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Goals

have a "Healthy BMI" not "morbidly obese", "obese"

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weigh the same or less than I did when I graduated from High School

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Buy clothes in "Ladies" instead of the dreaded "Plus Size" section

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play football with my boys on Thanksgiving

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to weigh what I weighed when I met my husband

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Surgeon Testimonial

Albert T. Spaw, M.D.
What an incredibly gifted, compassionate man! His nature is so gentle and sincere. From the first time I met him, I felt like he had known me and all my struggles and had been along for that rocky ride all along. He took his time and explained everything in detail to me, including any/all risks, and we decided together which surgery would be best for me. We decided on the RNY. rnrnProbably what I loved the most was that he described this surgery as a tool. That this isn't magic, but in having this surgery I am being given a tool to help me accomplish the goals that I want to accomplish... for me to be successful at something I have strived and strived for and never before been able to do. But it's going to take me being faithful to the program --- nutritionally and physically --- with the help of my \"tool\" --- to achieve this success.rnrnWhen I met with him again before surgery, he recapped what he'd be doing and was there to answer any questions I or my husband had. He was actually excited for me - and proud of me for taking this step... and told me so!rnrnHis office staff was fantastic. At no time did I feel like I was bugging them, even though toward the end I was calling every day looking for approval from insurance. rnrnAfter surgery, OH MY WORD! He was right there shortly after I was taken to my room from recovery. I hadn't been given any pain medication yet and was hurting pretty bad from the gas. He went straight out to the nurses and took care of that as if I were his wife or daughter! He checked on me several times throughout my stay --- each time telling me exactly where I was, how I was doing, etc. I never felt like he left me in the dark, with questions or concerns. He would come in and SIT and TALK, not just go over charts and leave. rnrnI had one small complication. I had some bleeding in my stool a couple of days after surgery. He was sure it was \"old\" blood -- just blood still in my system that needed to come out (it was dark, not bright red). He kept me in the hospital an extra day, because he said there was no way he was going to send me home bleeding. He ran several blood tests to make sure there was no infection and that my coagulation rate was on target. It ended up being no big deal, and was caused by the amount of blood thinner I was given. In the end, my take on it and what I told him was, if my choices are to have a little bleeding after surgery from too much blood thinner, or develop a blood clot from too little blood thinner, I'd much rather have a little more than needed. I also understand that this is something that they have generalities about with each surgery, but each patient is unique and they can never be 100% sure beforehand how each patient will react.rnrnThe biggest thing to me at this point was that he very much kept me in the loop - answering any questions, and that he took every precaution to make sure everything was ok before sending me home. He also called me the day after I got home - even though it was a Saturday! - to check and make sure everything was still ok.rnrnHe very much emphasizes aftercare -- both keeping your post-op appts. with him, and your PCP, but also exercising and sticking with the program nutritionally. (Back to the fact that this is a TOOL, not a magic fix.)rnrnOverall, there isn't a rating high enough for Dr. Spaw. He exceeded every expectation in every area (office visits, surgery itself - my scars look like cat scratches!, bedside manner in the hospital, etc.)
Member Interests
  • Parenting - I have 2 boys: Grantham (9) and Harrison (7)
  • Walking - I have become a walk-aholic... making plans for my 1st marathon next spring!
  • Scrapbooks - I scrapbook for other people; can't wait to scrap my 1st WLS scrapbook - of ME!
  • Interior Decoration - I am constantly decorating one room or another - I love color and texture!
  • Christianity - Jesus: the Way, the Truth & the Life; He guides/draws me to Himself & is my LIFE
  • Married - to THE most incredible, supportive man. God created him especially for me!
  • WLS in your 40's - 42 to be exact and just getting ready for the rest of my life!
  • Reading - I am a voracious reader.

Latest Surgery Support Comments

  • Comment by judyanne on 8/26/07 9:15 am
    Wednesday is your day! Just remember you are on the journey of a lifetime. Try to enjoy every minute. It may sound weird now, but know that you are cared for and prayed for here, and all too soon this will be but a memory and you will be an inspiration to someone else. I am waiting for you on the losers' bench!
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Three years and counting...
on September 5, 2010 6:36 am
Happy Surgiversary to me!!! Three years ago I had gastric bypass surgery --- lost 115 pounds and have kept it off! So thankful to God! So excited to be able to keep up with my boys... to be able to live life to the fullest!
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What a difference a year makes!
on October 5, 2008 6:51 am
I haven't updated in so long... it's funny how the healthier you get and the better you feel --- the more you just want to be out there LIVING LIFE!!

I recently had my surgiversary and wanted to post some changes. Here are my stats from the day I first met with my doctor to today (13mo post-op):

                          High       Now
     Weight:          246          134
      BMI:               45           24.5
      Bust:                53          39.5
      Waist:             47           31
      Hips:               51            39
      Upper thigh:    29.5         18.5
      Lower thigh:     21.5         15.5
      Upper arm:      14            10
      Wrist:              7              5.75

That's a total loss of 112 pounds, 42.5 inches (b/w/h),  and a drop of over 20 points in my BMI.

I'm thankful every day that I had this surgery - only wish I'd had it sooner! I would encourage anyone who is contemplating it to go for it!
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Multi-meal cooking day
on January 22, 2008 6:08 am

Sit back and prepare to be amazed! Where once it was all I could do to stand in the kitchen long enough to prepare a decent meal, check out what I did yesterday!

At about 3pm I decided I better get going on dinner. Hmmm, what to fix. I decided on a new recipe - Pepper Jack Stuffed Chicken. When I got the chicken out (a pkg of 10 breasts), I took 3 out for the meal. Then I went ahead and threw 3 in a pot to boil to cut up for a casserole. When they were done boiling, I washed out the pan and got out some ground beef. I had purchased a 5.5 pound pkg. I separated 1.5 pounds out of it and set it aside for meatloaf, and put the rest on to boil. 

Back to the meal at hand. I stuffed the breasts w/ the pj cheese and rubbed taco seasoning on them. Then I went ahead and measured out the taco seasoning for tacos/burritos. I browned the chx breasts and stuck them in the oven. I cut up the boiled chx, and opened the cans of soup for my casserole. While I had the can opener out, I went ahead and opened the cans of beans, tomato paste, etc. for chili and dumped them in the crockpot. I got out an onion and diced it up - splitting it between the casserole, the chili, the meatloaf and put some in a baggie to use raw on burritos.

When the ground beef was done, I put 2 pounds in the crockpot w/ the chili seasoning, and added the taco seasoning to the other 2 pounds. I washed out my "boiling" pan, and boiled the noodles for the casserole. I also put some green beans on for dinner and mixed up a quick salad.

I mixed the rest of the ingredients for the meatloaf, covered, and stuck in the fridge and transferred the now cooked taco meat into a container. Out with the chx breasts for dinner. In with the casserole. The chili is simmering in the crockpot. 

After we were done eating, out w/ the casserole. I put the meatloaf in casserole dish and made it into a ring - stuck it in the oven.

I made 5 meals at one time --- stuffed chx breasts, creamy chicken manicotti casserole, chili, meatloaf, and taco meat for Mexican night. And did it all in about 3 hours (not incl. cooking the meatloaf after dinner.) I had started at 3pm and we sat down to eat at 5:45pm.

And now, no question this week of what will we have for dinner? We actually have a menu - some choices... And yes, I am very proud of myself! Can you tell?

Oh, Yeah! The best part? I was able to do all this and didn't hurt! I was on my feet for 3 hours and didn't pay for it afterward! WOO-HOO!

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Children - on death and dying
on January 15, 2008 9:43 am

I was hoping that I could stick this blog in between a couple of others, but it posted it as the most recent. So, FYI, this was written Dec. 2, 2007. I got a call this afternoon that my grandmother was very ill (pneumonia/cancer). After totally falling apart, then pulling myself back together, John and I got the boys together to tell them the news. We were talking about how badly I wanted to get there quick to tell her one more time that I love her, but that she would probably be gone before I could get there.

My 7-yr-old, Harrison, said, "That's ok, Mommy. Just tell Jesus and He will make sure she gets the message when she gets to heaven, 'cause He's already there!"

Isn't that just precious?!

Grandma did go to be with Jesus - just before midnight Colorado-time. It was pain-free, and I praise God for His mercy. She just went to sleep and quit breathing. She is now "all better", as my kids would say.

I have many, many fond memories... and will visit them often!


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My First Hug --- all the way around!
on January 9, 2008 11:42 am
You know, there are some things you'll just never forget. I remember when Grantham (who turns 10 today) smiled at me for the first time. I know where I was. I remember the feeling it gave me - from the top of my head to the tips of my toes. I'll never forget that day.

And I'll never forget this past Sunday - the first Sunday of 2008. Grantham came out to give me a good morning hug. As he hugged me around the waist, he looked up and said, "Mommy, I can reach all the way around you! I remember when I could only go like this... now my arms go all the way around and I can hold my other arm!" He was so excited! I was so excited!

That night, when we were tucking the boys in bed, we were talking about it. John said, "Harrison, wrap your arms around mommy." (Harrison is almost 8yo.)

Walking toward me, he said, "I can't --- I CAN!!!" He had wrapped his little arms all the way around my waist! He looked up at me and just beamed! (Or maybe that was my beaming bouncing off his face!)

All I know is, we have had a lot of hugging going on the past few days! It's sweet to me how "fun" they think it is to hug me and be able to wrap their arms around me. And I'll always remember that feeling - from the top of my head to the tips of my toes - but especially around my waist!
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