- Username: momsgrouchy
- Location: owego, NY, USA
- Member Since: 1/20/2006
- BMI: 31.9
- Post Op
- Surgery Type: RNY (06/07/07)
- Surgeon: Taesun Moon
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Surgeon TestimonialTaesun MoonHe is a very quiet and nice man. He made sure that everything was explained thoroughly. He made sure that I understood clearly the differences in procedures and why rny was the best choice for me. He also explained the rest of the process and what to expect in the following months. Overall so far, I think he is great. He showed a great patient/dr attitude as well as surgical competence when explaining how the procedure's would be performed. He has been great post op. There is a very structured after care program and they are more than helpful making sure I have everything I needed.
Member Interests
- Cats - Taterbug - The QUEEN has spoken.
- Dogs - I have to Grizzly the black lab and Gabe my beautiful white and brindle pitbull.
- Motorcycles - My dream is for my DH and I to be able to ride again.
- Parenting - help!!!!! My kids are driving me crazy. But I would be lost without them.
- Computer Games - love the distraction
- Crossword & Word Games - gotta use those brain cells sometime
- Married - For 6 years with two girls
- Horror - I love a good scarey book or movie
- Comedy - It always nice to laugh when life sucks
- Reading - I love to read almost anything - I don't like biographies though.
Latest Surgery Support Comments
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Hi Collette!
Congratulations
girl!!! I( am so
excited for you. You
have my phone number
and email. If you
need anything don't
hesitate to call. I
am not far away!
Keep smiling ! love,
Kier
 Comment by Karen3 on 6/5/07 4:12 pm
Hi Collette.
Wishing you a
speedy, uneventful
recovery. I'll be
thinking about you
on Thursday.
Karen
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Good luck sweets!
You are going to do
fantastic!!!!
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Guess what? on December 12, 2007 5:54 am
I have an ulcer. Yup lucky me!!! Well my doc is 95% sure I do. I have to get scoped to know for sure, but for now I am on nasty ulcer meds. I also have yet another kidney infection. I am falling apart. My hubby finally got his date to his wls will be Jan 18, 2008. Now he is having last minute doubts (due to me falling apart). Still no clue as to why I am so dizzy though. Went for more blwk and am awaiting the results of that. Guess I should call the office. I will also be unemployed as of 12/21/07, Merry F&*%#$% Christmas! I think I may go back to school. Hmmm! At 30, I will probably be the oldest, yuck.
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clearing my mind on November 2, 2007 5:05 am
I know, I know I haven't updated in awhile, well here is why . . . I haven't been here lately, I am tired of reading people complaining about negativity of others. WELL, maybe some people have the right to be negative. Others need to be aware that THIS SURGERY IS NOT ALL FUN AND GAMES. There can be and have been serious side effects. I feel that with all the research I did, all the reading of blogs, and posting, I only really heard the wonderful and great things - never saw the negative. Why is that? Because if anyone post anything negative then everyone starts having a hissy fit. I for one think the negative has been more informative than the positive. If only I had been able to find the information before I had my surgery. I'm not saying I would not have had the surgery, but maybe thought longer and harder and done more research.
So why am I posting this? Other than to finally get it of my shrinking chest, I know I can't post this on a board due to the high amount of flaming. I AM ONE OF THE PEOPLE WHO ARE HAVING NEGATIVE PROBLEMS WITH WLS.
Yes I am losing weight at incredible speed and am only a 30 lbs from goal and couldn't have lost the weight any other way. But is it really safe to have lost it this fast? My dr doesn't seem to concerned but I am and so are my friends. I am half bald but am taking my vitamins. Yup I was warned of this before, but didn't fully realize it would be to this extent. I have to plunge my tub every time I take a shower because of the amount of hair loss. I am having problems with my kidneys because of the amount of protein we have to eat. Didn't know this could be a side affect. I am having constant pain in my side with the possible problem of adhesions. What is the cure? Another surgery and more time of work. I still have problems with food and vomiting. I am lucky if I only puke twice a week. I am hungry all the time, real hunger not head hunger. The dizziness has taken over my life. I can not exercise for fear of passing out. I can not bend over for the same fear. I am now severly anemic and have to take iron pills that mess with my bowels. So I have gone from having a bowel movement once a week to extremely painful once every two weeks. Could this cause other problems? Sure can. I have extreme pain in my joints because I am unable to move for fear of passing out. I now have to go to physical therapy 3 times a week. That I have to laugh about. I have seen orthopedic dr's who have said once I lose weight the pain would go away. Nope not me. The pain has gotten worse. And now I can not take any anti-inflammatory drugs. If I want relief I either have to take steriods or shots of steriods - what are the side affects? Weight gain, wonderful. Or percocet, which has the chance of becoming addicted. My blood pressure which has never been high, is now extremely low. And my blood sugar levels never go above the 50 mark.
So how am I feeling? I get asked that question all the time, of course to avoid hearing I told you so's, I say fine. But inside I am screaming in pain. Will it stop?who the hell knows. I guess that about clarifies it all, any questions fine, any flames keep them to yourself.

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update on September 14, 2007 7:12 am
So, I have been a little busy and haven't updated in a while. I am down almost 100 lbs. in a little over 3 months. Wow! That's all I can say. I have been doing well, but sometimes not so great. I haven't hit another plateau in awhile, but I know one should be coming soon. That's it. Will try and update sooner.
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My crazy life on August 16, 2007 8:25 am
So now that I have adopted to furries, this weekend what am I doing? Getting two more. I can't wait. But I have to say this will be the end of my ever expanding family. I am so busy lately that I feel like I am running in circles and now it is time to get the kids ready for school. I am slowly losing weight but I am ok with that too. I can't exercise because of the dizziness with the low bp. But hopefully this too will pass. My dh is looking at having wls too. That will be interesting because men are usually such babies about pain and being ill. Oh well, always said I had three kids anyway. Until later. . .

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First most embarassing moment - post op on August 9, 2007 8:03 am
First I can't believe I am sharing this, but who else but fellow post ops would understand this moment. The other day my hubby and I were swimming. We got out of the pool and I was in the process of drying off when he yelled to me for help moving things from the drive way to the house. I quickly grabbed my shorts, rolled the waist and ran to help. So here is the kicker - I didn't throw on any panties. I start bringing down a box from the drive, down the steps and across the yard when my shorts start sliding down. The stuff in the box was veggies and I didn't want to drop them. My hands were full and unable to stop to pull my shorts up. My DH looks over at me as I am crying and laughing all in one and . . . gets to see my bare ass hanging out cause I lost my shorts a few steps back. I laughed so hard I thought I would rip a muscle. AHHHHH the bad parts of losing weight so quickly.

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Holy WOW! on August 1, 2007 10:27 am
All I can say is WOW!!! In the last 3 weeks I haven't lost a single pound and now in less than one week I have lost 10. Holy Cow!!! If I had one I would worship it. I am so glad to be on my way once more. I knew that being stuck was normal but didn't expect it to last that long or once moving again would jump that fast. I still haven't lost another pant size but hopefully soon will. I will take my measurements tonight. As for my new furries they are great. They definetly are fun to watch when they play and are not scared of Gabe either. My poor baby - now the cat and the ferret's pick on him. He is definetly not the typical pitbull but I wouldn't have him any other way. So now my Zoo is complete and I don't think I could be happier. 2 dogs, 2 ferret's, and a cat (who rules the house). Yup she's bent but she always was stuck up anyway. Now I wonder what I should get next? My husband would probably kick me out if he heard me say that. HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!

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moving again on July 30, 2007 7:09 am
After 3 weeks of being stuck I am finally back to losing weight. YEAH ME!!!! Hopefully it will be awhile before I stall again. I am still having a problem with eating and can't get much or am sick immediately. I hope that will pass soon. Other than that things are great! Today I will also be getting two new fur babies to add to my collection. We are getting ferret's thier names are Cleopatra and Cesar. I am very excited. Although they do stink I am hoping to adjust to the smell.
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Am I dead and other thoughts 5 weeks out on July 18, 2007 8:25 am
So, I went to see Dr. Moon yesterday for my 5 week follow up. He walks in and says that he has to retake my BP cause as low as the nurse said it was I would be dead. Well as a matter of fact that was one of the questions I had for him. Everytime I have gone to the dr my bp has been very low. 80/68. or lower. I have been very dizzy and tired. Well now starts the problems . . . I thought I was getting enough to drink but nope. I thought I was getting enough to eat but NOPE. (Ugh! How the heck am I supposed to eat and drink more?). I haven't lost any weight in the last two weeks, I know that it is normal and not to concerned with that. Everything should get better in the next week or so if I can get in more drinking. Wish me luck. I am also cleared to exercise YEAH!!! My treadmill is so dusty I sneezed the whole time I was on there last night. I have vomitted a few times, it seems like every 2 days and it can be new foods and foods I have done well on already. I can't wait for that to stop. Otherwise everything is well.

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Finally an update on July 9, 2007 6:28 am
So everyone is looking for an update . . . Here it is. At 2 weeks post I was over 30lbs down. I also got very sick and wound up in the hospital for 2 days. It took quite a while to feel better. I am now back to work. A little tired but I am ok. As of last week I have lost a total of 45lbs since day of surgery. I am very surprised!

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it's over on June 15, 2007 5:57 am
Well, I managed to loose 9 lbs before surgery! And since I came home on sunday have lost an additional 16 lbs. Dr. Moon is thrilled and said he has never seen that much of a loss in that short of a time.
Now as for being in the hospital - what can I say it pretty much sucked. I was in a good amount of pain for a lot of the time. And I itched like crazy. Not everyone had a timely response to the call button and sometimes I would sit for at least 15min with a response. (not like I really hit it that often). At first you can only walk if they come and unplug you and that takes a while. But then they tell you how you really need to be up and walking but hey it isn't easy I can't unplug myself. AND MAKE SURE THEY PUT THE PHONE BY YOUR BED. They didn't with me and when it rang - I knew it was my kids - I actually reached for it and wound up in excruiating pain. All things considered it wasn't my worse experience in the hospital. And I am doing well.

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My Story

KEEPING TRACK OF MEASUREMENTS
AREA 4/23/07 7/15/07 8/19/07 9/24/07
ARM 15.5 12.5 11.5 11.5
THIGH 26.5 24 22.25 20.5
CALF 17.5 16 14.5 14
BUST 53 47 47 41.5
HIPS 48 44.5 42 40
WAIST 48.5 45 41 38.5
CHEST 45 40.5 39.5 36
Total lost : 31.5 16 18
GRAND TOTAL: 47.5 65.5

Ok, so here is my story. My name is Collette. I am married(Bill) with two kids, Megan 9 and Abby 4 and 29 years old. I have been overweight my whole life but up until recently had stayed the same weight for 5 years. In the last 6 months I have gained 28 lbs. and numerous medical problems.

In 2003, less than one year after I had our youngest daughter, I was diagnosed with insulin resistance. This causes your body to think that it is not getting enough insulin and making it want to eat to get it(or so I have been told). And poly cystic ovarian syndrome. Needless to say at 26 years old I had to have a hysterectomy. My gyn said that it was due to the insulin and weight problems.

Since I was 15, I have had severe knee and lower back pain. And at 21, the pain traveled to my hip as well. I was told to lose weight and the pain would go away. I felt so lost because I couldn't lose the weight. I had gained 75 lbs. when our first was born and after that I stayed heavy. As recently as 2 years ago, I had an orthopedic dr. refuse to treat me for knee pain unless I lost 100 lbs. I was devistated, how can you refuse me medical care because of my weight?

I tried everything to lose and as soon as I stopped would gain it all back again. So earlier this year I talked to my pcp and finally made the decision to have wls. He didn't argue with me like I thought he would. He too felt that I had exhausted all the other possibilties.

I can not keep living my life to this extent. I am almost always in pain with my knee my back or my hip, just pick one on any given day. I have been treated so many times in the ER for ankle sprains that they are beginning to wonder if I am abused. HAHAHAHA!! I am afraid that I will wind up in a wheel chair or worse bed ridden.

I want to be able to breathe when I walk up a stair (one single little stair). I haven't had problems with my asthma in years and suddenly now it is back. Enough already. I know that I am one of the lucky that don't have severe medical problems yet associated to thier weight. But I really feel that it won't be too long before I do and it is time to get my head out of the sand.

My husband is trying to be supportive but is a little worried about the complications and the after effects. I have told my mom by accident and she is being supportive too. I thought she would be angry and try to talk me out of it but come to find out she was thinking about it for herself. But the rest of the family is kind of touch and go. I don't get along well with them. So it will be just me and my DH. Megan is trying to understand the surgery too, but it is hard to explain in a way that a nine year old could grasp.

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