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weigh less than my husband

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to have surgury by this summer

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walk without my legs rubbing together

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Have a normal BMI

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Surgeon Testimonial

Taewan Kim
I had my first office visit on March 20, 2008. I really liked Dr. Kim and the entire office staff. I saw Kerry the nutritionist and Mimi, the nurse, followed by Dr. Kim. I have my psych evaluation scheduled for April 10th and the next visit with Dr. Kim for May 1st.

Dr. Kim was very nice and this was my first meeting with him. He was very quiet and reserved but asked me if I had any questions which I didn't since I had just attended the informational seminar and have done quite a bit of research on here and other websites.

The program with Dr. Kim's Bariatric Center is quite extensive as are most of the others that I have found. I will be required to go to 3 Support Group meetings (with signed proof from the Leaders) prior to having the surgery, seeing the doctor/nutritionist ever 4-6 weeks, lose 5% of my body weight (15 pounds) prior to surgery, and see the Psychologist.
Member Interests
  • Dogs - I have a Miniature Schnauzer named Sarge!
  • Parenting - I hope to be a parent one day!
  • Photography - Love taking pictures of my family and friends!
  • Scrapbooks - I love to scrapbook family pictures!
  • Baseball - New York Mets Fan!
  • Football - Huge New York Giants fan!

Latest Surgery Support Comments

  • Comment by randies_baby on 8/26/08 11:54 am
    Hi, Good Luck, Best Wishes, and God Bless !!! Melissa
  • Comment by runningagain on 8/26/08 5:20 am
    Hi my friend!! Tomorrow is your big day!! I can't believe it is already here....time just flies by so quickly. I will pray for you and keep you in my thoughts. Enjoy the last day of your "old" life because your "new" life will be much much better. :-) Tammy
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My name is Melissa and I am 32 years old. I have been married to my best friend, Mark, for 11 years.  I am a proud Army Wife and DH and I hope to have a baby  someday a few years after my surgery.

I had my RNY on August 27, 2008 and have been doing really well since then. I honestly had an EASY time post-op and still can't believe how smooth the transition was for me.

I'm very open about my experiences and am more than happy to share any information and help anyone.
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Just back from my cruise...
on November 10, 2008 3:18 am
I went on a cruise with my Parents and my Sister's family. Hubby couldn't go as he had other Army obligations to attend to. We went on a 7 night cruise to the Caribbean and had a great time. It was nice to be in the warm weather again! It has snowed here in NY twice already so the sun and heat were a welcome change.

I wound up losing 6 pounds during the week and that made me happy when I came home. The first night of the cruise I felt sick but I think I ate too quickly. I forgot my watch and no one else had one so I was estimating my 5 minutes between bites. Other than that I really didn't have any issues.

It was awesome to know that I could be "normal" and go on a family vacation without having issues.

I am now down 69 pounds- 54 of which are post op pounds lost. What an amazing feeling!! Everything is lose on my now and I'm getting down to the last size of clothes that I have in my closet, lol. I had pant sizes 26, 24 and 22 in my closet and I'm very near fitting in to 20's. I'll have to hit the thrift stores and salvation army soon. I'm going to have to check out OH's Clothing Exchange too.
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Feeling great about myself (for a change)...
on October 20, 2008 3:19 am
I never thought that 45-60 pounds would make such a great impact on how I feel considering all that I have to lose! I am now down 45 pounds (60 overall) in almost 8 weeks. My body feels great and I'm able to move around SO MUCH MORE! I take the stairs all the time and I'm never winded anymore.

I went to Cooperstown, NY yesterday with DH and two of our good friends and for the FIRST TIME ever I wasn't sweating to death while walking around the museum. Any other time we've been sightseeing I would be sweating just from moving around and it was horribly embarrassing. It didn't matter if the temps where in the low 50's like yesterday. That was a MAJOR Non-scale victoriy for me.

I already have so much self-confidence because I know that I will keep succeeding and reaching the goals that I have set forth. I wound up buying a T-shirt yesterday in a size large because I know in about 8-12 months that I'll probably fit in it. What an amazing feeling!
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Down 40 pounds post op and 55 total!!
on October 13, 2008 12:16 pm

Mark and I just got home from our weekend in New Jersey. It went VERY well and I have to say it really was easy since I went there prepared with my own food if needed.

We arrived at my Sister's house around 11:45pm Friday night and it was an exhausting drive since we both worked a full day first. We got only a few hours of sleep and then had a busy Satuday ahead of us.

For breakfast at my Sister's I had 1/2 of a Mini Whole Wheat bagel with 1 tbsp. PB2. For lunch we went to Chili's and this was the FIRST restaurant experience for me. I ordered a Grilled Chicken Sandwich and asked for the honey mustard dressing on the side and for either american or cheddar instead of the swiss that it came with. Well they didn't follo any of the requests but luckily the sandwich had barely any honey-mustard on it. I ate about 1/3 of the chicken breast and gave the rest to my sister to take home.

We drove to Mark's brothers house and brought them 2 large pizza's for dinner. I brought 1/3 cup of salad with light Italian Dressing and about 1oz. of Low-Fat WW Cheddar cheese. These are individually wrapped and are AWESOME!!!  I also had all of my water and a protein shake.

Sunday for breakfast I scrambled one egg. Lunch today was while we were tailgating at the Jets game. I brought another WW cheese and 1/4 of a whole wheat sandwich with turkey and light mayo. I do have to admit that when we were seated at the game I was wanting a pretzel so badly! That was actually the biggest temptation that I have felt since surgery almost 7 weeks ago!

Sunday night we went to my parent's for dinner and two sets of my Aunt's and Uncle's came out just to see me! They all live an hour away from my Mom and Dad so that made me feel good! My Dad grilled chicken but put BBQ sauce on all of the chicken breasts so I opted to slice some chicken off of the roaster my Mom made the night before. I had 1/2 oz. of Fresh Mozzarella and 1 large green bean. Dessert was Apple Crumb Cake and boy did it look good!!! I was a bit jealous, lol.

This morning I had 1/2 of a mini whole wheat bagel with 1 tbsp. of regualr peanut butter and then we took off for home.

I weighed myself immediately since I couldn't for the last two days, lol. I am down exactly 40 pounds since surgery and 55 since I started seeing surgeon. When I lose just 5 more pounds I'll be the lowest weight that I've been since 2000!!!

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I have my first "trip" away from home coming up...
on October 8, 2008 3:33 am

I am a little bit nervous about this weekend. Friday after DH gets out of work we are making the 6 hour drive to NJ. We will stay with my sister but will see both sides of the family and attend the Jets vs. Cincinnati football game on Sunday. We will be tailgating with my in-laws (MIL, FIL, BIL, SIL) and my Cousin and his Wife. I plan on bringing a whole wheat mini pita with turkey and low-fat cheese.  This is a tried and true item that I know I won't get sick on. Perhaps I'll bring a Mini Bag of Kay's Protein Snacks too.

I'm just nervous about being away from my house. I know I need to prepare, prepare, prepare and I will. I'll pack all of my foods that I need to survive.

This will be a really good dress rehearsal for the end of the month when I go on a cruise with my family. I'll be driving down to my Sister's again for Halloween and then we leave the next morning at 5:30am to fly to Florida for the cruise. I am going with my Parent, Sister, her BF and her daughter. DH was not able to get off of work. To prepare I printed off some menu's and I'll bring them to my NUT tomorrow to see what the best selections would be. I know that typically fish and chicken are ideal (especially without sauces) but I would like to know if Lamb or Duck is ok or if it is too greasy.

I'll definitely post about how the weekend goes!

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Hit the 30 pound mark!
on October 1, 2008 3:33 am
So it took me 5 days past my goal date but that last pound was stubborn, lol. I wound up only losing 1 pound in the last 6 days and that can get frustrating. I wind up weighing myself everyday and while I know that isn't the best idea I definitely need to. Mark did take the scale away in the beginning but I managed to get it back . I should say that it doesn't ruin my day or alter anything for me if I don't see the numbers moving fast enough other than the moment I'm on the scale but then I simply say to myself "oh well."

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My Story

It all started for me back on July 24, 1987. I turned 11 years old just 6 days earlier and my parents bought me the Pink and Grey 10 speed bicycle that I wanted! My best friend was having a pool party that day and when I left I put my wet towel and bathing suit in a grocery shopping bag and then on the handle bars. They slipped down and got stuck in the spokes of the front wheel as I was riding down a steep hill. They acted as a brake and I flew off the front of the handle bars. I wound up having 164 stitches in my mouth and face and I lost 4 teeth that day- though they were put in milk and put back in at the hospital. For the rest of the summer I was on a different kind of liquid diet than those of us doing the WLS had. My Mom was making me Vanilla Milkshakes on a daily basis in addition to the Chicken Broth, applesauce and mashed potatoes that I ate for the next weeks and months. I gained a bit of weight but even more important than that I felt ugly and very self-conscious because of my now distorted upper lip. I gradually packed the weight on for the next few years and while only 5 foot  2inches tall I weighed 160 pounds from 6th -11 th grades. That wasn't "obese" at the time but when I started my senior year of high school I gained 60 pounds from September-May. Every year since then I've gotten heavier and heavier until I reached my lifetime high of 299 pounds in March 2008. 

At this point in my life I cannot even imagine what it would be like to be under 200 pounds again. I haven't been for nearly 15 years now. I desperately want to be healthy and happy! I want to live life and enjoy sports again. The most important thing for me though is to become a Mother. It's all I've EVER wanted out of life. 

I cannot wait to start the new rebirth of myself!!

 


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