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Hello to everyone: As you can see my name is Shirley and I am on the weight loss journey as most of you!I love OH and the resources they provide for our pre and post weight loss journey. I invite everyone to read and share with me and my family the ups and downs of being overweight and dealing with it a positive way!! I am a born again Christian and I enjoy the benefits of being one of Christ's children. I encourage all who do not know him to give him a try and I promise you the reward is GREAT!!! I am new to the weight loss journey but I know I have and will meet some friends that will share this walk with me and we will be each other's support. I have one minor request that if and when this profile is read; please say a prayer for me and my family. Thanks for visiting me and I will see you soon!LOL!!!!!!!!

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Faith to stay strong!
on October 24, 2007 7:25 am
October 24, 2007

Greetings to all,
I would like to take this time to say thank you to all that have visited my blog and for all that continue to pray for my family and I. Life has not been the bowl of cherries I have wished for but I am still trusting in God's grace and mercy. I have one more peice of the pie to eat ( pysch test) before all information will be submitted to my insurance company for approval. I am trusting in God that all will be approved and I, too, will be on the LOSER'S Bench soon.

As for the update with my husband's health. He is healed in Jesus's precious name. All has been well with him and I am so thankful. He has been released to return back to his job. God is good! But as most of you know, when God starts blessing the devil starts messing. After all that we have endured, we have yet another hurdle to cross. But, I am here to serve notice on the devil that I am geared up to run this race with God's speed and patience. I have come to far to turn around and I will not. We were blessed to be able to get approved for a new home, so that is some wonderful news I would love to share. I feel that every trial that we as a family endure is just a step further up the ladder. When you began to climb higher and higher in Christ Jesus, trials will come. The bible says, Jesus will not leave us nor forsake us and we as christians must believe and hold strong to his word. I often feel as if my testimony of ups and downs, is a shadow of light beaming through a cloud for someone who is going through and have no feelings of relief. I look at each experience (good or bad) as a lesson learned and as a required piece of the puzzle to make a final picture!

So, I encourage all who are experiencing trials as myself to look towards the hills from whence cometh your help. Jesus is still alive and well and he is performing the impossible each day! Prayers are being answered and strong holds on God's people are being released! Please continue to seek God for all your answers! I am somewhere where I know I do not belong in my life but I am trusting God for his deliverance. My family and I will be living proof of God's annoiting to release and deliver! Until next post, continue to stay lifted and encouraged! Remember all things, big or small, God is able to do!!! Please pray for my family!  Shirley Ann
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Tears of JOY!!
on September 17, 2007 3:15 pm

September 17,2007

Greetings my friends,
I guess you are looking at the title of this message and wondering what do I mean when I say "tears of joy"! Well, let me start off by asking all of you a simple question, have any of you loved someone so much (besides GOD) that you could not imagine life without them? That is how much I love my husband!! He and I have known each other for so many years that living life without him being a part of it would be hard for me. I know God is able to see us through everything but reality is I would be devastated without my sweetie, Dashon. On Friday September 14,2007 I experienced almost losing him and I was a wreak! It was determined a couple weeks ago that my husband has sleep apnea and he also had very large tonsils that needed to be removed so he could sleep better at night. So on last Friday he went into the hospital for outpatient surgery for his tonsils to be removed and ended up in intensive care. Yes intensive care!!! My husaband also has had open heart surgery, that caused him almost not to awake once he was put under to have his tonsils removed. The doctor came out and informed me that he had not awaken from them putting him under and they were waiting for him to awake. He also informed me that he would be placed in intensive care because of his breathing! I was so devasted and hurt. I felt like my world was coming to an end, my husband and I are best friends and we share life together with a passion. I kept asking myself how could you go from just talking to someone to them not being able to respond at all? I knew God was able and I knew he was a believer as well. I begin to call my parents, the prayer warriors themselves, and we begin to lift him up to God. I finally got a chance to go back and see him and he was not himself. His response was slow and he could barely look at me but I gently leaned over with a face full of tears and said "baby can you hear me and I love you very much", he opened his eyes a little and shook his head and at that moment I knew he was still here with me. His cousin, Brenda, gently grabbed me by the hand and lead me out of the room. Today he is here with me and doing better, but when faced with the worst I advise all to pray and most of all pray before the BAD comes. Pray when all is well. I just had to share this with my OH family and let you all know that GOD is still working miracles in my life. My husband and I took vows to love and cherish each other through sickness and health and that is what I plan to do. I LOVE that man with all my heart. He is the apple of my eye and the king of our castle:) I pray and ask all of you to continue to pray for me and Dashon, that we both will have a long healthy life.
 
Thanks for the prayers and I will continue to pray for each of you!   Shirley Ann

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Today's Consultation with the Surgeon!
on September 5, 2007 3:17 pm

September 5,2007

Greetings to all,
Today was the BIG day for my first consultation with the surgeon!All went great, as I expected and things are definately looking up. Dr. Strickland reviewed my charts and he recommended Lap Band for me so that was good because that is exactly what I had in mind. He also stated that he felt Lap Band would work best for me because I have a problem feeling full. Which is so true... I can eat and still feel hungry! He explained to me how the band works and how the band is a tool that helps patients feel full. He said that if I over eat, the food would sit at the top of my stomach and make me sick.That is okay by me, because I feel that if I get sick that one time I will not do it again. I hate to be sick. He also put me on a diet that restricts your portions of food and get you all ready for portion sized meals. I am excited and I will need everyone's encouragement b/c I know how weak I can be when it comes to sticking to a diet. Do not hesitate to fuss at me if I am doing wrong... I deserve every bit of chewing out I will receive. I have to have a psych. test and a EKG done...after that they will submit all information to my insurance company for approval. I pray for the approval in the name of Jesus because I know he has all power and if we just trust and believe, he will provide!I am telling all who do not know Jesus, you do not have a clue what you are missing!!! I am a living testimony! I will keep you all informed on the dates I will go for my EKG and psych. test and we will see what happens from there. As always stay in prayer and always let God direct your path. I will continue to pray that every person who visit my blog be blessed and I will ask God to give you understanding to all things that are not understood.I love you all and may your journey be as BLESSED as mine! Shirley Ann

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God's Blessings!
on August 23, 2007 8:17 pm
August 23,2007

Hello Everyone,
I hope this posting reaches everyone in good health and spirits!!! On last post I told everyone to make sure to be on the look out for GREAT news...well GREAT news has arrived!!! God has blessed me with another position on my job; I am now the new academic affairs coordinator for the University in which I work for!!!God is forever blessing me and he is giving me and my family everything in which we need. He said if we just trust and believe in HIM he would provide. He has done just that. I was so worried at one point about life and it's ups and downs but I began to trust in God and as soon as I began to let God be in control of my life; things began to turn around in my favor. So, as I always say, let God be the RULER of your lives and let him show you his master plan for your life. Doing that...things has no choice but to be WONDERFUL!!! Well, until next time, Pray and put God first in all that you all do!!!!
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Scheduled Consultation!!
on August 21, 2007 11:08 am

August 21,2007

Hello Friends, 
I just wanted to keep everyone informed on my process. This morning I received a call from the surgical group at Lexington Medical Center for obesity and I was informed I will have a scheduled consultation with Dr. Strickland (my surgeon) on September 5,2007!!! I am so excited and I would like to take this time to say Thank You Lord Jesus for this blessing I have received on today. I will forever give your name the glory, honor and praise! Amen! Everyone please remember to pray and thank God for everything in your life... including things that are not so good, because God has a plan and a purpose for us ALL!!!

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My Story

My story is like most who visit this web site. I am a happy wife and mother of one, who is overweight and want to do something about it so my life will be prolonged. I have been overweight far as long as I can remember and I have tried almost everything in order to get the weight off. Of course, I would loose 20 to 30 pounds and gain it all back within months. Unlike most, I have worked jobs without good insurance; so weight loss surgery has never been an option for me. I could not afford to pay cash or take out a loan. But then I started to turn to the only person I know that will be able to help me:) GOD!!! I knew for a long time that this was not where God wanted me to be and decided that I would consult him for answers. At my previous job of 7 1/2 years, I did not have insurance that would cover wls. Again, God begin to work. My job filed bankrupt and of course that put me in the unemployment line. At the time I did not know God's plan and begin to question him on my job status and why this was happening to me. But, I then began to use my faith as my mother has always told me. She always would tell me "Shirley all you need is faith the size of a mustard seed" and " he would not bring you to this if he could not bring you through this". So I began to let those word soothe my spirit and sure enough things started happening. First, I received a great job working for an electrical company and I  thought this is the job!! If I can only prove myself and get hired full time. Well, how many of you know that it is not so unless God says it is. They chose not to hire our group on full time and again I am at square one. Wls was way out of the picture now. I had no job and my husband had quit his job to move with me to take the electrical job. He was frustrated and so was I, the bills were piling up and we had no income. But God!!!! Things started to look up:) I received a call from a temp agency that wanted me to work at this University as a receptionist only Fridays and Saturdays. How could I say no...I had no job! I accepted and weekends went to week days and in May, I received full time with benefits. I even got a chance to advance my career for free. LOOK AT GOD DOING HIS MIGHTY WORKS!!! That is not all, my husband received a job as well with a manufacturing company that is supposed to be hard to get hired with.(nothing is impossible for Christ)

To make a long story short, I now have coverage  100% if I have a bmi of 40+, 5years of obesity records and is over 21!! All the above applies!!!! So I am now starting my weight loss journey for Lap Band. So all readers please pray God's speed on this process and pray that all will work out.I believe we all will receive if we just ask and have faith that it is going to come to pass. I will pray for you and I hope you will pray for me as well as my family!!! I was brought through a storm and I know if there are any storms in your life he will bring you through as he did me and my family. I have my first weight loss seminar on 08/15/2007My sweet hubbyand I attended a weight loss support group meeting with a friend on 08/01/2007 and we was very pleased and a lot of our questions was answered. Until next update...PEACE!!!!!!!!!!Pray Until Something Happens!!!!!!

Shirley Ann

 


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