In June of 2010 People Magazine they wrote the first  semi positive story about WLS and I begged everyone on the OH forums to write in so we would be mentioned and WE WERE!  You'll reognize a member's name in the picture!  They only do this on the stories that get the most email.  I just posted the following on every other place I could and I'm posting it here in hopes we can do it again.  Here's the post:

Hey guys I've been fading in and out a bit because I had some surgery but this is important so don't be surprised if you see it in more than one place. People Magazine has done a positive story about weight loss surgery regarding Carnie Wilson. Some of you guys have been tough on her but you don't realize there was no education on how to use our tool back then. I had my surgery one year after hers so I can relate. Because she went first she saved my life! We have a chance to make a difference in the history of People Magazine and hit them with enough email to bring WLS out of the closet. If we send enough email we will be mentioned in the mail bag section so I'm asking you to please send an email to editor@people.com and you can ask to be listed as anonymous if you want. Tell them how WLS saved your life, tell them how much you lost, tell them thank you for doing a positive story on WLS but tell them something to help remove the stigma that still exists at People Magazine and with many of their readers. Please pass this on to your friends and your friend's friends. Let's be a part of changing the stigma. 

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Carnie Wilson is the reason I had weight loss surgery. Some of us affectionately call each other Carnie babies.  My surgery was about a year after hers.  In 2000 there was no aftercare and maybe a couple of places you could even discuss it online.  We forget how much ridicule Carnie had to endure going first and going so publicly.  The moment I heard about gastric bypass I made the first available appointment for a consultation.  I literally did fifteen minutes of research.

Now Carnie has decided to have a second surgery twelve years later and the comments under the online articles are so incredibly cruel. Not only from the "normies" (as I certainly expected) but also from the weight loss surgery community.  Revisions are very common so we should be accustomed to those. Many of us regain so we should be accustomed to that too.  At the very least if you don't have something kind to say... don't say it.  We have enough problem fighting the stigma of WLS without our own community helping.  Since I have been volunteering for many years I've noticed some particular circumstances that seem to cause regain.  In no particular order:

1. Having babies.  Almost every woman who has a baby after WLS fights regain.

2. Not being educated properly about the psychological aspects of our disease.

3. Being super morbidly obese before surgery.  It's just plain harder for those folks.

4. Being a woman. (Men have a far superior metabolism)

Carnie also has to do it in the public eye.  How well would you do if after your surgery paparazzi was there every time you left your house to record every pound regained or lost?  I would have crumbled. She went first so the process was a little easier for the rest of us and yet some of us pound her at the first opportunity.

She deserves to be happy with her decision.  I don't know anyone who is perfect enough to throw stones so let's give her another chance to be healthy and avoid diabetes.  I've never seen it in the "WLS life rules" that you don't get another chance.   I would really appreciate some support for her in the People magazine online article linked below. People Magazine has particularly not given us much of a chance because every time they publish the "Half Their Size" issue we are intentionally left out.  The cover says "no surgery, no gimmicks".  Aren't you happy to know we used a gimmick?

Thanks in advance for voicing your support.

Thanks in advance for not posting if you are against giving her support.

Online People Magazine article

We are so strong when we pull together and nothing would make me happier than People Magazine hearing us roar!

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Author unknown.  The photograph is mine.  I liked this so much that I made a little poster.

Being fat is hard.
Losing weight is hard....
Maintaining weight loss is hard....
Choose your hard.

Headless "Fat People Pictures" are worth big bucks and that's sad.

I've been wanting to do this post for some time.  As I researched the subject matter a little more in depth I came across this story.  Wow, who would have thought these photographs would produce this much revenue?  (From the story) "Sources at the BDN said offering the photos for sale might have already resulted in enough revenue to subsidize the print version for another six months."

One of my most vivid memories about these pictures came from a woman that said "God please don't let me be one of those people they use for video in news or print publications".  They are known in the industry as the headless fat people pictures.

Have you ever noticed they show a veritable smorgasbord of people allowed to be photographed due to the rules of  public domain but only one type seems to exclude the faces?    Murderers, rapists, poor people, scam artists, homeless people, literally people from all walks of life have their faces shown.  Is it because the image of being obese is so incredibly shameful and appalling that faces are not to be included?

Obesity is the last acceptable prejudice.  We have become so desensitized to seeing one of those headless "fat people" photographs we forget there is a real person carrying the shame for many.  Fortunately I escaped that walk of shame until I posted my own photograph for purposes of this blog.

Last week I posted a link to a story about a man that supposedly had to stand for a seven hour flight because he couldn't sit next to an obese man.  The article used a PhotoShopped picture that surfaced in 2006 so not only did they use a "photograph" that had nothing to with the story but used a fake image to make the story more sensational.  I wrote the reporter and the editor and they agreed to include the truth about that photograph.  Never assume you can't make a difference.  Unfortunately I couldn't do anything about the brutal comments (and they were BRUTAL) but you can ask for truth.

Since writing this draft I have become even more aware of how many of these pictures are  printed every single day in nearly every single story about obesity....and it still makes me a little sad.

Original post can be viewed HERE