasted a year, I do believe things happen for a reason, we just always don't get the answer we want.

I'm the happy go lucky type, I try not to judge people, everyone says I look and act younger then 44, I do try and dress younger, I have 4 bassethounds I wouldn't trade for no amount of money but gosh they are alot of work , one fish, and believe your family/friends are your greatest assets in life.

I thank you for listening to me ramble, I do that when I'm nervous lol best of luck to all.
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feb is over
on February 29, 2008 9:53 pm
I have met a really great guardian angel on here named Sue, who has/is helping me thru my WLJ, I gained a couple of pounds back right after I got better, however, in the last 2 weeks I have lost and kept the ten pounds off, I'm trying to get my protein/ fluids in and eat healthier, I'm smimming 3-4x's a week, and getting on the treadmill the days I don't swim.

I have to join weight watcher's monday,/ see the doctor for 6 months, for ins to pay for WLS, I don't even have to lose weight, just be consistant doing both, I have decided I love me and I will do this for me to have a healthy/longer life, I'm worth it . I do pray everyone else is doing ok, I know losing weight is so hard and to maintain etc, I wish us all good luck.
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starting the wl
on February 8, 2008 11:07 pm

Wow I have been sick for two weeks, decided to start a healthy diet tomorrow but noticed in two weeks I have lost ten pounds woo hoo, I will have my biggest struggle with giving up frosted flakes, and making myself eat meat/drink water, but I will I'm worth it,

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My Story

Got married at 17, gained 98lbs with my son, 5yrs later gained 66lbs with daughter, haven't seen 160lbs since then, my weight was never a big issue, my ex seemed to want me a plus size, never onced got on me about my weight unless I started to lose, but once I got divorced and a few medical problems I knew it was time to lose weight and keep it off.

Like other's for the last 27yrs I have gained/lost weight, in the last year I know several people that has had the lap band and it works for them, but I also know I have to work and change how I eat, if I want to lose the weight and keep it off, and I do want to lose this weight,  I know I will have to try hard and believe it can happen if I want it to, my fibro is so bad and painful it controls my life, but I'm taking my life back.

I'm 44 and I want to beable to get up and do things I use to do, doctors want me to excercise in water I have several bone disease's that don't help the fibro,  I use to think the impossible was possible no matter what and if you tried hard enough to make it happen, in 2002 I got hurt at work and had to have neck surgery etc, life will never be the same, I felt 20 one day and 60 the next, god only gives uswhat we can handle, and makes us become a stronger person.

I think a divorce changes a person, we change from our dislikes/likes, what once made us happy doesn't anymore, our needs and wants change, trust even becomes a bigger issues, I know I will never take life for granted again, one day you think you have it all, and you find out a week later, life is not as you thought it was.

So I'm starting a new life which will be alot healthier, I have been impressed by all the positive people on this site and the success stories on here,and hopefully I will be one too. I have alot of faith in the man upstairs,

 


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