I can't believe I actually had someone SAY these words to me. I'm floored to say the least...let's start from the beginning.

My ex-bf is a chubby chaser. He has always expressed his concern as to how much weight I could potentially lose. Now that I'm down almost 200 lbs., things are getting interesting. From the sweet city of Chicago, my ex is trying to control me. We have talked about getting back together again many times but sinces he's THERE and I'm HERE- nothing is really coming of it. WIth that said, the conversation I had today went along the lines of- (this is the Reader's Digest Version) "I don't like women smaller than an 18 (I'm bordering on a 16)," "I hope that you don't lose anymore or else we're finished (weren't we finished when you chose to bang someone else?),"" If you get plastic surgery, they'll cut off like- 20 lbs so if you hit your goal of 145(ish), you'll actually end up being 120 which is too small for me."

..are you kidding me? Seriously? Like- I understand that people have preferences but you know me! You supposedly love me. Doesn't my health AND happiness mean ANYTHING to you?

SO I told him- "Well- we'll see where my body wants to stay. If you don't get to keep your GF at least you'll have a healthy friend."

What I should have said was- "Fuck you Dude. Love me or leave me you SANCTIMONIOUS BASTARD!" After all the hard work and sacfice I've made trying to become "normal" you're trying to undo it?" You know what? Kiss my ass! Get your act together, get a job, get yourself healthy, stop hitting the bottle and maybe- just maybe we can talk about being together REGARDLESS of my size! WHAT AN ASSHOLE!