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I have been very impressed with his experience, his knowledge, and his bedside manner. He really seems to put his patients first. The office staff is very organized and caring. They always try to answer any question you have and know exactly what to say. Aftercare is a huge part of this program. The surgery is only a tool to assist in your weight loss. The rest is up to you and this program gives you all the support you need from nutrition classes to support group meetings to frequent follow up visits with the surgeon himself.

Once I had insurance approval I had a surgery date within the week and had pre-op date and times set just as quickly, very impressed.
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  • Comment by judyanne on 12/15/07 9:46 am
    Monday is your day! Just remember you are on the journey of a lifetime. Try to enjoy every minute. It may sound weird now, but know that you are cared for and prayed for here, and all too soon this will be but a memory and you will be an inspiration to someone else. I am waiting for you on the losers' bench! ~ JudyAnne
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I have always been really great at taking care of others but have never been very good at putting myself first.  I have made a pledge to myself to change that habit!  I want to get healthy and stay healthy for myself as well as my family!  I am worth the effort and the rewards will be plentiful!

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4 months out!
on April 17, 2008 1:42 pm
Wow!  I am still in shock that this is my life.  I am 4 months out of surgery and down 75lbs!  I know that every one says this, but this surgery truely has changed my life.  I am going to the gym and working out a minimum of 3 days a week for 2 hrs.  I can now do 3.5 miles on the treadmill in under an hour and then go do the weight circuit or swim 10 laps in the pool.  I no longer require 4 hrs to recover after 30 minutes of exercise.  My bones and joints no longer hurt.  I actually look forward to going to the gym and am sad on the days when I have to work and cannot go.

I recently took 2 work related trips by myself.  The old me would never have done that.  I not only went to San Diego alone but I went to Las Vegas, and I had a wonderful time being me.  I wore a bathing suit and laid out by the pool and was confident.  I introduced myself to strangers and was secure in myself for the first time in a very long time.  I went to 2 shows by myself and did not feel like everyone was starring at me.  I went out to eat by myself and was comfortable sitting there reading a book.  I had so much fun!  The best part of my trip was that I fit comfortably in the airplane seat with room to spare on my seat belt.  That was a true WOW moment.

For the first time EVER I have nothing in my closet to wear because everything is now too BIG not too small.

My sister told me the other day that she thinks I am melting.  She said everytime she sees me I am smaller.

My two boys (5 and 2 1/2yrs old) can see a difference.  They always ask me what activities I have done when we go to the gym.  They say they want to work out with mommy.  I love that I am teaching them new and healthy lessons in life.

I can get up in the morning, run all day long, and still have some energy left at the end of the day.

For the first time in our relationship I weigh less than my husband (ok so only by 1 lb, but it will just keep coming off).

I can't wait to see how many inches I have lost this month.  I LOVE THIS LIFE!!!

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April 15th weight tracker
on April 15, 2008 10:00 am
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latest update
on March 27, 2008 4:31 pm
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3 months out and feeling FINE!
on March 17, 2008 1:00 pm
There is definately less of me to love these days, but I am not complaining.  Today I am down 66 lbs and over 43 inches.  I am so excited.  Everyday when I put on clothes that fit the day or week before, they are loose.  I LOVE THIS TOOL!

I am wearing 1-2XL scrubs, down from 4-5x scrubs.  I can wear a solid 24 and some 22's in jeans without stretch.  I am even fitting in some 18-20 size tops.  I am down from a size 50-52DD bra to a 44-46 C/D.  AMAZING.  

I fit in a booth without holding my breath.  I am actually looking forward to sitting on an Airplane this week to travel to San Diego for a conference because I know that this time I will not need an extender.

I am working out at the gym every day that I am off - usually 3-4 days per week and even took a barbell strength class the other morning after working a 24hr shift and I completed the class.  My kids love going to the gym too.  We joined Lifetime Fitness and it is really a great family centered place.  We are even going to a Bunny Buffet at the gym on Saturday with an Easter egg hunt and all kinds of goodies for the kiddos.

Anyway, in case you have not noticed I am OVER JOYED for this new lease on life.  I cannot wait to see what the next 3 months hold in store.  My husband and I are taking a cruise in June and I have another cruise planned for September for a friend's bachelorette party.  I should be SMOKIN hot by then!!!  

Until next time, keep the protein and water flowing and exercise, exercise, exercise!!!
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Ticker update
on March 10, 2008 12:00 am
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My Story

Philippians 4:13 --- I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. 
The road to success is not straight
There is a curve called Failure.  A loop called Confusion
Speed bumps called Friends.  Red lights called Enemies
Caution lights called Family.  You will have flats called Jobs 
But, if you have a spare called Determination.  An engine called Perseverance.  Insurance called Faith. 
A driver called Jesus...
You will make it to a place called Success!

 

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My story:

As with alot of other profiles I have read I too have had a weight problem my whole life.  I never remember being "thin" or even a "normal" weight.  I was always the CHUNKY kid.  Even when I took dance classes as a kid I was the girl with the BELLY in my tutu.  It was always so sad.  

I found humor early in life.  I found that if I was loud and funny people would like me.  If I made them laugh with me they tended not to laugh at me....at least to my face.

I lost my mother (who was always my best friend) when I was only 11 and from that point on FOOD became my best friend.  Don't get me wrong, I had friends.  I just always felt more comfortable with food than with people.  When I was around people I always felt like I had to be "ON".  Never letting my guard down for fear of getting hurt.  Besides, the people in my life that I loved always seemed to hurt me.  (Parents divorced when I was 2 - my father did not stay active in my childhood, my step father was physically and verbally abusive, and my mother got sick and died).  I was afraid to open myself up to people, but food and I became best friends.  Eating was a real "high" for me.  It made me feel good.  It comforted me when people could not.

As I grew up my love affair with food changed.  Slowly I no longer had that "warm fuzzy" feeling from food.  Those feelings were replaced with anger, guilt, disappointment and regret.  But at this point I was powerless to my addiction.  Although I knew that food had betrayed me I could not turn my back on it. 

When I graduated high school I weighed 167lbs.  By the time I got married at 32 I weighed 242 lbs, and now over a year since the birth of my second son I weigh ~ 312lbs.  I am tired of losing to food.  I hold 3 college degrees.  I know how and what I need to eat.  I just need help in doing it.  It has taken a lot of soul searching for me to reach the decision to have weight loss surgery.  All my life I have put others first.  It is time I did something for me.

I am looking forward to being a loser for the first time in my life.  I have much still to offer in my life time and I plan to take charge of my life and live every day to the fullest.

Here I come world, watch me emerge!

 


 


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